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MOURNING. 441<br />

pray before it morning <strong>and</strong> evening. This is kept up for seven<br />

weeks, <strong>and</strong> during each week, from <strong>the</strong> day of <strong>the</strong> death, a priest<br />

attends <strong>and</strong> reads hymns for an hour before <strong>the</strong> ifay. He is each<br />

time supplied with ornaments, <strong>and</strong> paid a fee of from five to six mas.<br />

During <strong>the</strong>se seven weeks <strong>the</strong> son goes every day, be <strong>the</strong> wea<strong>the</strong>r<br />

what it may, <strong>and</strong> says a prayer by <strong>the</strong><br />

grave. He wears his rush<br />

hat, through which he can see without being seen, speaks tc<br />

nobody, <strong>and</strong> is dressed in white. With this exception, <strong>and</strong> a cere<br />

monious visit, in <strong>the</strong> third, fourth or fifth week, to <strong>the</strong> relatives <strong>and</strong><br />

friends, he remains in his house, with <strong>the</strong> door fastened. It is cus-<br />

tomary to erect a small hut near <strong>the</strong> grave, in which a servant<br />

watches, noting down <strong>the</strong> names of all who come to visit it.<br />

When <strong>the</strong> seven weeks are over, <strong>the</strong> mourner shaves <strong>and</strong> dresses,<br />

opens his door, <strong>and</strong> goes, if an officer, to inform <strong>the</strong> governor that<br />

his days of mourning are over. He next pays a complimentary<br />

visit to all who attended <strong>the</strong> funeral, or have visited <strong>the</strong> grave,<br />

sending <strong>the</strong>m also a complimentary present. The sisek, or gravestone<br />

(almost precisely like those in use with us), is placed over <strong>the</strong><br />

grave, <strong>and</strong> two ifays, varnished black <strong>and</strong> superbly gilt, are provided,<br />

one of which is sent to a temple. The o<strong>the</strong>r remains at home,<br />

kept in a case in a small apartment, appropriated for that purpose,<br />

in which are kept <strong>the</strong> ifays of all <strong>the</strong> ancestors of <strong>the</strong> family. It<br />

is customary every morning, after rising <strong>and</strong> dressing, to take <strong>the</strong><br />

ifay out of its case, <strong>and</strong> to<br />

<strong>the</strong> head in token of respect.<br />

burn a little incense before it, bowing<br />

Though <strong>the</strong> wearing of white garments <strong>and</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r formalities of<br />

<strong>the</strong> special mourning, called imi, cease at <strong>the</strong> end of fifty days at<br />

<strong>the</strong> longest, bright colors are not to be worn, or a Sinto temple to<br />

be entered, for thirteen months, <strong>and</strong> this is called buku. For a<br />

husb<strong>and</strong>, imi lasts thirty days <strong>and</strong> buku thirteen months. For a<br />

wife, imi twenty days <strong>and</strong> buku three months ; for gr<strong>and</strong>-parents <strong>and</strong><br />

uncles, <strong>the</strong> periods are thirty days <strong>and</strong> five months ; for an eldest<br />

bro<strong>the</strong>r or sister, or aunt on <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r's side, <strong>and</strong> great-gr<strong>and</strong>-parents,<br />

twenty days <strong>and</strong> three months; for great-great-gr<strong>and</strong>-pa rents<br />

<strong>and</strong> aunts on <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>r's side, fa<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>and</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>rs-in-law, bro<strong>the</strong>r-in-<br />

law or sister-in-law, or eldest gr<strong>and</strong>child, ten days <strong>and</strong> one month ;<br />

for o<strong>the</strong>r gr<strong>and</strong>children, <strong>and</strong> for cousins of ei<strong>the</strong>r sex, <strong>and</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

children, three days <strong>and</strong> seven days. For children under th$

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