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Men vs. Women<br />
The Valentine’s Day Difference<br />
FLOWERS<br />
<br />
male counterpart. Although when it does happen,<br />
she will do extensive online research months in<br />
advance, and even go so far as to talk to the man’s<br />
grandmother to determine if he is allergic to any<br />
particular type of shrubbery; she will choose a foliage<br />
that compliments his lifestyle, and spend hours<br />
<br />
and is metaphorically symbolic of their relationship.<br />
The man? Paper roses purchased on February<br />
13th from the check-out counter of the convenience<br />
store…and the clerk was not from here, so they’re<br />
<br />
that giving dead vegetation sends the wrong<br />
message.<br />
CANDY<br />
The woman will<br />
undoubtedly already know<br />
what the man’s favorite<br />
candy is, and if possible, she<br />
will order custom-designed<br />
treats of the same in the<br />
shape of hearts; She may<br />
even go to the trouble of<br />
spending hours in the kitchen<br />
baking his favorite sweet<br />
delight complete with toppings<br />
and sprinkles in the shapes<br />
of memories of events in their relationship.<br />
The man will show up with the heart-shaped<br />
box of “assorted” chocolates (forgetting that you’re<br />
allergic), but in his defense, he did make sure not to<br />
get one of the “crushed” boxes. There’s nothing like<br />
cheap, fat-saturated sugar products to say “I love<br />
you.”<br />
CARDS<br />
The woman will spend hours browsing the<br />
greeting card sections of SEVERAL stores,<br />
searching for that one special saying, that one<br />
certain poem, that one picture that is perfectly in<br />
sync with their relationship and the feelings she<br />
<br />
$100 at the craft store buying the materials, and then<br />
stay up all night assembling the “perfect” card, made<br />
by hand, to show her love.<br />
The man will give her the dollar-store card he’s<br />
had under his truck seat since last year-- the one that<br />
he forgot to give to his last girlfriend. (And if he’s a<br />
smart man, he’ll white-out the last girlfriend’s name).<br />
By Mortimor Oullouitious Snerkleschwartz<br />
CLOTHING<br />
The woman will take the time to go through the<br />
man’s closet, and search for a jacket or shirt that<br />
compliments his existing wardrobe; she will make<br />
sure it matches his shoes and that he has all the<br />
necessary accessories that match, and insure it’s<br />
something he can wear in a formal setting, or to a<br />
casual event.<br />
The man will buy her sexy lingerie or at least what<br />
he thought was sexy in theory.<br />
JEWELRY<br />
<br />
sleeping to make sure she gets<br />
the right size, and make note of<br />
the style of watch he prefers, and<br />
purchase him an expensive piece<br />
of jewelry that blends perfectly<br />
with his existing attire, but also<br />
shows him that she feels he’s<br />
worth every penny she spent.<br />
The man will avoid jewelry<br />
stores like Superman running<br />
from kryptonite, fearing he may<br />
end up purchasing a ring. So,<br />
invariably, the woman gets the<br />
“Taking Care of Business” Elvis<br />
necklace he got at the Secret<br />
Santa event in December.<br />
Here’s the best advice ol’ Mort can give you;<br />
<br />
Day, simply because, well, women and men are<br />
<br />
Women want expressions of love, caring,<br />
compassion, commitment and understanding. Men?<br />
Well, beer and lingerie pretty much does it.<br />
But know this: While women are much better at<br />
expressing their feelings of love, it doesn’t mean the<br />
men don’t feel the same way. They just don’t know<br />
how to show it without blowing something up, or<br />
bringing home a carcass, thinking that will impress<br />
you. But women have to understand if the man is<br />
trying to impress YOU he doesn’t want to impress<br />
anyone else. That’s as close to an expression of<br />
commitment and love you’re going to get out of some<br />
ol’ boys.<br />
So to survive Valentine’s Day, women have to rely<br />
on that ONE gift that God gave them in abundance-patience.<br />
And men-- men just have to manage to get<br />
through the day without saying the wrong thing or<br />
blowing something up.<br />
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