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THE SOCIAL SYSTEM 8i<br />

title supersedes all others. A child addresses, and<br />

speaks <strong>of</strong>, his father as Taman, and his mother as<br />

Inai or Tinan, and all four grandparents as Poi.<br />

<strong>The</strong> parent commonly addresses the child, even<br />

when adult, as Anak, or uses his proper name.<br />

A father's brother is addressed as Amai, but this<br />

title is used also as a term <strong>of</strong> respect in addressing<br />

any older man not related in any degree, even<br />

though he be <strong>of</strong> a different tribe or race. <strong>The</strong>y use<br />

the word Inai for aunt as well as for mother, and<br />

some have adopted the Malay term Ma manakan<br />

for aunt proper. <strong>The</strong> same is true <strong>of</strong> the words for<br />

nephew and niece—the Malay term Anak manakan<br />

being used for both.<br />

<strong>The</strong> terms used to denote degrees <strong>of</strong> kinship are<br />

few, and are used in a very elastic manner. <strong>The</strong><br />

term <strong>of</strong> widest connotation is Parin Igat, which is<br />

equivalent to our cousin used in the wider or<br />

Scotch sense ; it is applied to all blood relatives <strong>of</strong><br />

the same generation, and is sometimes used in a<br />

metaphorical sense much as we use the term<br />

brother. <strong>The</strong>re are no words corresponding to our<br />

words son and daughter, anak meaning merely child<br />

<strong>of</strong> either sex. <strong>The</strong>re are no words corresponding<br />

to brother and sister ; both are spoken <strong>of</strong> as Parin,<br />

but this word is <strong>of</strong>ten used as a title <strong>of</strong> endearment<br />

in addressing or speaking <strong>of</strong> a friend <strong>of</strong> either sex<br />

<strong>of</strong> the same social standing and age as the speaker.<br />

<strong>The</strong> children <strong>of</strong> the same parents speak <strong>of</strong> themselves<br />

collectively as Panak ; this term also is sometimes<br />

used loosely and metaphorically. A stepfather<br />

Divan ;<br />

is Taman Dong] father-in-law is Taman<br />

forefather is Sipun, a term used <strong>of</strong> any male<br />

or female ancestor more remote than the grandparents<br />

; but these are merely descriptive and not<br />

terms <strong>of</strong> address. A man <strong>of</strong> the upper class not<br />

uncommonly has a favourite companion <strong>of</strong> the<br />

middle class, who accompanies him everywhere and<br />

VOL. I G

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