From Farm House to the White House - 912 Freedom Library
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<strong>Farm</strong> <strong>House</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>White</strong> <strong>House</strong>, by William M. Thayer 35<br />
Lawrence continued <strong>to</strong> read, "In your apparel, be modest, and endeavor <strong>to</strong> accommodate yourself <strong>to</strong> nature<br />
ra<strong>the</strong>r than <strong>to</strong> procure admiration; keep <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> fashion of your equals, such as are civil and orderly, with<br />
respect <strong>to</strong> times and places.<br />
"Wherein you reprove ano<strong>the</strong>r, be unblamable yourself, for example is better than precept.<br />
"When a man does all he can, though it succeeds not well, blame not him that did it."<br />
"Not many men reduce <strong>the</strong>se rules <strong>to</strong> practise very thoroughly," remarked Lawrence. "To square one's life by<br />
<strong>the</strong>se rules requires uncommon circumspection and decision. Few are equal <strong>to</strong> it."<br />
"I think that George comes as near doing it as any one," suggested Mrs. Washing<strong>to</strong>n.<br />
"I was just thinking of that," replied Lawrence. "I am not sure but his manly bearing is owing <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong>se rules.<br />
No one can think enough of <strong>the</strong>m <strong>to</strong> write <strong>the</strong>m down carefully in a book without being more or less<br />
influenced by <strong>the</strong>ir lessons."<br />
"It would seem so," remarked Mrs. Washing<strong>to</strong>n; "but are <strong>the</strong>re no rules relating <strong>to</strong> our higher duties <strong>to</strong> God<br />
among <strong>the</strong> whole number?"<br />
"Yes, several; but you should remember that <strong>the</strong>se are rules of behavior in company and conversation alone,<br />
and not our religious duties. But here is one rule that lies in that direction":<br />
"Labor <strong>to</strong> keep in your heart that little spark of celestial fire called conscience."<br />
"And here is ano<strong>the</strong>r":<br />
"If you speak of God or His attributes, let it be seriously, in reverence; and honor and obey your parents."<br />
"George has done that <strong>to</strong> perfection," remarked Lawrence. "Profanity and disobedience, even in <strong>the</strong>ir least<br />
offensive form, he was never guilty of. And here is still ano<strong>the</strong>r rule having reference <strong>to</strong> our higher<br />
obligations, which he has observed with commendable carefulness":<br />
"Let your recreations be manful, not sinful."<br />
"I think it is remarkable, as you say, that one so young as George should make such a collection of rules," said<br />
Mrs. Washing<strong>to</strong>n. "May it not be that a remarkable future is before him?"<br />
"It may be, and I am inclined <strong>to</strong> think it will be," answered Lawrence. "If a bright spring-time is <strong>the</strong> harbinger<br />
of an ample harvest, such a youth must foreshadow noble manhood."<br />
Thus were George's "Rules of Behavior in Company and Conversation" discussed at Mount Vernon, and <strong>the</strong><br />
young author of <strong>the</strong>m was more admired in consequence.<br />
We will furnish our readers with more of his "Rules," since all of <strong>the</strong>m are important, and had much <strong>to</strong> do,<br />
doubtless, with <strong>the</strong> formation of George's character.<br />
"Speak not of doleful things in time of mirth, nor at <strong>the</strong> table; speak not of melancholy things, as death and<br />
wounds; and if o<strong>the</strong>rs mention <strong>the</strong>m, change, if you can, <strong>the</strong> discourse. Tell not your dreams but <strong>to</strong> your<br />
intimate friend.<br />
"Break not a jest when none take pleasure in mirth; laugh not loud, nor at all, without occasion; deride no