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From: Mel Fuller
Subject: Help me
I made the mistake of telling my mother John and I made out, and now she's all over me
about cows and something she calls the "L" word. But she got me thinking: What is the rule?
You know, the sleeping-together rule. Like after how many dates are you allowed to sleep with
someone? Without seeming like a slut, I mean? And does it count as a date if you're sick and he
brings you ice cream? Vanilla ice cream, to be exact.
Mel
To: Mel Fuller
From: Nadine Wilcock
Subject: Help me
What does the term "slut" mean to you? It is a very subjective word, if you ask me. For
instance, I slept with Tony on our first date. Does that make me a slut?
Let's examine this: You like the guy. You want to jump his bones. But you are concerned that
if you do so too early in the relationship, he will qualify you as a slut. Do you really want
to be with someone who thinks in such pejorative terms? No, of course not.
So I think the answer to your question after how many dates are you allowed to sleep
with someone is: There is no right answer. It's different for everyone.
Wish I could be more help.
Nadine
To: Mel Fuller
From: Tony Salerno
Subject: Sex
Dear Mel,
Hi. I hope you don't mind, but Nadine mentioned the little problem you've been having-you
know, the one about how soon into a relationship do you Do the Deed. And I think I
have an answer for you: If it feels good, do it.
Seriously. That's how I've always lived my life, and look how it's turned out? I'm the
chef in my own restaurant, and I'm getting married to a totally hot lady who wears thongs
under her Ann Taylor. Can't go wrong with that.
T