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<strong>TRAMP</strong> – Transnational Mobility of Older People in Europe<br />
156 Part II<br />
Rules of social behaviour of B-people<br />
• B-people are very sociable and like to laugh.<br />
• In order to ensure the attention of discussion partners, they like to touch the other<br />
person’s arm. Respect is demonstrated by patting each other’s back.<br />
• Determination and honesty are important values in this society. It is uncommon to<br />
change the subject or to discuss unimportant details. Problems and desires are addressed<br />
directly, negotiations and disputes are brief and straightforward. Clear answers are very<br />
much appreciated.<br />
• B-people are very democratic: men and women are equal partners. Everyone can participate<br />
in discussions and voice an opinion. Everyone may add their own thoughts at<br />
any time during negotiations.<br />
• Someone who has achieved many good business transactions is considered a successful<br />
person. Collectively achieved assets are directly distributed among the members according<br />
to their rendered efforts. At the same time, all members have to invest into a joint<br />
project depending on their prospective efforts.<br />
• Family and business life is strictly separated.<br />
Questions for analysis<br />
• Question 1: What did you feel during the game and what were the reasons for this<br />
feeling?<br />
• Question 2: What did you learn about the other people’s culture? What were the behavioural<br />
rules of the others? What are the differences between the two cultures? The<br />
mentioned differences may be divided into the following categories, if necessary, with<br />
the help of facilitation cards:<br />
• Forms of greeting and social manners: different procedures, degree of ritualisation, degree<br />
of intensity<br />
• Body language, distance and closeness: gestures, facial expressions, proximity, body<br />
contacts<br />
• Communication behaviour: direct, indirect communication, degree of ritualisation<br />
• Business behaviour: separation or mixing of business and private life, land as commodity<br />
or inalienable commodity (private vs. common property)<br />
• Values such as politeness and honesty: relativity of honesty (yes – no); mutual exclusion<br />
of both aspects<br />
• Concept of time: slow or fast pace, task-oriented or appointment-oriented approach<br />
• Hierarchy of society: egalitarian or hierarchical order, individual freedom or orientation<br />
towards the community<br />
• Gender ratio: gender divide or gender mixing, differentiation of labour according to<br />
gender yes or no, gender allocation regarding public/private sector<br />
• Question 3: What were the difficulties of communication? What conflicts arose and<br />
how?<br />
• Question 4: Can experiences be transferred to real situations?<br />
• Question 5: What can be done to avoid conflicts?<br />
Further reading<br />
The exercise is downloadable from the internet <strong>und</strong>er various names (common terms for<br />
both parties are minorities and majorities), see e.g.<br />
• www.gwdg.de/~kflechs/iikdiaps2-93.htm<br />
• www.ikkompetenz.thueringen.de/fremdheitserfahrung/simulation/index.htm