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Present – Centeredness in Gestalt Therapy Claudio Naranjo

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never put anyth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to words; yet, with<strong>in</strong> limits, clarity of perception goes together with the ability<br />

to express, an artist be<strong>in</strong>g a master <strong>in</strong> awareness rather than a skilled patternmaker. And <strong>in</strong> art, as <strong>in</strong><br />

psychotherapy, the task of hav<strong>in</strong>g to communicate someth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>volves hav<strong>in</strong>g to really look at it<br />

rather than dream<strong>in</strong>g about look<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

2. The presence of a witness usually entails an enhancement both of attention and of the<br />

mean<strong>in</strong>gfulness of that which is observed. I th<strong>in</strong>k too that the more aware an observer is, the more<br />

our own attention is sharpened by his mere presence, as if consciousness were contagious or one<br />

person could not as easily avoid see<strong>in</strong>g what is exposed to the gaze of another.<br />

3. The contents of consciousness <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>terpersonal sett<strong>in</strong>g will naturally tend to be that of the<br />

<strong>in</strong>terpersonal relationship, whereas the solitary meditator focused on the here and now will<br />

systematically fail to f<strong>in</strong>d such contents <strong>in</strong> his field of awareness. S<strong>in</strong>ce it is ma<strong>in</strong>ly the patterns of<br />

relat<strong>in</strong>g and the self-image <strong>in</strong> the process of relat<strong>in</strong>g that are disturbed <strong>in</strong> psychopathological<br />

conditions, this factor looms large <strong>in</strong> mak<strong>in</strong>g the here-and-now exercise a therapy when <strong>in</strong> the I-thou<br />

sett<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

4. The <strong>in</strong>terpersonal situation makes present-centeredness more difficult, for it elicits projection,<br />

avoidance, and self-delusion <strong>in</strong> general. For <strong>in</strong>stance, what for the solitary meditator may be a series<br />

of observations of physical states may, <strong>in</strong> the context of communication, become embedded <strong>in</strong> a<br />

feel<strong>in</strong>g of anxiety about the therapist's eventual boredom, or <strong>in</strong> an assumption that such<br />

observations are trivial, or that they show the patient's essential barrenness. The elicitation of such<br />

feel<strong>in</strong>gs and fantasies is important.<br />

a. If present-centeredness is a desirable way of liv<strong>in</strong>g which is usually marred by the<br />

vicissitudes of <strong>in</strong>terpersonal relationships, the challenge of contact entails the ideal tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g<br />

situation. I would like to <strong>in</strong>vite the thought that the practice of liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the moment is truly an<br />

exercise and not merely an occasion for self-<strong>in</strong>sight. Just as <strong>in</strong> behavior therapy, this is a<br />

process of desensitization <strong>in</strong> the course of which a person becomes free of the central<br />

condition<strong>in</strong>g of avoid<strong>in</strong>g experience, and he learns that there is noth<strong>in</strong>g to fear.<br />

b. Related to the above is the fact that it is precisely the awareness of the difficulties <strong>in</strong><br />

presentcenteredness that can provide the first step toward overcom<strong>in</strong>g them. Experienc<strong>in</strong>g<br />

the compulsive quality of brood<strong>in</strong>g or plann<strong>in</strong>g may be <strong>in</strong>separable from an appreciation of the<br />

alternative to them, and of a true understand<strong>in</strong>g of the dist<strong>in</strong>ction between these states of<br />

m<strong>in</strong>d and present-centeredness.<br />

5. The therapeutic context allows for a monitor<strong>in</strong>g of the process of self-observation, whereby the<br />

therapist br<strong>in</strong>gs the patient back to the present when he has been distracted from it (that is, from<br />

himself). There are two ma<strong>in</strong> ways of do<strong>in</strong>g this. The simplest (aside from merely rem<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g him of<br />

the task) is to call his attention to what he is do<strong>in</strong>g unawares, by direct<strong>in</strong>g his attention to aspects<br />

of his behavior that seem to be automatic response patterns or to clash with his <strong>in</strong>tentional actions.<br />

Simply be<strong>in</strong>g mirror to him may serve to br<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to focus his relationship to himself and his actions <strong>in</strong><br />

general:<br />

P.: I don't know what to say now....

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