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<strong>Adlerian</strong> <strong>Brief</strong> <strong>Therapy</strong> 41<br />

shift to a more serious intervention is instantly recognized (again, enhancing<br />

awareness).<br />

The interventions that asked the client to decide between living or dying,<br />

between becoming a real person or giving up, represented a real shift in the<br />

conversation from more playful to more serious, and it is literally the beginning<br />

of reorienting the rules. At the same time, the therapist also discloses that saying<br />

something so difficult and direct can be hard to hear, inviting the client to<br />

comment, if she wants to, on her experience of this intervention. She chooses not<br />

to comment, which is her prerogative. A short time later, it seems useful to note<br />

a fear of rejection she might have, but therapeutically, the counselor does not<br />

want two relatively hard disclosures in a row. In this case, there is an audience,<br />

and asking the audience “what the fear might be” allows the client to take the<br />

information in from another source. Further, since the therapist has turned his<br />

awareness and contact toward the audience, the client is allowed to breathe, to<br />

relax a little, and to settle briefly into observation.<br />

This relaxation in the flow of therapy is also facilitated by a shift to<br />

Dreikurs’ (1997) objective interview. In the middle of approaching new options<br />

and strategies for change, a challenge that can often feel overwhelming, the client<br />

is invited to regain the role of expert in her own life, to bring the counselor up-to-<br />

date on her family constellation, the family atmosphere, and her early<br />

recollections. Throughout this process, the therapist is gathering a sense of the<br />

strength that is in the client and in the client’s background. These will become

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