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Two Approaches To Adlerian Brief Therapy - Buncombe County ...

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<strong>Adlerian</strong> <strong>Brief</strong> <strong>Therapy</strong> 36<br />

Therapist: They look the same as everybody. Now, up until a few<br />

weeks ago, you were the Will Rogers of Butte, Montana.<br />

You never met anybody you didn’t like and who didn’t like<br />

you. It’s true, isn’t it?<br />

Client: It’s more than a few weeks. It’s been several years. And my<br />

brother now is turned against me too. [Her last statement is<br />

an invitation to de-focus that the therapist cannot follow.]<br />

Therapist: Well, this is also true: When it rains it pours. The good news<br />

is that it also works the other way around. When you turn<br />

one thing around, whole bunches of things start to work out.<br />

Now, what were the skills that you used all those years in<br />

school counseling to win over everybody from the brilliant<br />

student to the snot? What were those skills that you used?<br />

Client: I just did what I could.<br />

Therapist: Like what?<br />

Client: I followed the rules.<br />

Therapist: That’s important. What else?<br />

Client: I reached out to others, and I was there for them.<br />

Prescribing new behavioral rituals through therapeutic experience<br />

Therapist: Okay, let’s try something. I will do a really bad version of<br />

Client: I hope not.<br />

your possible future daughter-in-law.

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