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<strong>Adlerian</strong> <strong>Brief</strong> <strong>Therapy</strong> 17<br />

Identifying the focus issue: Getting a behavioral description<br />

Client: I don’t know. I just feel unappreciated and unloved, and I<br />

don’t know. [This time, she speaks with real sadness in her voice,<br />

and I sense tears in her.]<br />

Therapist: And there’s some real sadness for you in that.<br />

Client: Yes.<br />

Therapist: Whom do you feel unappreciated by?<br />

Client: Just about everybody. [Her hurt is not global; it is specific, and<br />

I want to know the specifics.]<br />

Therapist: Of all the people you know who don’t appreciate you, who<br />

is most important you. Who have you lost that is most<br />

important?<br />

Client: My son.<br />

Therapist: Your son. Shall we stay with that for a while?<br />

Client: Ok.<br />

Therapist: Can you tell me a little about him and you, and what your<br />

relationship is like?<br />

Client: We were always very close. My son . . . I was divorced<br />

when he was six. I had another son who was four: so four<br />

and six. My older son kind of, I guess, took on the father<br />

role. I wasn’t aware of that at the time. I just went through<br />

life, and I didn’t think I was putting anything on him, but

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