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AFTER VIOLENCE: 3R, RECONSTRUCTION, RECONCILIATION ...

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something is usually referred to as emotions.<br />

Those emotions may be highly inspired by a social or world<br />

structure found unjust or at least in need of basic remedy, and be<br />

nourished and soothed by a culture informing them that he who<br />

takes up the sword and puts others to it will be justified. The<br />

cognition/emotion distinction is not so sharp that emotions cannot<br />

be analyzed cognitively, including by those driven by them. True,<br />

they may be blinded by a rage that also may have its physiological<br />

basis. But in general we fall back on culture and structure. To<br />

which we now turn, in a fourth effort.<br />

4. Violence, War, Trauma, Guilt - and the Search for Closure<br />

In the beginning was the act, not the word; physical movements<br />

were followed by verbal acts. Some acts are beneficial, they<br />

enhance others. Other acts are harmful: a punch with an arm, or<br />

the extension of an arm, arms, armies; a word that hurts, or the<br />

extension of bad-mouthing, propaganda. There are also neutral<br />

acts. But when tension and emotions are high, no act is neutral.<br />

The act is a transaction, between the two, sender and receiver, or<br />

perpetrator and victim/31/ if the act is violent, harmful. If the<br />

act is beneficial the bond may be friendship, even love. In<br />

either case reciprocity is the norm, not only the same quality in<br />

the sense of good for good, and evil for evil, but the same<br />

quantity ("an eye for an eye -") in this negative market for bads<br />

and disservices rather than goods and services.<br />

In Buddhist discourse beneficial acts carry merits to the<br />

author, the actor; and harmful acts carry demerits. Both have<br />

major consequences for the quality of the rebirth. In Christian<br />

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