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AFTER VIOLENCE: 3R, RECONSTRUCTION, RECONCILIATION ...

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things, words and exercises? My wound needs much more than that<br />

to heal; in the meantime vengeance remains my right!"<br />

Mr Guilt: "what I have done is so terrible that there is no<br />

way you can release me back to a normal life in general and<br />

relation with you in particular. I'll live with that forever."<br />

They both obtain the same thing with such maneuvers: not to<br />

have to heal the wound in the other and (re)build a normal<br />

relation (which, as often said, does not mean loving Other".<br />

68. Famous cases of apologies from statesmen would include the<br />

very moving act by Chancellor Willy Brandt, kneeling down in front<br />

of the 1947 monument to the Heroes of the Ghetto in Warszawa, and<br />

President Bill Clinton's Public Law 103-150 November 23 1994,<br />

apologizing for the overthrow of the Hawai'i monarchy in 1893.<br />

For an analysis of the difference between how Germany and Japan<br />

try the "Vergangenheitsbew„ltigung" (coming to terms with the<br />

past), see Ian Buruma, The Wages of Guilt: Memories of War in<br />

Germany and Japan, London: Meridian, 1994.<br />

69. Here interpreted as "if God is omniscient, omnipotent and<br />

omnipresent, why does He permit so much evil to happen?"<br />

70. Among the arguments for an International Tribunal i the right<br />

of the victim to voice and ear. This right, can, of course, also<br />

be taken care of by a Truth & Reconciliation process, South<br />

African model.<br />

71. For one excellent text, see Richard Causton, The Buddha in<br />

Daily Life,London: Random House, 1995, pp.168ff, "The Buddhist<br />

View of Causality".<br />

72. An inscription found by the present author on the former wall<br />

around the former West Berlin. How true, for that Tale of Two<br />

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