PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
28 Two: I Know Who You Are, But What Am I? Th ink deeply Visualize Woody Allen, the quiet, unassuming director, actor, and clarinet player who covets his privacy. In most of his movies, either he or his characters agonize over what to do next, what and how their feelings operate, and how to ultimately do the right thing. He typically puts his emotions under a microscope where he analyzes and reanalyzes them. Cautious Th inkers also can become overwhelmed by indecision when pressure builds. Due to compliance to their own personal standards, they demand a lot from themselves and others and may succumb to overly critical tendencies. But Cautious Th inkers oft en keep their criticisms to themselves, hesitating to tell people what they think is defi cient. Th ey typically share information, both positive and negative, only on a “need to know” basis when they are assured that there will be no negative consequences for themselves. When Cautious Th inkers quietly hold their ground, they do so as a direct result of their proven knowledge of facts and details or their evaluation that others will tend to react less assertively. So they can be assertive when they perceive they’re in control of a relationship or their environment. Having determined the specifi c risks, margins of error, and other variables that signifi cantly infl uence the desired results, they will take action. Cautious Th inkers entertain uniquely Cautious Th inker entertainers want to move beyond the audience, since they are motivated to deliver a one-of-a-kind, captivating, near-perfect performance. Th ey want spectators to think, “What a unique performance” or “Nothing else is quite like it!” When they take their varied stages, Cautious Th inker entertainers have meticulously
prepared themselves to provide a memorable experience with each intense performance--a key reason why they seem more emotionally drained from their own eff orts. Cautious Th inker countries Under adverse political and geographic conditions, two Cautious Th inker countries have historically fi gured out creative, intuitive ways to survive. Both Sweden and Switzerland have harsh winter climates, but they’ve mastered the art of survival. Switzerland, especially, boasts a substantial corner on the market of world fi nance. For a small country, it controls a disproportionate amount of the world’s money. And Sweden, long known as a land that appreciates beauty, continues to have a worldwide impact in exporting its aesthetic talents, products, and services resulting from cultivated eff orts. Whether watching a professional tennis match or beauty contest, we frequently see a representative from sparsely populated Sweden in the running for top honors. And, whether shopping for distinctive items- -such as Scandinavian sweaters, needlework, furniture, craft s or other unique objects--or tasty and eye-catching bakery goods, the artistic fl air of the Swedish heritage has universal appeal. Which of the following Cautious Th inker characteristics listed below match individuals you know with cultural roots similar to those discussed above? • careful--methodical and cautious; don't jump into things initially • precise--need to be accurate, so they check and recheck in their eff ort to fi nd the right or best available answer • proper-- more formal, discreet, and inclined to allow others to be in their own space, expecting the same for themselves 29
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prepared themselves to provide a memorable experience with each<br />
<strong>in</strong>tense performance--a key reason why they seem more emotionally<br />
dra<strong>in</strong>ed from their own eff orts.<br />
Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>ker countries<br />
Under adverse political and geographic conditions, two Cautious<br />
Th <strong>in</strong>ker countries have historically fi gured out creative, <strong>in</strong>tuitive ways<br />
to survive. Both Sweden and Switzerland have harsh w<strong>in</strong>ter climates,<br />
but they’ve mastered the art of survival. Switzerland, especially, boasts<br />
a substantial corner on the market of world fi nance. For a small country,<br />
it controls a disproportionate amount of the world’s money. And<br />
Sweden, long known as a land that appreciates beauty, cont<strong>in</strong>ues to<br />
have a worldwide impact <strong>in</strong> export<strong>in</strong>g its aesthetic talents, products,<br />
and services result<strong>in</strong>g from cultivated eff orts.<br />
Whether watch<strong>in</strong>g a professional tennis match or beauty contest, we<br />
frequently see a representative from sparsely populated Sweden <strong>in</strong> the<br />
runn<strong>in</strong>g for top honors. And, whether shopp<strong>in</strong>g for dist<strong>in</strong>ctive items-<br />
-such as Scand<strong>in</strong>avian sweaters, needlework, furniture, craft s or other<br />
unique objects--or tasty and eye-catch<strong>in</strong>g bakery goods, the artistic<br />
fl air of the Swedish heritage has universal appeal.<br />
Which of the follow<strong>in</strong>g Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>ker characteristics listed below<br />
match <strong>in</strong>dividuals you know with cultural roots similar to those<br />
discussed above?<br />
• careful--methodical and cautious; don't jump <strong>in</strong>to th<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>in</strong>itially<br />
• precise--need to be accurate, so they check and recheck <strong>in</strong> their<br />
eff ort to fi nd the right or best available answer<br />
• proper-- more formal, discreet, and <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to allow others to be<br />
<strong>in</strong> their own space, expect<strong>in</strong>g the same for themselves<br />
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