PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
14 Two: I Know Who You Are, But What Am I? “Do as I say” Since Dominant Directors need to have control, they like to take the lead in both business and social settings. Th ey sometimes behave almost claustrophobically if they perceive someone is trying to stymie them. As natural renegades, Dominant Directors want to satisfy their need for autonomy. Th ey want things done their way or no way at all. Strengths and weaknesses Th ey oft en prefer strong directive management and operational tendencies and work quickly and impressively by themselves. Dominant Directors try to shape their environments to overcome obstacles en route to their accomplishments. Th ey demand maximum freedom to manage themselves and others, using their leadership skills to become winners. Additionally, Dominant Directors oft en have good administration and delegation skills. Th is matches their motivating need. In fact, if they could delegate their exercise regimens or visits to the dentist’s offi ce, they probably would. Th ese assertive types tend to appear cool, independent, and competitive. Th ey opt for measurable results, including their own personal worth, as determined by individual track records. Of all the types, they like and initiate changes the most. We symbolize this personality type with a lion--a leader, an authority. At least, they may, at least, have the inner desires to be #1, the star, or the chief. Less positive Dominant Director components include stubbornness, impatience, and toughness. Naturally preferring to take control of others, they may have a low tolerance for the feelings, attitudes, and “inadequacies” of co-workers, subordinates, friends, families, and romantic interests. From general to specifi c Dominant Directors process data conceptually by using deductive reasoning--from general to specifi c information. Th ey are more comfortable using the left brain more than the right. When combined with
their need for control, this helps us better understand the emphasis on getting down to the bottom line results. Masters of “mind control” Th ey may use various “mind control” techniques to help them focus on one task priority at a time. For instance, some are adept at blocking out distractions when they immerse themselves in projects. Th ey don’t hear voices, sirens, or doorbells. Th ey seem to channel all their energies into specifi c jobs. Similarly, in a summer biology class, the instructor, Dr. Rains, seemed oblivious to the smell (and the grumbling) when his students dissected decomposed fi sh. While the class choked and hurried from their desks to the windows to gulp for air, Dr. Rains instructed them like the odor were an everyday occurrence. No big deal. Not to him, anyway. Venting relieves their tension Under pressure, Dominant Directors are likely to rid themselves of anger by ranting, raving, or challenging others. Th ey naturally react to tense situations with a fi ght response. Th is tendency refl ects the Dominant Directors’ natural blind spots concerning other people’s views and feelings. Although this venting allows the relief of their own inner tensions and hostilities, other personality types may feel intimidated by this natural, (for them!) stress reducing practice. But the Dominant Directors’ barks usually exceed their bites, and they may soon forget what specifi cally upset them in the fi rst place. “Watch this performance” Dominant Director musicians and performers typically seek to simultaneously command the stage and awe their audience. Th ey envision themselves rising above their admirers and peers and moving into the position of number one, the best ever. Vince Lombardi, the former coach of the Green Bay Packers, coined this typical Dominant Director statement: “Winning isn’t everything; it’s the only thing.” 15
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14<br />
Two: I Know Who You Are, But What Am I?<br />
“Do as I say”<br />
S<strong>in</strong>ce Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors need to have control, they like to take<br />
the lead <strong>in</strong> both bus<strong>in</strong>ess and social sett<strong>in</strong>gs. Th ey sometimes behave<br />
almost claustrophobically if they perceive someone is try<strong>in</strong>g to stymie<br />
them. As natural renegades, Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors want to satisfy their<br />
need for autonomy. Th ey want th<strong>in</strong>gs done their way or no way at all.<br />
Strengths and weaknesses<br />
Th ey oft en prefer strong directive management and operational tendencies<br />
and work quickly and impressively by themselves. Dom<strong>in</strong>ant<br />
Directors try to shape their environments to overcome obstacles en<br />
route to their accomplishments. Th ey demand maximum freedom to<br />
manage themselves and others, us<strong>in</strong>g their leadership skills to become<br />
w<strong>in</strong>ners. Additionally, Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors oft en have good adm<strong>in</strong>istration<br />
and delegation skills. Th is matches their motivat<strong>in</strong>g need.<br />
In fact, if they could delegate their exercise regimens or visits to the<br />
dentist’s offi ce, they probably would.<br />
Th ese assertive types tend to appear cool, <strong>in</strong>dependent, and competitive.<br />
Th ey opt for measurable results, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g their own personal<br />
worth, as determ<strong>in</strong>ed by <strong>in</strong>dividual track records. Of all the types, they<br />
like and <strong>in</strong>itiate changes the most. We symbolize this personality type<br />
with a lion--a leader, an authority. At least, they may, at least, have the<br />
<strong>in</strong>ner desires to be #1, the star, or the chief.<br />
Less positive Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Director components <strong>in</strong>clude stubbornness,<br />
impatience, and toughness. Naturally preferr<strong>in</strong>g to take control<br />
of others, they may have a low tolerance for the feel<strong>in</strong>gs, attitudes,<br />
and “<strong>in</strong>adequacies” of co-workers, subord<strong>in</strong>ates, friends, families, and<br />
romantic <strong>in</strong>terests.<br />
From general to specifi c<br />
Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors process data conceptually by us<strong>in</strong>g deductive<br />
reason<strong>in</strong>g--from general to specifi c <strong>in</strong>formation. Th ey are more comfortable<br />
us<strong>in</strong>g the left bra<strong>in</strong> more than the right. When comb<strong>in</strong>ed with