PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
114 Five: On the Job Steady Relaters want to be part of the group Since Steady Relaters seek security and inclusion with the group, they can contribute to the workplace with their natural planning skills, consistent pace, and their desire to fi t in. Like Interacting Socializers, they favor work relationships on a casual, fi rst name basis; but Steady Relaters generally prefer developing special, more in-depth friendships with selected co-workers than do their social butterfl y, Interacting Socializer, counterparts. So while Interacting Socializers may talk to anyone who will listen, Steady Relaters prefer involvement with a closer group of confi dants. Steady Relaters also want stability, steadiness, and a calm atmosphere in the workplace. Th ey contribute to harmony in the offi ce, so they usually fi t comfortably into the work environment, but they also oft en become overly dependent on using the same old methods over and over again. Sometimes these procedures include steps needed when they learned the procedure, but which can now be discarded. Th ey may improve their work productivity by using shortcuts that eliminate extra labor. Dominant Directors and Interacting Socializers can oft en help them with this. And, when asked, Cautious Th inkers can generally demonstrate new ways to get things done through other processes. Why change? Th e Steady Relater is the optimistic realist among the four types. A pragmatist, he likes to do routine things with familiar people to maintain the same situation. He performs regularly and deliberately toward this end of holding onto or striving for continuity, peace, and orderliness. Changes and surprises make him uncomfortable because they alter the current formula. Instead, he prefers to refi ne existing practices.
“Modesty is the best policy” Just as they may think their own job performance needs no selfpromotion, they may think (not say) the same about others’ work. “I wish John would stop boasting about what a wonderful job he does. He seems to spend half the day promoting himself, rather than doing the work that’s already on his desk.” Th ey oft en fi gure that if the boss (or anyone else) doesn’t see what’s going on, they don’t want to have to be the ones to confront others about this unpleasant reality. Remember . . . STEADY RELATER BUSINESS CHARACTERISTICS • Need to know the order of procedures • Operate well as members of a work group • Motivated by usual, known, and proven practices • Oriented toward more concrete, repeatable actions • Want order and ability in the workplace • Focus on how and when to do things • Work in a steady and predictable manner • Like a long-term relationship with their business place and their fellow employees STEADY RELATER: PREFERRED BUSINESS SITUATIONS • Like to perform the same kinds of duties day aft er day (no matter what the importance of the type of work involved) • Prefer to work cooperatively with others to achieve common results 115
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114<br />
Five: On the Job<br />
Steady Relaters want to be part of the group<br />
S<strong>in</strong>ce Steady Relaters seek security and <strong>in</strong>clusion with the group,<br />
they can contribute to the workplace with their natural plann<strong>in</strong>g skills,<br />
consistent pace, and their desire to fi t <strong>in</strong>. Like Interact<strong>in</strong>g Socializers,<br />
they favor work relationships on a casual, fi rst name basis; but Steady<br />
Relaters generally prefer develop<strong>in</strong>g special, more <strong>in</strong>-depth friendships<br />
with selected co-workers than do their social butterfl y, Interact<strong>in</strong>g<br />
Socializer, counterparts. So while Interact<strong>in</strong>g Socializers may talk<br />
to anyone who will listen, Steady Relaters prefer <strong>in</strong>volvement with a<br />
closer group of confi dants.<br />
Steady Relaters also want stability, stead<strong>in</strong>ess, and a calm atmosphere<br />
<strong>in</strong> the workplace. Th ey contribute to harmony <strong>in</strong> the offi ce, so<br />
they usually fi t comfortably <strong>in</strong>to the work environment, but they also<br />
oft en become overly dependent on us<strong>in</strong>g the same old methods over<br />
and over aga<strong>in</strong>. Sometimes these procedures <strong>in</strong>clude steps needed<br />
when they learned the procedure, but which can now be discarded.<br />
Th ey may improve their work productivity by us<strong>in</strong>g shortcuts that<br />
elim<strong>in</strong>ate extra labor. Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors and Interact<strong>in</strong>g Socializers<br />
can oft en help them with this. And, when asked, Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>kers<br />
can generally demonstrate new ways to get th<strong>in</strong>gs done through<br />
other processes.<br />
Why change?<br />
Th e Steady Relater is the optimistic realist among the four types.<br />
A pragmatist, he likes to do rout<strong>in</strong>e th<strong>in</strong>gs with familiar people to<br />
ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> the same situation. He performs regularly and deliberately<br />
toward this end of hold<strong>in</strong>g onto or striv<strong>in</strong>g for cont<strong>in</strong>uity, peace,<br />
and orderl<strong>in</strong>ess. Changes and surprises make him uncomfortable<br />
because they alter the current formula. Instead, he prefers to refi ne<br />
exist<strong>in</strong>g practices.