PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule

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112 Five: On the Job others, following tried and true procedures, or a combination of the two. If these tactics fail, they may quietly do nothing. Doing nothing may include higher absenteeism; when confl ict and stress increase, Steady Relater tolerance may decrease. “Are we ready yet?” As with any trait, the Steady Relater’s propensity for studying procedures and doing repetitious tasks can sometimes be taken to an extreme. For instance, the following anecdote about the Steady Relater type illustrates this point. Aft er Michelangelo (a Cautious Th inker, our next type) completed the frescoes on the ceilings of the Sistine Chapel, the Pope asked him to draw up architectural plans for St. Peter’s Cathedral. Since Michelangelo had passed his 80th birthday, he drew up the massive and complex plans in less than two years and then turned them over to his most promising apprentice—a Steady Relater. Th is slower moving cohort’s approach to implementing these plans was to study them step by step, day aft er day, year aft er year, time and again. Finally—aft er 23 years—he was ready to direct his eff orts to the actual building of this world famous cathedral. Service is their business Steady Relaters tend to gravitate toward relationships that provide them with security, stability, and large doses of routine; these positions satisfy some of their rather maternal or paternal needs. While we know that not all elementary school teachers are Steady Relaters, this behavioral type is inclined to pursue careers that fi t their natural desire for repeated group and one-to-one people contact, preference for sameness, and the opportunity to help or support others. Personally, we’ve observed many Steady Relater preschool, elementary, and middle school teachers—especially among those employees reporting higher levels of job satisfaction.

Actions speak louder than words Inherently modest and accommodating, Steady Relaters usually think their actions speak for themselves. While Dominant Directors and Interacting Socializers pat themselves on the backs, Steady Relaters tend to simply nod and listen. Inwardly, they may want to divulge a personal triumph, but they won’t volunteer it. If someone asks them about it, fi ne. Or, better yet, an ally may pipe up about the Steady Relater’s coup. Steady Relaters tend to adopt a Me last, if there’s time, attitude. At work, this type may think he should get a promotion, but is likely to just wait for the boss to notice what a good job he’s doing, rather than bring it to his supervisor’s attention. S leaders Politically, Steady Relaters act approachable and down-to-earth. Consider President Dwight D. Eisenhower, who also served as NATO’s Supreme Allied Commander during World War II. His Presidential campaign button said simply, “I like Ike!” a Steady Relater-like understatement if there ever was one. Th e man was probably one of our most popular Presidents ever. Voters warmed to his down-to-earth, Aw, shucks mannerisms and easygoing smile. But despite their likability, Steady Relaters naturally have diffi culty taking tough stands. Steady Relater military leaders go by the book—a manifestation of their deductive, convergent, left brain orientations. Th ey are driven by a basic need to use predictable, steady actions to yield known, proven results. At the most extreme, their battle cry is Ready! Ready! Ready! In fact, they might still be getting ready when the enemy fi res. Th en they may react by saying to others in their group, “Hold the fort!” Or “Toe the line!” Or “What’s the SOP (standard operating procedure) for us to follow in this kind of situation?” 113

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others, follow<strong>in</strong>g tried and true procedures, or a comb<strong>in</strong>ation of the<br />

two. If these tactics fail, they may quietly do noth<strong>in</strong>g. Do<strong>in</strong>g noth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

may <strong>in</strong>clude higher absenteeism; when confl ict and stress <strong>in</strong>crease,<br />

Steady Relater tolerance may decrease.<br />

“Are we ready yet?”<br />

As with any trait, the Steady Relater’s propensity for study<strong>in</strong>g procedures<br />

and do<strong>in</strong>g repetitious tasks can sometimes be taken to an extreme.<br />

For <strong>in</strong>stance, the follow<strong>in</strong>g anecdote about the Steady Relater<br />

type illustrates this po<strong>in</strong>t. Aft er Michelangelo (a Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>ker, our<br />

next type) completed the frescoes on the ceil<strong>in</strong>gs of the Sist<strong>in</strong>e Chapel,<br />

the Pope asked him to draw up architectural plans for St. Peter’s Cathedral.<br />

S<strong>in</strong>ce Michelangelo had passed his 80th birthday, he drew up<br />

the massive and complex plans <strong>in</strong> less than two years and then turned<br />

them over to his most promis<strong>in</strong>g apprentice—a Steady Relater. Th is<br />

slower mov<strong>in</strong>g cohort’s approach to implement<strong>in</strong>g these plans was to<br />

study them step by step, day aft er day, year aft er year, time and aga<strong>in</strong>.<br />

F<strong>in</strong>ally—aft er 23 years—he was ready to direct his eff orts to the actual<br />

build<strong>in</strong>g of this world famous cathedral.<br />

Service is their bus<strong>in</strong>ess<br />

Steady Relaters tend to gravitate toward relationships that provide<br />

them with security, stability, and large doses of rout<strong>in</strong>e; these positions<br />

satisfy some of their rather maternal or paternal needs. While<br />

we know that not all elementary school teachers are Steady Relaters,<br />

this behavioral type is <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to pursue careers that fi t their natural<br />

desire for repeated group and one-to-one people contact, preference<br />

for sameness, and the opportunity to help or support others. Personally,<br />

we’ve observed many Steady Relater preschool, elementary, and<br />

middle school teachers—especially among those employees report<strong>in</strong>g<br />

higher levels of job satisfaction.

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