PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule PeopleSmart in Business eBook - The Platinum Rule
100 Five: On the Job pecially, brings out his natural apprehensiveness about people. When under duress, he may even seize control and make himself the leader—his natural me fi rst tendency. Consequently, the Dominant Director needs a co-worker who draws him into the group. Dominant Directors oft en take themselves too seriously and can benefi t from gentle reminders to take life less seriously and laugh at themselves. Competition motivates Dominant Directors Because he’s so competitive, he may view himself as participating in perpetual contests with others. Other styles may see themselves as merely giving reports—period. Not so for the Dominant Director. His report jockeys for position against yours. He needs to have control, so one-upmanship can become one of his favorite games. In this extreme Dominant Director game, he fi lls the role of the all-seeing, all-knowing expert. Everyone else, by contrast, becomes a babbling idiot. Not a particularly appetizing thought for the rest of us. Dominant Directors can learn how to occasionally walk away He can also help himself by learning when to walk away from a project and let others assume control. Otherwise, his tendency to hold on can frustrate the other types. People also tend to respond more favorably to the Dominant Director when he verbalizes the reasons for his conclusions and paces himself to project a more relaxed state. He can also soft en his propensity for reprimanding others by tempering criticism with healthy doses of genuinely appreciative praise. Otherwise, about the only time you’ll hear a Dominant Director say, “Well done!” is when he orders a steak. Remember, people have feelings As natural doers, they may need some help channeling their energies. Why? Because they may have trouble distinguishing the realistic
from the awe-inspiring. Of all the types, this one is the most likely to try even harder if told, “Th at’s impossible.” When Dominant Directors learn to become aware of other people’s feelings, they become more successful in developing satisfying relationships with them. Since this type has a natural inclination toward authoritarianism, he can work on recognizing when it’s appropriate to consciously back off , slow down his fast pace, and listen more to other people’s opinions, ideas, and concerns. Besides bolstering his people skills, he can also attend to analyzing tasks more thoroughly. He instinctively wants to hurry on to the next challenge, but he can ward off many problems that result from his typical hastiness by learning more details about projects than he would otherwise seek out. Other behavioral types may not share the Dominant Director’s preferences for quick results and blunt straightforwardness. By becoming less rigid in his direct approach with others, he can better learn to manage the diff erences between people and modify his own. Remember . . . DOMINANT DIRECTOR BUSINESS CHARACTERISTICS • Prefer time frames • Seek personal control • Get to the point • Strive to feel important and be noteworthy in their jobs • Demonstrate persistence and single-mindedness to reach a goal • Express high ego strength • Prefer to downplay feelings and relationships • Focus on task actions that lead to achieving tangible outcomes 101
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from the awe-<strong>in</strong>spir<strong>in</strong>g. Of all the types, this one is the most likely to<br />
try even harder if told, “Th at’s impossible.”<br />
When Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Directors learn to become aware of other people’s<br />
feel<strong>in</strong>gs, they become more successful <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g satisfy<strong>in</strong>g relationships<br />
with them. S<strong>in</strong>ce this type has a natural <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ation toward<br />
authoritarianism, he can work on recogniz<strong>in</strong>g when it’s appropriate to<br />
consciously back off , slow down his fast pace, and listen more to other<br />
people’s op<strong>in</strong>ions, ideas, and concerns. Besides bolster<strong>in</strong>g his people<br />
skills, he can also attend to analyz<strong>in</strong>g tasks more thoroughly. He <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively<br />
wants to hurry on to the next challenge, but he can ward off<br />
many problems that result from his typical hast<strong>in</strong>ess by learn<strong>in</strong>g more<br />
details about projects than he would otherwise seek out.<br />
Other behavioral types may not share the Dom<strong>in</strong>ant Director’s preferences<br />
for quick results and blunt straightforwardness. By becom<strong>in</strong>g<br />
less rigid <strong>in</strong> his direct approach with others, he can better learn to<br />
manage the diff erences between people and modify his own.<br />
Remember . . .<br />
DOMINANT DIRECTOR BUSINESS CHARACTERISTICS<br />
• Prefer time frames<br />
• Seek personal control<br />
• Get to the po<strong>in</strong>t<br />
• Strive to feel important and be noteworthy <strong>in</strong> their jobs<br />
• Demonstrate persistence and s<strong>in</strong>gle-m<strong>in</strong>dedness to reach a goal<br />
• Express high ego strength<br />
• Prefer to downplay feel<strong>in</strong>gs and relationships<br />
• Focus on task actions that lead to achiev<strong>in</strong>g tangible outcomes<br />
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