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mitment and a sacrifice for their families,<br />

but they value an American education and<br />

believe it is the key to success.<br />

Nguyen hopes that someday she’ll be<br />

able to start an organization to help other<br />

Vietnamese students study abroad. “When<br />

we go abroad we learn about the ways that<br />

people do things differently. It’s important<br />

for people to learn about diverse ways of<br />

thinking and being. Vietnam is a monoculture<br />

and people are not exposed to differences<br />

that much,” she says.<br />

In the last two decades, it has become<br />

more common for Vietnamese students<br />

to seek a college education in the United<br />

States or Europe. “The education system in<br />

my country is out of date,” says Nguyen.<br />

“Our curriculum emphasizes theory rather<br />

than practice. Students are required to take<br />

all classes designed by the school, some of<br />

which are irrelevant, such as Marxism and<br />

Leninism. We do not get to choose what to<br />

study. The U.S. has the liberal arts model<br />

that allows us to follow our dream. Here<br />

I was able to take courses like studio art,<br />

earth science, and classes such as Exploring<br />

Nature, Health and Wellness, along with<br />

courses in my major. I also took writing. I<br />

love creative writing; that was one of my<br />

favorite courses.”<br />

Nguyen was active outside the classroom<br />

as well and joined the Dance Club<br />

and the CSC Singers. She tried swimming<br />

lessons and participated in Cross Cultural<br />

Club. “A major adjustment I made to adapt<br />

to life here was learning to participate in<br />

group activities. At home we don’t hang<br />

out with such big groups, everything is<br />

more individualized,” Nguyen says. “Life<br />

here is very different. I come from a pretty<br />

busy city where we do not get to see<br />

nature a lot. It is cool to have my nature<br />

class go outside of the classroom to learn<br />

about the trees and animals of this area.<br />

We identified tracks of mice, chipmunks,<br />

deer and turkey. I’ve seen a lot of birds,<br />

including the loons on Pleasant Lake.”<br />

That Nguyen and her sister studied<br />

abroad is not unusual for students of their<br />

generation, but the fact that their mother<br />

studied abroad is. “Women of<br />

my generation, particularly in big<br />

cities, have been more active in<br />

almost every aspect of life in comparison<br />

with our parents’ generation.<br />

We have equal opportunity to<br />

20 COLBY-SAWYER ALUMNI MAGAZINE<br />

PHOTO: Marsha Johnson ’59<br />

The Nyugen family welcomed daughter Zui’s Friendship<br />

Family, Marsha and Bruce Johnson of New<br />

London, N.H., and their granddaughter, Katy Svec,<br />

to their home in Hanoi, Vietnam, for dinner in<br />

January 2010 during the Johnson’s three-week visit<br />

to Vietnam and Cambodia. The Johnsons visited<br />

Katy, who was studying in Vietnam as part of a<br />

“gap year” study abroad program before college.<br />

(Above) Nhuang Vu and Binh Nguyen (on left) relax<br />

with Bruce and granddaughter Katy. (At right) Mrs.<br />

Nguyen and Marsha Johnson. The couples communicated<br />

with assistance from Katy, who was learning<br />

the Vietnamese language and was able to translate.<br />

go to school and pursue our own career,”<br />

Nguyen says. “A lot of our friends also<br />

come to the U.S. for their higher education;<br />

some go home after they finish<br />

school, some stay.”<br />

In fact, she says, many Vietnamese who<br />

study abroad come from her high school in<br />

Hanoi. During a visit to the Johnsons’ daughter’s<br />

home in Andover, Mass., Nguyen was<br />

introduced to a Vietnamese teacher at<br />

Phillips Andover Academy. She soon discovered<br />

that this man’s father had been her<br />

former principal, his mother was her former<br />

teacher, and his younger brother had been<br />

her classmate in her Hanoi high school .<br />

Extending the Family<br />

Marsha Johnson’s granddaughter, Katy,<br />

decided to study in Vietnam last year<br />

after graduating from high school in<br />

Massachusetts. She had met Nguyen at<br />

Johnson family gatherings and found out<br />

that she would be home for a few days<br />

“Zui is a very self-reliant person.<br />

These kids have got to have a lot<br />

of inner strength just to be here.”<br />

–Marsha Johnson<br />

more when Katy first arrived in Hanoi.<br />

Katy was able to connect with Nguyen’s<br />

family and Nguyen’s mother extended a<br />

hand of friendship to her many more times<br />

throughout the year, inviting her to a meal<br />

and hosting her for the weekend.<br />

In February the Johnsons traveled to<br />

Vietnam and Cambodia to visit Katy and<br />

see the sights. They were welcomed into<br />

the Nguyens’ home and spent an evening<br />

visiting and talking with her parents.<br />

Katy translated as best she could as they<br />

sat around a low coffee table, eating<br />

delicious spring rolls, traditional noodle<br />

soup, shrimp and vegetables. For dessert,<br />

Nguyen’s mother presented a beautiful<br />

platter of bananas and watermelon. The<br />

Johnsons kept their coats on during the<br />

chilly visit because most homes there have<br />

no central heating and Zui’s mom likes<br />

to keep the doors and windows open to<br />

enjoy the fresh air.<br />

What Nguyen misses most about home<br />

are family gatherings like the one the<br />

Johnsons enjoyed, and the busy city streets<br />

where she and her friends can go window<br />

shopping and buy food from the many<br />

street vendors. Small tables with<br />

low plastic chairs provide makeshift<br />

sidewalk cafes where Nguyen and<br />

her friends hang out and eat noodle<br />

soup. “It’s kind of like some of the<br />

restaurants in Hanover that have<br />

tables outdoors on the sidewalk,

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