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EP<br />
04<br />
60<br />
<strong>Managing</strong> <strong>External</strong> <strong>Relations</strong><br />
Tips for productive listening<br />
♦ Talk less. Most of us talk more than we need to, tell people more than<br />
they need to know, and take too long to say things without being clear.<br />
♦ When someone is speaking, clear your mind to focus on his/her message.<br />
♦ Listen to the whole message instead of getting your impression from<br />
the first few sentences.<br />
♦ Don’t tune out speakers because you don’t like their appearance—<br />
keep an open mind.<br />
♦ Write down what you may not remember.<br />
♦ Listen for intent as well as content—get the whole message by<br />
watching the person.<br />
♦ Listen first and then analyse. Do not interrupt with analysis<br />
before you have listened.<br />
♦ Avoid distractions or fidgeting while you are listening.<br />
Four Keys to an Effective Presentation<br />
Be prepared—Although you will probably know your topic well, sometimes information is relatively<br />
new or you may be nervous. It is important to give people the feeling that you know what you are<br />
talking about. You can develop this confidence by rehearsing your material—go over a speech out<br />
loud, record it on a tape recorder or video tape yourself. Listen to your voice for sincerity, intensity,<br />
volume, inflection (highs and lows), pronunciation, and drama (use of pauses). Judge whether or not<br />
you sound confident.<br />
Rehearse until you feel confident that you will be comfortable, committed, and interesting when<br />
delivering the material. If you are delivering material written by someone else, practice until you feel<br />
that it is your own. You can rehearse interviews by answering questions that you believe will be<br />
asked. A member of your network may be able to help you with this. The more you rehearse, the<br />
better your presentation will be.<br />
It pays to practice your presentation in the place where you will actually talk or to visualise<br />
yourself in that place as well as the positions of the people around you. Practice making eye<br />
contact with the audience.<br />
Be aware of the interests of your audience as well as their present attitude toward you or<br />
UNHCR. If you face a hostile audience, show that you understand all sides of an issue. If you have<br />
a supportive audience, reaffirm shared values.<br />
Be comfortable—In order to make others feel comfortable, you need to appear comfortable<br />
yourself. What does it mean to ‘be comfortable’? It can mean putting people at ease by not overreacting<br />
to events or exhibiting tension or frustration that can create a tense atmosphere. It can be<br />
achieved by smiling or adding a touch of humour. It can also include being comfortable if you make<br />
a mistake. Practice ‘looking comfortable’ by:<br />
♦ Walking casually to the front of the room<br />
♦ Making eye contact with the audience<br />
♦ Avoiding sharp, jerky movements, or fiddling with your hair, pens, etc.<br />
♦ Maintaining your own timetable and not overreacting to the pressures of time<br />
Be committed—When people are committed to their topics, they rarely freeze up or are unable to<br />
speak. Commitment includes knowing what you are saying and why you are saying it as well as<br />
caring about the message. Your commitment should be obvious to those who are listening.