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EP<br />

04<br />

60<br />

<strong>Managing</strong> <strong>External</strong> <strong>Relations</strong><br />

Tips for productive listening<br />

♦ Talk less. Most of us talk more than we need to, tell people more than<br />

they need to know, and take too long to say things without being clear.<br />

♦ When someone is speaking, clear your mind to focus on his/her message.<br />

♦ Listen to the whole message instead of getting your impression from<br />

the first few sentences.<br />

♦ Don’t tune out speakers because you don’t like their appearance—<br />

keep an open mind.<br />

♦ Write down what you may not remember.<br />

♦ Listen for intent as well as content—get the whole message by<br />

watching the person.<br />

♦ Listen first and then analyse. Do not interrupt with analysis<br />

before you have listened.<br />

♦ Avoid distractions or fidgeting while you are listening.<br />

Four Keys to an Effective Presentation<br />

Be prepared—Although you will probably know your topic well, sometimes information is relatively<br />

new or you may be nervous. It is important to give people the feeling that you know what you are<br />

talking about. You can develop this confidence by rehearsing your material—go over a speech out<br />

loud, record it on a tape recorder or video tape yourself. Listen to your voice for sincerity, intensity,<br />

volume, inflection (highs and lows), pronunciation, and drama (use of pauses). Judge whether or not<br />

you sound confident.<br />

Rehearse until you feel confident that you will be comfortable, committed, and interesting when<br />

delivering the material. If you are delivering material written by someone else, practice until you feel<br />

that it is your own. You can rehearse interviews by answering questions that you believe will be<br />

asked. A member of your network may be able to help you with this. The more you rehearse, the<br />

better your presentation will be.<br />

It pays to practice your presentation in the place where you will actually talk or to visualise<br />

yourself in that place as well as the positions of the people around you. Practice making eye<br />

contact with the audience.<br />

Be aware of the interests of your audience as well as their present attitude toward you or<br />

UNHCR. If you face a hostile audience, show that you understand all sides of an issue. If you have<br />

a supportive audience, reaffirm shared values.<br />

Be comfortable—In order to make others feel comfortable, you need to appear comfortable<br />

yourself. What does it mean to ‘be comfortable’? It can mean putting people at ease by not overreacting<br />

to events or exhibiting tension or frustration that can create a tense atmosphere. It can be<br />

achieved by smiling or adding a touch of humour. It can also include being comfortable if you make<br />

a mistake. Practice ‘looking comfortable’ by:<br />

♦ Walking casually to the front of the room<br />

♦ Making eye contact with the audience<br />

♦ Avoiding sharp, jerky movements, or fiddling with your hair, pens, etc.<br />

♦ Maintaining your own timetable and not overreacting to the pressures of time<br />

Be committed—When people are committed to their topics, they rarely freeze up or are unable to<br />

speak. Commitment includes knowing what you are saying and why you are saying it as well as<br />

caring about the message. Your commitment should be obvious to those who are listening.

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