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Presentation Skills<br />

Chapter 4<br />

We are communicating constantly with our eyes, face, bodies and attitudes. When you communicate<br />

with someone, it is not just the words you choose that make the message. You are also sending<br />

signals about the kind of person you are and your commitment to your message, among other<br />

things. It is crucial that you synchronise the words you are speaking with the rest of you. Some<br />

research indicates that an audience’s interpretation of a speaker’s message may be determined as<br />

much as 55% by the speaker’s non-verbal communication, 38% by the speaker’s vocal quality, and<br />

only 7% by the actual words (Ailes, 1989).<br />

Good communication starts with good conversation. Conversation is a give and take affair.<br />

If you are able to converse well, you should be able to transfer those skills to a public presentation,<br />

TV or other media.<br />

What are some characteristics of a good conversationalist?<br />

Your answer might include: Tends to be other-oriented rather than self-centred; does not dominate<br />

the conversation; does not dwell on complaints; draws others out on topics they want to discuss; is<br />

sympathetic to problems; smiles and laughs easily; has interesting things to say; avoids trite expressions;<br />

is lively and enthusiastic; gets to the point quickly and does not belabour points; understands<br />

the give and take of conversations—does not encourage monologues; asks open ended questions<br />

rather than those requiring one word answers; asks how others feel about a subject rather than<br />

pontificating; is open, candid, direct and friendly.<br />

Of course, the above list of characteristics is idealised. It is not usually necessary to make dramatic<br />

changes in yourself and/or to meet all of these criteria. You can improve your communication skills by<br />

simply being who you are, learning to overcome unproductive communication habits, and learning to<br />

be aware of the reactions of your listener or audience.<br />

Ten common problems in personal and business communications<br />

1. The speaker does not build up an initial rapport with listeners.<br />

2. The speaker appears stiff, uncomfortable or tense.<br />

3. The materials are presented in a factual manner without emotional appeal.<br />

4. The speaker fails to make eye contact with listeners or use expressive facial movements.<br />

5. There is no humour or ice breakers.<br />

6. The speaker is not prepared; the direction and intention of the discussion are not clear.<br />

7. The speaker rambles on and does not use pauses and silence for impact.<br />

8. The presentation lacks energy, evidenced by inappropriate pitch, speed and volume.<br />

9. The language used is boring or the materials or subject matter are not interesting.<br />

10. The speaker does not take time to listen carefully, or give others the opportunities to speak.<br />

EP<br />

04<br />

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