Mamta Kalia
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that she kept with great care with her<br />
wedding outfits.<br />
Ma was crying as loudly as ever.<br />
Bhabhi opened her tin box, took out<br />
the anklet and put it in Ma’s hand.<br />
‘Sell it and get Lallaji admitted.’ All<br />
the women were overwhelmed by her<br />
affectionate gesture. I embraced bhabhi<br />
and cried. At that moment, I missed<br />
my brother deeply. The memory of that<br />
day still continues to empower me.<br />
Pitaji had tried very hard to dissuade<br />
bhabhi. ‘No, Bahu... don’t sell it. I will<br />
arrange somehow to send him to school.<br />
Don’t you worry... You have just one<br />
ornament... How can we sell that too?<br />
...Go on, keep it.’<br />
But bhabhi wouldn’t listen to him<br />
and insisted on putting it in Ma’s hand.<br />
Vaidya Satyanarayana Sharma used<br />
to pawn and buy gold and silver<br />
ornaments and act as a moneylender<br />
apart from his regular job as the village<br />
priest. Ma pawned the anklet with him<br />
and thus was I admitted to class six.<br />
Ram Singh and Sukkhan Singh were<br />
in a different section. My roll number<br />
was right at the end, and therefore I<br />
sat in the last row. Shravankumar Sharma<br />
sat in the next seat. Although we had<br />
been studying together since class one,<br />
now we became really close because<br />
of our sitting together. Shravankumar<br />
was handsome and very attractive.<br />
Delicate like a girl. Caste never came<br />
between us. This was a unique experience<br />
for me. Ram Singh and Sukkhan Singh<br />
were also my classmates, but Sukkhan<br />
Singh never came to my house. I would<br />
often go to his house. We sat together,<br />
studied together. Later on we also<br />
developed relationships at the family<br />
level. Today his older son Rajneesh treats<br />
me and my wife with a great deal of<br />
respect.<br />
Perhaps Sukkhan Singh was a little<br />
remote, unlike Shravankumar. Then we<br />
became friends with a third person. His<br />
name was Chandrapal Varma and he came<br />
from village Mandla. He was a Gujjar<br />
by caste. He used to bother Shravankumar<br />
a lot. Sometimes he would pinch his<br />
cheeks and sometimes he would push<br />
him. Sometimes he would hide his books.<br />
These were daily occurrences.<br />
One day, as we were coming out of<br />
the classroom, he gripped Shravankumar<br />
tightly and bit him on his cheek. The<br />
whole class saw him do it but no one<br />
said a word. Everyone was laughing<br />
loudly. Shravankumar began to cry.<br />
Chandrapal Varma was also laughing.<br />
I don’t know what happened to me at<br />
that moment but I grabbed Chandrapal’s<br />
neck and pushed him down even though<br />
he was twice my height and weight.<br />
Chandrapal kept squirming to free his<br />
neck but I did not let go of him. Chandrapal<br />
did not get angry with me but kept<br />
laughing. Later, he also begged<br />
forgiveness from Shravankumar.<br />
The three of us had become good<br />
friends after this incident. Our friendship<br />
was so deep that we felt incomplete<br />
without each other. After school,<br />
Shravankumar and I did not return via<br />
the main road. We walked home through<br />
the fields and the footpaths. This became<br />
a regular routine of ours. The effect<br />
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