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that she kept with great care with her<br />

wedding outfits.<br />

Ma was crying as loudly as ever.<br />

Bhabhi opened her tin box, took out<br />

the anklet and put it in Ma’s hand.<br />

‘Sell it and get Lallaji admitted.’ All<br />

the women were overwhelmed by her<br />

affectionate gesture. I embraced bhabhi<br />

and cried. At that moment, I missed<br />

my brother deeply. The memory of that<br />

day still continues to empower me.<br />

Pitaji had tried very hard to dissuade<br />

bhabhi. ‘No, Bahu... don’t sell it. I will<br />

arrange somehow to send him to school.<br />

Don’t you worry... You have just one<br />

ornament... How can we sell that too?<br />

...Go on, keep it.’<br />

But bhabhi wouldn’t listen to him<br />

and insisted on putting it in Ma’s hand.<br />

Vaidya Satyanarayana Sharma used<br />

to pawn and buy gold and silver<br />

ornaments and act as a moneylender<br />

apart from his regular job as the village<br />

priest. Ma pawned the anklet with him<br />

and thus was I admitted to class six.<br />

Ram Singh and Sukkhan Singh were<br />

in a different section. My roll number<br />

was right at the end, and therefore I<br />

sat in the last row. Shravankumar Sharma<br />

sat in the next seat. Although we had<br />

been studying together since class one,<br />

now we became really close because<br />

of our sitting together. Shravankumar<br />

was handsome and very attractive.<br />

Delicate like a girl. Caste never came<br />

between us. This was a unique experience<br />

for me. Ram Singh and Sukkhan Singh<br />

were also my classmates, but Sukkhan<br />

Singh never came to my house. I would<br />

often go to his house. We sat together,<br />

studied together. Later on we also<br />

developed relationships at the family<br />

level. Today his older son Rajneesh treats<br />

me and my wife with a great deal of<br />

respect.<br />

Perhaps Sukkhan Singh was a little<br />

remote, unlike Shravankumar. Then we<br />

became friends with a third person. His<br />

name was Chandrapal Varma and he came<br />

from village Mandla. He was a Gujjar<br />

by caste. He used to bother Shravankumar<br />

a lot. Sometimes he would pinch his<br />

cheeks and sometimes he would push<br />

him. Sometimes he would hide his books.<br />

These were daily occurrences.<br />

One day, as we were coming out of<br />

the classroom, he gripped Shravankumar<br />

tightly and bit him on his cheek. The<br />

whole class saw him do it but no one<br />

said a word. Everyone was laughing<br />

loudly. Shravankumar began to cry.<br />

Chandrapal Varma was also laughing.<br />

I don’t know what happened to me at<br />

that moment but I grabbed Chandrapal’s<br />

neck and pushed him down even though<br />

he was twice my height and weight.<br />

Chandrapal kept squirming to free his<br />

neck but I did not let go of him. Chandrapal<br />

did not get angry with me but kept<br />

laughing. Later, he also begged<br />

forgiveness from Shravankumar.<br />

The three of us had become good<br />

friends after this incident. Our friendship<br />

was so deep that we felt incomplete<br />

without each other. After school,<br />

Shravankumar and I did not return via<br />

the main road. We walked home through<br />

the fields and the footpaths. This became<br />

a regular routine of ours. The effect<br />

April-June 2010 :: 17

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