47 Helping Teachers and Children Understand Disabled Children

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Helping Teachers and Children Understand Disabled Children CHAPTER 47 Children can be either very cruel or very kind to a child who is different. They may be cruel by teasing, laughing, imitating, or even doing physical harm. But more often they are cruel simply by not including the disabled child in their games or activities, by rejecting the child, or by pretending she does not exist. Often children act in a cruel way because they fear what they do not understand. When they gain a little more understanding, children who may have been cruel or felt uncomfortable with the child who is different, can become that child’s best friends and helpers. It is important that children in every neighborhood or community have a chance to better understand persons who, for whatever reason, are different from themselves— in color, in dress, in beliefs, in language, in movements, or in abilities. One way to help a group of children gain appreciation of the disabled child and learn ways to be helpful is Through CHILD-to-child activities. CHILD-to-child is a non-formal educational program in which school-aged children learn ways to protect the health and well-being of other children—especially younger children and those with special needs. The children learn simple preventive and curative measures appropriate to their own communities. They pass on what they learn to other children and their families. The CHILD-to-child program began during the International Year of the Child, 1979. David Morley (author of Paediatric Priorities in the Developing World and See How They Grow) brought together a group of health workers and educators from many countries. They designed a series of ‘activity sheets’—or guidelines—to be adapted by teachers and health workers for children in different countries and situations. Thirty-five activity sheets for children, including 5 activity sheets about disabled children, are available in a book called Child-to-Child: A Resource Book from Teaching Aids at Low Cost (TALC), PO Box 49, St. Albans, Herts. AL1 5TX, United Kingdom. The activity sheets in the packet include: • Children with disabilities • Helping children who do not see or hear well • Mental handicap and children • Polio • Helping children who experience war, disaster or conflict 427

<strong>Helping</strong> <strong>Teachers</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Children</strong><br />

Underst<strong>and</strong> <strong>Disabled</strong> <strong>Children</strong><br />

CHAPTER <strong>47</strong><br />

<strong>Children</strong> can be either very cruel or very kind to a child who is different. They may<br />

be cruel by teasing, laughing, imitating, or even doing physical harm. But more often<br />

they are cruel simply by not including the disabled child in their games or activities,<br />

by rejecting the child, or by pretending she does not exist.<br />

Often children act in a cruel way because they fear what they do not underst<strong>and</strong>.<br />

When they gain a little more underst<strong>and</strong>ing, children who may have been cruel or<br />

felt uncomfortable with the child who is different, can become that child’s best<br />

friends <strong>and</strong> helpers.<br />

It is important that children in every neighborhood or community have a chance to<br />

better underst<strong>and</strong> persons who, for whatever reason, are different from themselves—<br />

in color, in dress, in beliefs, in language, in movements, or in abilities.<br />

One way to help a group of children gain appreciation of the disabled child <strong>and</strong><br />

learn ways to be helpful is Through CHILD-to-child activities.<br />

CHILD-to-child is a non-formal educational program in which school-aged children<br />

learn ways to protect the health <strong>and</strong> well-being of other children—especially younger<br />

children <strong>and</strong> those with special needs. The children learn simple preventive <strong>and</strong> curative<br />

measures appropriate to their own communities. They pass on what they learn to other<br />

children <strong>and</strong> their families.<br />

The CHILD-to-child program began during the International Year of the Child, 1979.<br />

David Morley (author of Paediatric Priorities in the Developing World <strong>and</strong> See How<br />

They Grow) brought together a group of health workers <strong>and</strong> educators from many<br />

countries. They designed a series of ‘activity sheets’—or guidelines—to be adapted<br />

by teachers <strong>and</strong> health workers for children in different countries <strong>and</strong> situations.<br />

Thirty-five activity sheets for children,<br />

including 5 activity sheets about<br />

disabled children, are available in a book<br />

called Child-to-Child: A Resource Book from<br />

Teaching Aids at Low Cost (TALC), PO Box 49,<br />

St. Albans, Herts. AL1 5TX, United Kingdom.<br />

The activity sheets in the packet include:<br />

• <strong>Children</strong> with disabilities<br />

• <strong>Helping</strong> children who do not see or hear<br />

well<br />

• Mental h<strong>and</strong>icap <strong>and</strong> children<br />

• Polio<br />

• <strong>Helping</strong> children who experience<br />

war, disaster or conflict<br />

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Other activity sheets in Child-to-Child:<br />

A Resource Book, that include<br />

From the CHILD-to-child activity sheet:<br />

disability prevention are:<br />

ACCIDENTS<br />

• Feeding young children: feeding children Help children learn how important it<br />

aged 6 months to 2 years<br />

is to:<br />

• Feeding young children: how do we know if<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

they are eating enough?<br />

Caring for children with diarrhea<br />

Preventing accidents<br />

Our neighborhood<br />

Playing with young children: playing with<br />

babies<br />

Playing with young children: play for pre-<br />

• Make sure that<br />

their younger<br />

brothers <strong>and</strong><br />

sisters do not<br />

go too close<br />

to the<br />

cooking<br />

school children<br />

fire.<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

A place to play<br />

Caring for children who are sick<br />

Safe lifestyles<br />

• Keep matches out of the<br />

reach of small children.<br />

(They can even make<br />

a small basket or shelf<br />

CHILD-to-child activities can be introduced:<br />

for matches to be stored<br />

• by schoolteachers with schoolchildren,<br />

high on the wall.)<br />

• by schoolchildren (who have practiced<br />

the activities in school) with younger<br />

schoolchildren, or with children who do not go<br />

to school,<br />

• Be sure that<br />

h<strong>and</strong>les of pans<br />

are turned so<br />

• by health workers or community<br />

that the child<br />

rehabilitation workers,<br />

does not pull<br />

• by parent groups or any concerned persons in them.<br />

the community.<br />

• Warn younger<br />

children about<br />

The purpose of CHILD-to-child activities that<br />

where snakes,<br />

relate to disability is to help children:<br />

scorpions, <strong>and</strong><br />

• gain awareness of different disabilities <strong>and</strong> what<br />

bees live.<br />

it might be like to be disabled,<br />

• Clear grass<br />

• learn that although a disabled person may<br />

<strong>and</strong> weeds away<br />

have difficulty doing some things, she may<br />

be able to do other things extra well,<br />

from paths.<br />

•<br />

•<br />

think of ways that they can help disabled<br />

children feel welcome, take part in their play,<br />

schooling, <strong>and</strong> other activities, <strong>and</strong> manage<br />

to do things better,<br />

become the friends <strong>and</strong> defenders of any<br />

child who is different or has special needs.<br />

rehabilitation programs in several countries<br />

• Make sure poisons<br />

such as medicines<br />

<strong>and</strong> insecticides are<br />

kept out of reach,<br />

<strong>and</strong> that kerosene<br />

is not stored<br />

in drink<br />

bottles.<br />

have developed their own, more complete<br />

CHILD-to-child activity sheets. Here we combine versions from Kenya (Africa), the<br />

Philippines, <strong>and</strong> Mexico (where some of the original sheets were developed <strong>and</strong> tested).<br />

The 3 activities we include in this chapter are:<br />

“Underst<strong>and</strong>ing children with special problems” (p. 429)<br />

“<strong>Children</strong> who have difficulty underst<strong>and</strong>ing” (p. 442)<br />

“Let’s find out how well children see <strong>and</strong> hear” (p. 4<strong>47</strong>)<br />

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ACTIvITY<br />

UNDERSTANDING CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL PROBLEMS<br />

Group discussion<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

encourage a class or group of children to talk about children who have some special<br />

problem or ‘h<strong>and</strong>icap’. Ask questions like:<br />

• Do you know any child who cannot walk or run or talk or<br />

play like other children?<br />

• Why can’t this child do everything the same as you can?<br />

• Is the child to blame?<br />

• How do other children treat this child? Are they kind<br />

to him? Are they mean? Do they make fun of him? Do<br />

they include him in their games?<br />

• How would you feel if you had a similar problem? How<br />

would you want other children to treat you? Would<br />

you like them to laugh at you? To pay no attention to<br />

you? To feel sorry for you? To do things with you <strong>and</strong><br />

become your friend?<br />

Games <strong>and</strong> role playing<br />

<strong>Children</strong> will better<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> the child with a<br />

special problem if they can<br />

‘put themselves in his<br />

shoes’. They can<br />

play a game<br />

in which<br />

one child<br />

pretends<br />

to have a<br />

h<strong>and</strong>icap.<br />

For example,<br />

tie a stick to<br />

a child’s leg.<br />

Then have<br />

him run<br />

in a<br />

game<br />

or play<br />

tag.<br />

The other children act out<br />

different ways of behaving toward<br />

the child. Some are friendly. Some<br />

ignore him. Some make fun of him.<br />

Some help him.<br />

Some include<br />

him in their<br />

games. Let<br />

the children<br />

think up their<br />

own ideas <strong>and</strong><br />

act them out.<br />

After several minutes, another child can pretend to have a h<strong>and</strong>icap. Let several<br />

children have a turn with a h<strong>and</strong>icap. Try to make the pretend h<strong>and</strong>icap seem real.<br />

Also ask the children what they might be able to do to make things better or fairer for<br />

the disabled child. Try or ‘act out’ their different suggestions. For example:<br />

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For a more severe physical disability, the<br />

group of children can invent ways to ‘find out<br />

what it is like’. For example, to learn about<br />

a child with almost no use of her legs, the<br />

children might tie the legs of one of their<br />

group together, like this.<br />

After talking with the child about her<br />

difficulties, the children can try to think<br />

of ways to make it easier for her to<br />

move about.<br />

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Then the children can ask the child to do<br />

some of their day-to-day activities—like<br />

moving around the house, going to the<br />

latrine, <strong>and</strong> going to school.<br />

REMEMBER: <strong>Children</strong> are usually kind to a child with<br />

a very severe disability. They are often more cruel to<br />

a child with a less severe problem, such as a limp.<br />

Note: With the help<br />

of their teacher or<br />

parents, children can,<br />

in fact, make simple<br />

wheelchairs <strong>and</strong> other<br />

aids for disabled<br />

children. For simple<br />

designs, see PArT 3 of<br />

this book.


Help the children gain an underst<strong>and</strong>ing<br />

of the particular difficulties of any<br />

disabled child in their village.<br />

For example, if there is a child<br />

with spastic legs who has trouble<br />

walking because his knees press<br />

together, have a child try to walk<br />

with her knees tied together with<br />

a b<strong>and</strong> of car<br />

tire inner tube.<br />

If there is a child with arthritis in<br />

the village, some of the children can<br />

put small stones in their shoes or tie<br />

small stones to the bottoms of their<br />

feet. Then the other children can<br />

invite them to run <strong>and</strong> play games. Ask<br />

the children why a child with arthritis<br />

might not want to play games.<br />

Ask the children, “Do you know any children who cannot use their h<strong>and</strong>s like you<br />

can?” If they answer yes, help them experience the difficulties of such a child. Have<br />

the children work in pairs.<br />

Now have the child try to do things like:<br />

• write<br />

• turn pages of a book<br />

• fill a cup with water<br />

• eat<br />

• get something from a pocket<br />

• button a shirt<br />

One child can wrap a strip of cloth around<br />

the other child’s h<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> fingers so that<br />

he has trouble moving his fingers.<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

To appreciate the problems of a child<br />

who has trouble with balance (cerebral<br />

palsy), have one of the children try<br />

to walk on a hanging board (or other<br />

moving surface).<br />

Have the children try to figure<br />

out ways to make it easier. For<br />

example, wrap cloth or a piece<br />

of inner tube around a pencil or<br />

spoon, to make it easier to hold.<br />

Note: For more ideas <strong>and</strong> tools<br />

for persons with disabled h<strong>and</strong>s,<br />

see pages 223 <strong>and</strong> 330.<br />

buttoning tool<br />

(See p. 335.)<br />

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Things that a disabled child can do well<br />

A disabled child cannot do everything<br />

as well as other children. But often there<br />

are some things she can do as well, or<br />

even better. Try to have the children think of<br />

examples.<br />

A child with weak legs, who has to<br />

walk with crutches, often develops very<br />

strong arms <strong>and</strong> h<strong>and</strong>s.<br />

Or a blind child may learn to hear things<br />

extra well.<br />

rather than feel sorry for the disabled child <strong>and</strong> look only at her weaknesses, it is<br />

better to recognize <strong>and</strong> encourage her strengths.<br />

A LETTER TO ALL CHILDREN:<br />

Swimming<br />

Many children with weak or paralyzed<br />

legs can learn to swim well. Their arms<br />

become unusually strong from using crutches,<br />

<strong>and</strong> in the water they easily keep up with<br />

other children. But sometimes they have<br />

trouble getting to the water, or the other<br />

children forget to invite them...<br />

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A friendly word of welcome<br />

to include the child with a<br />

special problem, or a little<br />

extra time or attention given<br />

to him, can make a big<br />

difference—<strong>and</strong> can make<br />

everyone feel good.


Role playing <strong>and</strong> children’s theater<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

To help see how much it matters to include a disabled child in their fun, a group of<br />

children can act out different possibilities. For example, they might act out (or do a ‘role<br />

play’ of) the pictures at the bottom of the page before this one. After the role play the<br />

group can discuss which of the two alternatives made the disabled child, <strong>and</strong> the other<br />

children, feel better, <strong>and</strong> why.<br />

Or they can act out a situation in which they try to solve a particular difficulty,<br />

obstacle, or challenge.<br />

For example, there is a bright little girl who has no control of her arms or h<strong>and</strong>s, but fairly<br />

good movement of her head <strong>and</strong> one foot. Can the children figure out a way to help her<br />

write? The class divides into 3 or 4 groups to try to solve the problem.<br />

One group might think<br />

of helping her to<br />

write with her head.<br />

Photos from Ajoya, Mexico<br />

Another, with<br />

her mouth.<br />

And another,<br />

with her foot.<br />

In these ways the children will begin to use their imaginations to help solve problems.<br />

If some of the children’s role plays turn out especially well, or do an extra good job<br />

at demonstrating important points, perhaps they can be developed further. Then the<br />

children can present them, in the form of skits or children’s theater, to other classes,<br />

parent groups, in the health center, or perhaps to the whole village.<br />

(examples of two skits which schoolchildren, together with health workers <strong>and</strong><br />

disabled rehabilitation workers, put on in the village of Ajoya, Mexico, are on pages<br />

456 to 461.)<br />

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CHAPTer <strong>47</strong><br />

Putting our new underst<strong>and</strong>ing into practice<br />

Once the children have developed a greater awareness of the needs <strong>and</strong><br />

possibilities of disabled children through discussion, games, role plays, <strong>and</strong> stories,<br />

they can begin to put their new underst<strong>and</strong>ing into practice.<br />

Ask the children if they know any child in the village (or in a neighboring village) who<br />

is disabled or has special difficulties in any way.<br />

Then discuss ways that the children might be able to help each disabled child<br />

become as happy, capable, <strong>and</strong> self-reliant as possible. The children can list their<br />

suggestions for each child. Later, after getting to know the child <strong>and</strong> her family better,<br />

they can change <strong>and</strong> add to their ideas.<br />

If the disabled child is a brother or sister of one of the children in the learning<br />

group, starting to do things with the child <strong>and</strong> the family may be fairly easy. But if<br />

none of the children is related to the disabled child, they must be careful in the way<br />

they offer their help. Probably only two or three children should make the first visit,<br />

perhaps with the help of a teacher, health worker, or rehabilitation worker.<br />

The children, with suggestions from the disabled child <strong>and</strong> her family, will need to<br />

figure out ways that they can help most. However, the following list of possibilities may<br />

give you some ideas:<br />

• Become friends—one or more children can become close companions,<br />

playmates, <strong>and</strong> friends of the disabled child.<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

visit the child at home—regularly!<br />

Help the family by doing err<strong>and</strong>s, ‘babysitting’ or taking the child on outings.<br />

Figure out a way to help the child get to <strong>and</strong> from school.<br />

• At school, one or more children can become<br />

the ‘buddies’ or helpers of the disabled child,<br />

making sure her special needs are met.<br />

• If it is impossible for the disabled child<br />

to go to school, children may be able<br />

to organize an after-school teaching<br />

program at the child’s home. Ask the<br />

teacher to help plan this.<br />

• Figure out ways to include the child in<br />

games.<br />

• Make helpful toys for the child <strong>and</strong> play<br />

together with her. (See p. 467 to <strong>47</strong>6.)<br />

REMEMBER—<br />

ALWAYS BE FRIENDLY<br />

• Make a ‘rehabilitation playground’ or ‘playground for all children’. Take<br />

disabled children regularly to the playground <strong>and</strong> play together with them there.<br />

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• Build simple playground equipment, adapted<br />

for the particular child, at her home.<br />

• With advice from a rehabilitation worker or<br />

the child’s parents, learn to help with the<br />

exercises or care that the child needs.<br />

• You may be able to help build special aids<br />

for the children, such as crutches, s<strong>and</strong>bags,<br />

braces, or even a simple wheelchair. Try<br />

to get advice from a rehabilitation worker.<br />

If what you need to make is too difficult,<br />

perhaps the children can ask parents who<br />

are craftspersons to help. visit them as<br />

a committee.<br />

• Become ‘prevention scouts’ by following the<br />

suggestions on p. 428, or by taking other<br />

actions to prevent disability in your village.<br />

• If there is a village rehabilitation center in your<br />

village, perhaps a group of children can take<br />

turns there as volunteers after school. There<br />

are many ways you can help <strong>and</strong> much you<br />

can learn. Those who show most interest can<br />

become junior rehabilitation workers’.<br />

<strong>Children</strong> with severe disabilities<br />

Some children are very disabled. They cannot walk or swim or play many games.<br />

But sometimes these children can learn to play marbles, cards, or guessing games.<br />

Learning is especially difficult for a child who cannot speak or think as easily as<br />

other children. This child may be very lonely. Sometimes a child who cannot speak,<br />

underst<strong>and</strong>s a lot more than people think he does. If there is such a child in your<br />

neighborhood, perhaps children could take turns visiting him, to talk or play with him.<br />

Let him know you care.<br />

Babies with problems<br />

A rope swing like this can<br />

help a child with weak legs<br />

teach herself to walk—in a<br />

way that is fun!<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

Sometimes a baby is slower than most to develop. either her mind may be slow to<br />

develop, or her body, or sometimes both. The child will be later than other babies in the<br />

village to begin to sit, use her h<strong>and</strong>s, crawl, walk or talk.<br />

Babies who are slow to develop need special care. It possible, their parents<br />

should get advice from a rehabilitation worker or physiotherapist. However, there<br />

is a lot that brothers <strong>and</strong> sisters <strong>and</strong> other children can do.<br />

More than almost anything else, these babies need lots of attention. They need<br />

to be played with <strong>and</strong> helped or encouraged to play. They need simple toys <strong>and</strong><br />

colorful or noisy things to attract their attention. They need to be talked to <strong>and</strong> sung<br />

to a lot. These things will help the baby develop faster. And these are all things other<br />

children can do.<br />

In the next activity sheet (p. 442) we will talk more about helping a child whose mind<br />

develops slowly or who has difficulty underst<strong>and</strong>ing.<br />

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<strong>Helping</strong> a disabled child learn to do new things<br />

There are many ways that children can help a baby or young child with a special<br />

problem to learn to do new things. Here are some ideas:<br />

• Make it fun! If exercises can be turned into games, the<br />

child will learn faster <strong>and</strong> everyone will enjoy it more.<br />

• Self-help. Help the disabled child only as<br />

much as he needs. encourage him to do as<br />

much as he can for himself <strong>and</strong> by himself.<br />

• Little by little. remember, some things<br />

are especially difficult for the disabled child.<br />

encourage her to do a little more than she<br />

already does—<strong>and</strong> then a little more. If you<br />

have her try to do too much, she may get<br />

discouraged <strong>and</strong> stop trying.<br />

• Show you care. Show the child how glad<br />

you are when he learns to do new things. Praise<br />

him when he does well—<strong>and</strong> when he tries.<br />

• Mind <strong>and</strong> body. Play often with the child, in<br />

ways that help her develop not only her<br />

body but also her mind. Talk with her <strong>and</strong><br />

tell her stories Become her friend.<br />

AN EXAMPLE: Pablo is having trouble learning to crawl. Using the above suggestions,<br />

how can we help him? Perhaps his older brothers <strong>and</strong> sisters, or other children, can<br />

play ‘crawling games’ with him.<br />

Story telling<br />

Two children can hold up part<br />

of his weight as he tries to crawl.<br />

Another child encourages him<br />

to crawl by holding out a fruit or<br />

toy. Call him to crawl toward the<br />

fruit. Praise him when he tries.<br />

Note: Many more ideas of ways children can help a<br />

child who is slow to develop can be found in PART<br />

1 of this book, especially Chapters 34 <strong>and</strong> 35.<br />

Play the game every day. As Pablo<br />

grows stronger, less of his weight<br />

will need to be held up. In time he<br />

may be able to crawl without help.<br />

A simple bar held by forked<br />

slicks can increase the selfreliance<br />

of a child who has<br />

difficulty squatting to shit.<br />

<strong>Children</strong> in Mexico playing<br />

a ‘crawling game’.<br />

Story telling is another good way to help young people underst<strong>and</strong> the needs<br />

<strong>and</strong> possibilities of disabled children <strong>and</strong> what can be done to help. You can make<br />

up stories. Or better, you can base them on true events where a disabled child has<br />

achieved something outst<strong>and</strong>ing, or where a group of children have succeeded in<br />

making an important difference in the life of a disabled child. The story that follows is<br />

an example.<br />

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A Story—to be used with the CHILD-to-child activity,<br />

“Underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>Children</strong> with Special Problems”<br />

HOW TOMÁS AnD OTHer CHILDren HeLPeD JULIA gO TO SCHOOL<br />

At age 7 Julia’s world was so small that you could<br />

throw a stone clear across it. She had seen almost<br />

nothing of her own village. No one ever took her<br />

anywhere. The farthest she had ever crawled was to<br />

the bushes just outside the small hut where she lived<br />

with her family.<br />

Julia was the oldest of 3 children. Her family’s<br />

hut was at the far edge of Bella Village. The hut was<br />

separated from the main footpath by a long, steep,<br />

rocky trail. Perhaps for this reason, Julia had missed<br />

being vaccinated in her first year of life, when health<br />

workers had come to the village.<br />

In the beginning, Julia had been a healthy baby, <strong>and</strong><br />

quick. At 10 months of age she was already able to<br />

st<strong>and</strong> alone for a few seconds, <strong>and</strong> to say a few words,<br />

like ‘mama’, ‘papa’, <strong>and</strong> ‘wawa’—which meant water.<br />

Her face would light up in a big smile whenever<br />

anyone called her name. Her parents took great pride<br />

in her, <strong>and</strong> spoiled her terribly.<br />

But at 10 months Julia got sick. It began like a bad<br />

cold, with fever <strong>and</strong> diarrhea. Julia’s mother took her<br />

to a doctor in a neighboring town. The doctor gave<br />

her an injection in her left backside. A few days later<br />

Julia got worse. First her left leg began to hurt her,<br />

then her back, <strong>and</strong> finally both arms <strong>and</strong> legs. Soon<br />

her whole body became very weak. She could not<br />

move her left leg at all <strong>and</strong> the other leg only a little.<br />

In a few days the fever <strong>and</strong> pain went away, but the<br />

weakness stayed, especially in her legs. The doctor<br />

in town said it was polio, <strong>and</strong> that her legs would be<br />

weak all her life.<br />

Julia’s mother <strong>and</strong> father were very sad. In those<br />

days there was no rehabilitation worker in the village<br />

or in the neighboring towns. So Julia’s mother <strong>and</strong><br />

father took care of her as best they could. In time,<br />

Julia learned to crawl. But she did not learn to dress<br />

or do much for herself. Her parents felt sorry for her,<br />

so they did everything for her. She gave them a lot of<br />

work.<br />

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Then, when Julia was 3 years old, a baby brother<br />

was born. This meant her parents had less time for<br />

Julia. Her little brother was a strong, happy baby, <strong>and</strong><br />

her parents seemed to put all their hopes into the new<br />

child. They paid less attention to Julia, rarely played<br />

with her, <strong>and</strong> never took her out with them into the<br />

village. Julia had no friends or playmates —except for<br />

her baby brother. Yet sometimes, for no clear reason,<br />

Julia would pinch her baby brother <strong>and</strong> make him cry.<br />

Because of this, her parents did not let Julia hold or<br />

play with him often.<br />

Julia became more <strong>and</strong> more quiet <strong>and</strong> unhappy.<br />

Remembering how quick <strong>and</strong> friendly she had been<br />

as a baby, her parents sometimes wondered if her<br />

mind, too, had been damaged by her illness. Although<br />

the doctor had explained that polio weakens only<br />

muscles, <strong>and</strong> never affects a child’s mind, they still<br />

had their doubts.<br />

When Julia was 6 years old, a third child was<br />

born—a baby sister. This seemed to make Julia even<br />

more unhappy. She spent most of her time sitting<br />

outside behind the hut drawing pictures in the dirt<br />

with a broken stick. She drew chickens, donkeys, trees,<br />

<strong>and</strong> flowers. She drew houses, people, waterjugs, <strong>and</strong><br />

devils with horns <strong>and</strong> long tails. Actually, she drew<br />

remarkably well for a child her age. But no one noticed<br />

her drawings. Her mother was busier than ever with<br />

the new baby.<br />

Julia was 7 years old when the village school<br />

teachers, guided by a health worker from a nearby<br />

village, began a CHILD-to-child program in the<br />

school. The first <strong>and</strong> second year children (who were<br />

in the same class) studied an activity sheet called<br />

“Underst<strong>and</strong>ing children with special problems.”<br />

Most of the children knew of only one seriously<br />

disabled child in their village. This was Tomás. Tomás<br />

walked in a jerky way, with crutches. He had one<br />

h<strong>and</strong> that sometimes made strange movements. And<br />

he had difficulty speaking clearly, especially when<br />

he was excited. But Tomás did not seem to need<br />

any special help—or at least not anymore. He was<br />

already in the fourth grade of school <strong>and</strong> doing well.<br />

He had lots of friends. He managed to go anywhere<br />

<strong>and</strong> do almost anything for himself, if awkwardly,<br />

<strong>and</strong> nearly everyone treated him with respect. It was<br />

easy to forget he was disabled.<br />

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Then one little boy remembered, “There’s a girl who<br />

lives in a house at the far end of the village. She crawls<br />

around on her h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> knees, <strong>and</strong> spends a lot of<br />

time just sitting outside. She always looks sad. I don’t<br />

know her name, but she looks old enough to be in<br />

school!”<br />

“Let’s invite her to come to school with us,” said<br />

one of the children.<br />

“But how,” asked another, “if she can’t walk?”<br />

“We could bring her in a push cart!”<br />

“No! The path from her home is too steep <strong>and</strong><br />

rocky.”<br />

“Then we’ll carry her! If we all help, it will be easy.’’<br />

“Let’s go to her house this afternoon” “Good idea!”<br />

That afternoon after school, 6 of the school<br />

children, together with their teacher, visited Julia’s<br />

home. Julia, who was out back, was too shy to come<br />

in. So they started talking with her mother.<br />

“We want to be her friends,” they said. “And to help<br />

her go to school.”<br />

“But she can’t go to school.” her mother said with<br />

surprise. “She can’t even walk!”<br />

“We can carry her,” offered the children. “We’ll<br />

come for her every day <strong>and</strong> bring her back in the<br />

afternoons. It’s not far, really!”<br />

“The whole class is ready to help out,” said the<br />

teacher. “And so am I.”<br />

“But you don’t underst<strong>and</strong>,” said her mother.<br />

“Julia’s not like other children. They’ll tease her. She is<br />

so shy she doesn’t open her mouth around strangers.<br />

And besides, I don’t see how school could help her”<br />

The teacher tried his best to explain to the mother<br />

the great importance of school for a child like Julia.<br />

The children promised that they would all be friendly<br />

<strong>and</strong> help her in any way they could. But her mother<br />

just shook her head.<br />

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•<br />

“Do you think Julia would like to go to school?”<br />

asked the teacher.<br />

Her mother gave a tired sigh. Then she turned to<br />

Julia, who was hiding outside the door but peeping<br />

in at the visitors. “Julia, darling, do you want to go to<br />

school?”<br />

Julia’s eyes opened wide with fear. She shook her<br />

head in a terrified NO <strong>and</strong> disappeared behind the<br />

doorway.<br />

“There, you see!” said Julia’s mother. “For Julia,<br />

school just wouldn’t make sense... Now I have a lot<br />

of work to do, please excuse me. But thank you for<br />

thinking of my poor little girl.”<br />

“Please give it more thought,” said the teacher as he<br />

<strong>and</strong> the children went out the door. “And thank you for<br />

your time.”<br />

“Have a nice day,” said Julia’s mother, <strong>and</strong> went<br />

back to work.<br />

•<br />

At school the next day the teacher met with the<br />

whole class to discuss their visit to Julia’s home.<br />

“This CHILD-to-child stuff sounds so easy <strong>and</strong> fun<br />

when we pretend,” said one of the children. “But<br />

when we try to use it in real life, it ain’t so easy.”<br />

“Isn’t!” said the teacher.<br />

“Still,” said one little girl who had visited Julia’s<br />

home, “we have to keep trying. Did you see the<br />

way Julia looked at us? She was so scared she was<br />

shaking. But she was interested, too. I could tell. She<br />

looked so... lonely!”<br />

“But what can we do? I don’t think her mother wants<br />

us to come back.’’<br />

There was a long silence. Then one little boy<br />

said, “I’ve got an idea! Let’s talk to Tomás. He’s<br />

h<strong>and</strong>icapped, too. But he’s in school <strong>and</strong> is doing fine.<br />

Maybe he can help us.”<br />

After school, several of the first <strong>and</strong> second year<br />

students wailed for Tomás, who was in the fourth year.<br />

They told him about Julia, <strong>and</strong> what happened when<br />

they visited her home.<br />

“How was it when you began school, Tomás?” asked<br />

the children. “Were you afraid? Did your parents want<br />

you to go? How did the other children treat you?”<br />

Tomás laughed. “One question at a time!” He<br />

spoke slowly, with a twisted mouth <strong>and</strong> a sort of jerky<br />

speech that sometimes made him hard to underst<strong>and</strong>.<br />

“Help me sit down under that tree.” Tomás moved<br />

forward on his crutches. The children helped him sit<br />

down. (He explained that his hips <strong>and</strong> legs wanted<br />

to stay straight when he wanted to bend them.) He<br />

sat leaning against the tree, <strong>and</strong> began to answer the<br />

children’s questions.


“Sure, I was afraid to go to school, at first,” said<br />

Tomás. “And my mom <strong>and</strong> dad didn’t want to send me.<br />

They were afraid kids would tease me or that it would<br />

be too hard for me. It was gr<strong>and</strong>ma who talked us all<br />

into it. She said if I couldn’t earn my living behind a<br />

plow, I’d better learn to earn it using my head. And I<br />

intend to.”<br />

“What do you want to be when you grow up?”<br />

asked one boy.<br />

“Maybe a health worker,” said Tomás. “I want to<br />

help other people.”<br />

“Did other kids tease you when you started school?”<br />

asked the children.<br />

Tomás frowned. “No ... not much. But they didn’t<br />

know what to do with me, so usually they didn’t do<br />

anything. They would stare when they thought I wasn’t<br />

looking. And they would imitate the way I talk when<br />

they thought I wasn’t listening. But when they thought I<br />

was looking <strong>and</strong> listening, they would pretend I wasn’t<br />

there. That’s what was hardest for me. They never asked<br />

me what I thought, or what I could do, or if I wanted<br />

to play with them. I felt lonelier when I was with the<br />

other children than when I was by myself!”<br />

“But now you have lots of friends. You seem like<br />

one of the gang. What happened?”<br />

“I don’t know,” answered Tomás. “The other kids<br />

just got used to me, I guess. They began to see that<br />

even though I walk <strong>and</strong> talk funny, I’m not really<br />

all that different from them. I think it helps that I do<br />

well in school. I like to read. I read everything I can<br />

find. Sometimes when kids in my class have trouble<br />

reading or underst<strong>and</strong>ing something, I help them. I<br />

like to do that. At first they gave me the nickname<br />

‘Crabfoot’ because of how I walk. But now they<br />

call me ‘Professor’ because I help them with their<br />

lessons.”<br />

“The first nickname was about what’s wrong with<br />

you,” observed one little girl. “And the second is about<br />

what’s right. I guess you showed them what’s most<br />

important!”<br />

Tomás’ mouth twisted into a smile <strong>and</strong> his legs<br />

jerked with pleasure. “Tell me more about Julia,” he<br />

said.<br />

They told him all they could, <strong>and</strong> finished by saying,<br />

“We tried as hard as we could, but Julia’s mother<br />

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doesn’t want her in school <strong>and</strong> Julia doesn’t want to<br />

go either. We don’t know what to do. Do you have<br />

any ideas, Tomás?”<br />

“Maybe if I visit the family—with my parents. They<br />

can try to convince her parents, <strong>and</strong> I’ll try to make<br />

friends with Julia.”<br />

The next Sunday, when Tomás’ father was not<br />

working in the fields, Tomás asked his parents to go<br />

with him to Julia’s home. They arrived in the early<br />

afternoon. Julia’s mother <strong>and</strong> father, together with<br />

the 2 younger children, were all sitting in the shade<br />

in front of the hut. Julia’s father was sharpening an<br />

ax while her mother picked lice from the children’s<br />

hair. They all looked up in surprise to see the boy on<br />

crutches approaching, followed by 2 adults.<br />

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The path near the hut was steep <strong>and</strong> rocky. A few<br />

meters from the hut, Tomás tripped <strong>and</strong> fell. Julia’s father<br />

ran forward to help.<br />

“Are you hurt?” asked Julia’s father, helping him up.<br />

“Oh no,” laughed Tomás. “I’m used to falling. I’ve<br />

learned to do it without hurting myself... We’ve come<br />

to talk to you about Julia. These are my parents.”<br />

“Come in,” said Julia’s father. They all exchanged<br />

greetings, <strong>and</strong> everyone went inside.<br />

While Tomás’ parents were talking with Julia’s,<br />

Tomás asked if he could speak with Julia.<br />

“She’s outside,” nodded her mother, pointing to the<br />

back doorway. “But she doesn’t speak to strangers.<br />

She’s too afraid!”<br />

“She doesn’t have to speak if she doesn’t want to,”<br />

said Tomás gently, yet loudly enough so that Julia<br />

could hear, if she was listening.<br />

Tomás went out <strong>and</strong> found Julia bent over a<br />

drawing in the dirt. She glanced up at him as he<br />

approached, <strong>and</strong> then looked down at her drawing,<br />

but without continuing it.<br />

There were several drawings on the ground of<br />

different animals, flowers, people, <strong>and</strong> monsters. Julia<br />

had just been drawing a tree with a big nest in it <strong>and</strong><br />

some birds.<br />

“Did you draw all these?” asked Tomás. Julia did<br />

not answer. Her small body was trembling.<br />

“You draw very well!” said Tomás, admiring <strong>and</strong><br />

commenting on each of her drawings. “And with<br />

just a stick. Have you ever tried drawing with pencil<br />

<strong>and</strong> paper?” No answer. Tomás continued. “I bet that<br />

nobody in school can draw this well!” Julia, still staring<br />

at the dirt, trembled <strong>and</strong> said nothing. Tomás also was<br />

silent for a moment. Then he said. “I wish I could draw<br />

like you do. Who taught you?”<br />

Julia slowly lifted her head up <strong>and</strong> looked at Tomás,<br />

or at least at his lower half. She looked first at his<br />

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turned-in feet <strong>and</strong> the tips of his crutches. Then she<br />

looked at his knees, which had dark calluses on their<br />

inner sides where they rubbed together when he<br />

walked.<br />

“Why do you walk with those sticks?” she asked.<br />

“It’s the only way I can,” he said. “My legs don’t<br />

like to do what I tell them.”<br />

Julia lifted her head <strong>and</strong> looked up into Tomás’ face.<br />

Tomás tried to smile, but knew his mouth was twisting<br />

strangely to one side.<br />

“And why do you talk funny?” asked Julia.<br />

“Because my mouth <strong>and</strong> lips don’t always do what<br />

I want either,” said Tomás. And it seemed he had<br />

even more trouble speaking clearly than usual.<br />

Julia stared at him. “Do you really like my drawing?”<br />

“I do,” said Tomás, glad to change the subject. “You<br />

have a real gift. Real talent. You should study art. I’ll<br />

bet some day you could be a great artist.”<br />

“No,” said Julia, shaking her head. “I’ll never be<br />

anything. I can’t even walk. Look!” She pointed to her<br />

small floppy legs. “They’re even worse than yours!”<br />

“But you draw with your h<strong>and</strong>s, not your feet!”<br />

exclaimed Tomás.<br />

Julia laughed. “You’re funny!” she said. “What’s<br />

your name?”<br />

“Tomás.”<br />

“Mine’s Julia. Do you really think I could be an<br />

artist?—No, you’re only joking. I’ll never be anything.<br />

Everybody knows that!”<br />

“But I’m not joking, Julia,” said Tomás. “I read in<br />

a magazine about an artist who paints birds. People<br />

come from all over the world to buy his pictures.<br />

And you know something, Julia, his arms <strong>and</strong> legs are<br />

completely paralyzed. He paints holding the brush in<br />

his mouth!”<br />

“How does he get around?” asked Julia.<br />

“I don’t know,” said Tomás. “People help him, I<br />

guess. But he does get around. The magazine said he<br />

has been to several countries!’<br />

Julia said, “Wow! Do you really think I could<br />

become an artist?”<br />

Tomás looked again at the drawings in the dirt—<strong>and</strong><br />

truly wished he could draw as well. “I know you<br />

could!” he answered.<br />

“How do I start?” asked Julia, sitting up eagerly.<br />

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“First,” said Tomás, “you should probably go to<br />

school!”<br />

“But how?” said Julia, looking at her legs.<br />

“That’s easy,” said Tomás. “All the school children<br />

want to help. But you have to want to go.”<br />

“I... I’m afraid...” said Julia. “Do you go to school,<br />

Tomás?”<br />

“Yes, of course,” he answered.<br />

“Then I want to go, too!”<br />

Inside the house, Tomás’ parents were trying to<br />

convince Julia’s parents of the importance of sending<br />

her to school. They explained how they had had the<br />

same doubts about Tomás, <strong>and</strong> how much school had<br />

helped him.<br />

“It’s not only what he is learning that’s important,”<br />

said Tomás’ mother, “but what it has done for him<br />

personally. He has more confidence—a whole new<br />

view of himself!”<br />

“And we’ve come to look at him differently, too,”<br />

said Tomás father. “He’s a good student—one of the<br />

leaders in his class!”<br />

Julia’s father coughed. “Even if all you say is true,<br />

Julia doesn’t want to go. She’s afraid. You see, the<br />

same illness affected her...”<br />

His sentence was cut off by Julia, who came<br />

bursting in the back doorway on h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> knees.<br />

“Mama! Papa!” she shouted. “Can I go to school?<br />

Will you let me? Pleeeease?”<br />

Her father’s mouth fell open for a moment. And<br />

then he smiled.<br />

The next day Julia began school. The other children<br />

learned from Tomás that Julia was ready to go, <strong>and</strong><br />

they worked hard Sunday evening making a ‘sitting<br />

stretcher’ for her. One of the children had seen a<br />

similar stretcher when an injured man had been<br />

carried down from the high mountains. It was a<br />

simple wooden chair, tied firmly between two poles.<br />

The children finished making it by sunset <strong>and</strong> the next<br />

morning arrived with it at Julia’s house. Tomás went<br />

with them to give Julia courage. He was so excited<br />

that he fell 3 times!<br />

Julia was so frightened when she saw the children<br />

that she almost decided not to go. But when they<br />

brought her special chair to the door, she lifted<br />

herself onto it with her strong<br />

arms. And before she knew<br />

it, she was on her<br />

way—to school!


The first day of school went well. Everything was so<br />

new, <strong>and</strong> the children were all so friendly, that Julia<br />

almost forgot she was afraid. On the way home, she<br />

smiled <strong>and</strong> laughed as the children carried her.<br />

Six months have now passed since Julia started<br />

school. Although she began 2 months late, she is<br />

already able to read <strong>and</strong> write letters <strong>and</strong> words as<br />

well as most of her classmates. But drawing is what<br />

she likes most. The other children often ask her to<br />

draw pictures for them.<br />

Julia has made many friends. The children in her<br />

class who first looked at her as someone ‘special’,<br />

have now accepted her as one of their group. They<br />

include her in many games <strong>and</strong> activities, <strong>and</strong> treat<br />

her as just another child.<br />

Some problems have arisen. At first, carrying Julia<br />

to <strong>and</strong> from school each day was fun. But after awhile,<br />

many of the children got lazy <strong>and</strong> stopped helping.<br />

This meant more work for those who were left.<br />

The children got a new idea <strong>and</strong> asked their fathers<br />

for help. One Sunday a group of about 15 men <strong>and</strong><br />

20 children worked on improving the steep path from<br />

Julia’s house to the main walkway leading to school.<br />

They made the curves wider so that the trail would be<br />

less steep, removed all rocks, leveled the surface, <strong>and</strong><br />

pounded the dirt into a hard, smooth surface.<br />

One of the children’s father had a small repair shop<br />

in the village. Another was a carpenter. With the help<br />

of their children, these 2 craftsmen made a simple<br />

wheelchair out of an old chair, 2 casters, <strong>and</strong> some<br />

bicycle wheels.<br />

Julia was excited when she saw the wheelchair. Her<br />

arms <strong>and</strong> h<strong>and</strong>s were already strong, <strong>and</strong> with a little<br />

practice she learned to wheel her new chair up the<br />

long winding trail to the village.<br />

“Now you can come <strong>and</strong> go to school on your<br />

own.” said Tomás. “How do you feel?”<br />

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“Free!” laughed Julia. “I feel like writing a<br />

declaration of independence!” Then she thought a<br />

moment <strong>and</strong> frowned. “I know I’m not completely<br />

independent—but that’s all right. We all depend on<br />

each other in some ways. And I guess that’s how it<br />

should be!”<br />

“It’s being equal that counts,” said Tomás. “It’s<br />

knowing that you’re worth just as much as anybody<br />

else. Nobody’s perfect!”<br />

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Things also began to go better at home. As Julia’s<br />

self-respect grew, so did her parents’ appreciation<br />

of her. Suddenly both Julia <strong>and</strong> her mother realized<br />

that there were many things that Julia could do. She<br />

began to help with preparing meals, washing clothes,<br />

<strong>and</strong> taking care of her younger brother <strong>and</strong> sister.<br />

She treated them more lovingly <strong>and</strong> never pinched<br />

or made them cry (except, of course, when they<br />

deserved it!).<br />

Julia’s mother wondered how she had ever<br />

managed to get along without Julia’s help. She<br />

missed her during the long hours she was at school.<br />

And when she realized she was going to have<br />

another baby, she thought Julia would have to stop<br />

going to school to help more at home.<br />

Julia’s father shook his head. “No,” he said. “School<br />

is more important for Julia than for any of our other<br />

children —if she is going to learn skills to make<br />

something of her life. And besides,” he reminded<br />

his wife, “if we hadn’t sent her to school, she would<br />

probably still be sitting outside in the dirt. It took the<br />

schoolchildren to teach us what a wonderful little girl<br />

we have.”<br />

Julia’s mother smiled <strong>and</strong> nodded in agreement.<br />

“You’re absolutely right,” she said. “The schoolchildren...<br />

<strong>and</strong> especially that wise little boy, Tomás!”<br />

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ACTIVITY:<br />

CHILDREN WHO HAVE DIFFICULTY UNDERSTANDING<br />

In many communities, a child who is mentally slow, has an especially difficult time.<br />

Other children may make fun of him for not being as quick as they are, or for not being<br />

able to underst<strong>and</strong>, follow, or remember things as easily as they can. They may not<br />

realize that this child has the same need for friendship, play, <strong>and</strong> respect as they do.<br />

This activity is designed to help children gain more appreciation of both the needs<br />

<strong>and</strong> possibilities of the child who is mentally slow. They will explore possible ways<br />

to help the child to feel a part of their group, <strong>and</strong> to learn new things at his or her<br />

own speed.<br />

Talk with the children<br />

You may want to start the activity by asking the children questions such as:<br />

• Do you know a child who doesn’t seem to underst<strong>and</strong> or remember things as<br />

well as others her age?<br />

• Does this child play much with other children?<br />

• How do other children treat this child?<br />

• How do you think it would feel if you had a similar difficulty?<br />

Games <strong>and</strong> activities<br />

Begin with games <strong>and</strong> activities that help the children discover what it may feel like<br />

to have difficulty underst<strong>and</strong>ing, <strong>and</strong> to be unfairly blamed for that difficulty. Then the<br />

children can look for ways to help a person learn that are easier, friendlier, <strong>and</strong> more<br />

effective.<br />

A gAMe TO STArT WITH: ‘engLeFLIP’<br />

(‘engleflip’ is a nonsense word, but let us pretend that it means ‘St<strong>and</strong> up’.)<br />

1. Ask one child in the<br />

group to ‘engleflip’.<br />

4. Now help the<br />

children<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> what<br />

you mean by<br />

showing them,<br />

assisting them,<br />

or gently<br />

explaining.<br />

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2. Say it louder.<br />

Get angry.<br />

3. Ask several other<br />

children.<br />

After the activity, discuss...<br />

• How did you feel when you could<br />

not underst<strong>and</strong> the teacher?<br />

• Was it right for the teacher to get<br />

angry? Did it help?<br />

• Did the teacher finally do it<br />

better? In what ways?<br />

• In what ways might your<br />

difficulty with ‘engleflip’ be<br />

similar to that of a child who<br />

has trouble underst<strong>and</strong>ing things?


Role playing<br />

You can also use role plays or skits to explore the difficulties of a child who does<br />

not underst<strong>and</strong>, <strong>and</strong> how to help him underst<strong>and</strong>. For example:<br />

Ask 5 children to put on the role play.<br />

They can pretend to be<br />

cleaning house. But before<br />

they start, ask one child to<br />

go out of the room. Tell the<br />

other 4 that after they have<br />

cleaned for awhile, they<br />

should turn to the 5th child<br />

<strong>and</strong> say, “Blah, blah, blah,<br />

blah.” Tell the 4 children that<br />

this means, “go get some<br />

water!’ But the 5th child will<br />

not know this.<br />

Tell the 4 children to<br />

keep saying the words,<br />

<strong>and</strong> then to add other<br />

ways to help the 5th child<br />

underst<strong>and</strong>.<br />

The 5th child comes back<br />

<strong>and</strong> they begin.<br />

Divide the class in groups of 5 (or more) <strong>and</strong> repeat the game. Have the children<br />

think of different situations <strong>and</strong> different meanings for “Blah, blah, blah, blah.”<br />

Afterwards, discuss with the whole class:<br />

• How did the child feel who did not underst<strong>and</strong>?<br />

• How did the others feel?<br />

• What did the others do to help the child underst<strong>and</strong>?<br />

• What else could they have done?<br />

Follow-up activity: Write or tell a story<br />

The story might begin by one child waking up one morning <strong>and</strong> not underst<strong>and</strong>ing<br />

anything anyone says.<br />

each child in the class writes or tells the rest of the story in his <strong>and</strong> her own way.<br />

Invite them to draw pictures with their stories.<br />

Ask the children to include in their stories ideas<br />

for helping the child underst<strong>and</strong>.<br />

This activity could be done in a language or<br />

writing class. After they have written the stories,<br />

the children can read them to classes of younger<br />

children.<br />

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Memory<br />

It is important that the children also realize the importance of remembering things<br />

<strong>and</strong> the difficulties of a child who has an especially hard time remembering. Then they<br />

can try to find ways to help that child remember things more easily.<br />

MEMORY GAME #1<br />

Ask the children to do many<br />

things, one after the other.<br />

Say the list of things in one<br />

sentence, very quickly. Do not<br />

wait for the children to do each<br />

thing before you say the next.<br />

If the children cannot<br />

remember all the things, repeat<br />

the list louder, but just as<br />

fast.<br />

now do it differently. Say<br />

each thing slowly, <strong>and</strong> wait<br />

until they do one thing before you<br />

go on to the next.<br />

MEMORY GAME #2<br />

Place 14 different things<br />

on a table where the<br />

children can see them. Let<br />

them look at them while<br />

you count to 30. Then cover<br />

them with a cloth <strong>and</strong> take<br />

7 things away. remove the<br />

cloth. Have the children<br />

write down the things that<br />

are missing.<br />

repeat the game using<br />

6 different things <strong>and</strong><br />

removing 3. Which is<br />

easier?<br />

After the memory games:<br />

• Ask the children why it was easier the second way.<br />

• explain that children who have trouble underst<strong>and</strong>ing are often confused when they<br />

are given too many instructions at once. even 2 instructions at once may be too many<br />

for such a child. What suggestions do the children have?<br />

• If the children know a child who has a hard time remembering things, they can help<br />

her improve her memory by playing these same kinds of games with her. Start<br />

with only 2 or 3 words or things, <strong>and</strong> as the child’s memory begins to get better,<br />

gradually add more. each time the child does well, praise her or give her a prize.<br />

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STORY AND DISCUSSION: “I FORGOT”<br />

Begin to tell a story<br />

about a little boy<br />

whose mother asks<br />

him to go to the corner<br />

store <strong>and</strong> buy some<br />

bananas. He comes<br />

back with nothing.<br />

Another day the boy goes to buy bananas <strong>and</strong> comes back with matches. Why? How<br />

could we help him remember? Here are some possibilities:<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

• Another child could go with the boy—not to buy the bananas, but to help him remember, or give<br />

him ‘clues’.<br />

• He could take a picture to remind him—or sticks to remind him of the number<br />

• Another child could practice with him at home. Play remembering games. Start with one thing at<br />

a time.<br />

• Praise or reward the boy each time he remembers <strong>and</strong> does it right. Do not praise <strong>and</strong><br />

never punish the child when he forgets. remember: He has difficulty remembering. It is not his<br />

fault!<br />

ROLE PLAY—GOING SHOPPING<br />

The children can act out a role play something<br />

like this:<br />

A mother sends her child shopping. She tells him a<br />

long list of things he must buy. He goes around the<br />

class 3 times <strong>and</strong> meets a lot of people who ask him<br />

a lot of questions like: “What time is it?” “Where<br />

are you going?” “Which way is the market?”<br />

How much does the child remember when he gets<br />

to the store?<br />

Talk with the class about what happened. How might it be made easier for the child to<br />

remember what he must buy? (Let us suppose the child cannot read.)<br />

PUTTING INTO PRACTICE WHAT WE LEARN<br />

Do the children know any child in the village or neighborhood who has difficulty<br />

underst<strong>and</strong>ing or remembering?<br />

Is there something they can do that might help the child to:<br />

• feel he has friends who respect<br />

him <strong>and</strong> with whom he can play?<br />

• remember things better?<br />

• learn to do more for himself?<br />

• Why did he not bring the bananas?<br />

• What might have happened?<br />

• How could we help?<br />

• go to school, <strong>and</strong> get the<br />

extra help he needs?<br />

• enjoy himself more <strong>and</strong> fit<br />

into the community better?<br />

If there are some children (or grown-ups) in town who make fun of the disabled<br />

child or treat him badly, is there anything the children can do? What? What precautions<br />

should they take? The story on the next page can give children ideas for helping a child<br />

who is mentally slow to learn basic skills. For more ideas, see Chapters 32 to 41.<br />

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This is the story of 2 brothers, Zaki age 9, <strong>and</strong> nasir age<br />

7. Their father was a shopkeeper in Peshawar, <strong>and</strong> their<br />

mother was a teacher. They had a big brother <strong>and</strong> a big<br />

sister who were both students, living away from home.<br />

Zaki was doing well at school but nasir had never even<br />

started school. There was something different about nasir<br />

from other children. nasir was mentally disabled. His<br />

brain did not work properly. He could only say a few odd<br />

words. He could not dress himself, <strong>and</strong> he made a mess<br />

at mealtimes.<br />

Zaki felt ashamed to have such a brother. neighborhood<br />

children made fun of nasir. They called him nasty names<br />

<strong>and</strong> pushed him about. nasir would get angry <strong>and</strong> try<br />

to hit them, <strong>and</strong> then fall flat on his face. Some of the<br />

grownups would shake their heads <strong>and</strong> say nasir had an<br />

evil spirit inside him.<br />

The worst of it for Zaki was that he had to take care<br />

of nasir a lot of the time, when there was nobody else<br />

at home. It meant that he could not go out to play with<br />

his friends from school. And there was nothing to enjoy<br />

in looking after nasir. He could not talk. He did not know<br />

how to play any games<br />

Zaki felt very sorry for himself, <strong>and</strong> used to hate nasir<br />

for the times he had to stay in the house looking after<br />

him. It was so unfair! He had never done anything wrong,<br />

so why should he have to have a brother like that, who<br />

stopped him from going out <strong>and</strong> playing with his friends?<br />

One day a visitor came by their house, looking for<br />

Zaki’s father. It was his cousin, Dr. Daud. Zaki’s parents<br />

were out. Only Zaki <strong>and</strong> nasir were in the house. Dr.<br />

Daud noticed that Zaki had been crying. “What’s the<br />

matter?” he asked. Zaki told Dr. Daud all about his<br />

brother nasir <strong>and</strong> how his own life was spoiled by having<br />

to look after him.<br />

Dr. Daud listened carefully.<br />

Then he said, “Yes, you’ve<br />

certainly got a problem. But<br />

tell me, what are you doing<br />

about it?” “What can I do?”<br />

cried Zaki. “nasif’s just as<br />

bad now as he was 2 years<br />

ago, <strong>and</strong> he’ll be twice as<br />

stupid in another 2 years<br />

time.” Dr. Daud looked<br />

thoughtful. “Well, he might<br />

be,” he replied. “But that<br />

depends on how clever you<br />

are.”<br />

“What do you mean?” asked Zaki. “I’m getting good<br />

marks at school, while he can’t even start” “Well,” said<br />

Dr. Daud, “if you’re clever enough for 2 then you could<br />

really help nasir to change for the better. Then you’d both<br />

be happier <strong>and</strong> you’d get more free time to go out <strong>and</strong><br />

play.” “How can I do that?” asked Zaki. Dr. Daud said,<br />

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ZAKI AND NASIR<br />

A Story From Pakistan<br />

“First, I’ll have a talk with your father <strong>and</strong> mother.”<br />

That evening Dr. Daud called again <strong>and</strong> had a long talk<br />

with Zaki’s parents. “I can’t give you any medicine for<br />

nasir,” he said, “because there isn’t any that will cure<br />

him of mental disability. not even the best surgeons can<br />

do anything. But you have the answer right here in your<br />

own home. If you have enough time <strong>and</strong> patience you<br />

can teach nasir to do a lot more than he can do now.”<br />

But Zaki’s father said, “That’s just the problem! We don’t<br />

have enough time at home. I can’t have nasir in the shop.<br />

He pulls everything off the shelves. And his mother is<br />

teaching at school <strong>and</strong> then has to get our food, <strong>and</strong> then<br />

gives private lessons. We can’t stop working, or we’ll<br />

never eat <strong>and</strong> pay the rent.”<br />

“But Zaki has the time,” said Dr. Daud. “He could do<br />

a lot to teach nasir. Why not try it for a month. I’ll show<br />

you where to start.”<br />

So Zaki became nasir’s teacher. But he also learned a<br />

lot of things himself. He started teaching nasir to dress<br />

himself. Of course, Zaki knew how to put on a shirt. You<br />

just pick it up, <strong>and</strong> put it on! But he soon realized that<br />

there was more to it, when teaching nasir. First you had<br />

to find which was the back <strong>and</strong> which was the front of<br />

the shirt. Then you had to find the main hole <strong>and</strong> get the<br />

head through it. Then one arm went into the right sleeve.<br />

Then the other arm into the other sleeve. next you pull<br />

the whole thing down over yourself.<br />

Then there was teaching nasir to feed himself. You<br />

would think it was obvious, how to eat! But nasir had to<br />

find out step by step how to pick up a piece of chapati, get<br />

some curry on it, put it into his mouth <strong>and</strong> remember to<br />

chew <strong>and</strong> swallow. It took dozens of repetitions <strong>and</strong> lots<br />

of encouragement <strong>and</strong> rewards before nasir learned each<br />

step. Zaki began to realize what Dr. Daud had meant. He<br />

needed to be clever enough for 2 in order to puzzle out<br />

how to teach nasir. But when nasir succeeded in some<br />

small step, they were both so delighted that it made all<br />

the effort worthwhile.<br />

A few months later Dr. Daud was passing Zaki’s house.<br />

Zaki came rushing out, “Quick, Doctor, you must come<br />

in!” Dr. Daud hurried in, thinking he would find someone<br />

at the point of death. But all he saw was nasir, grinning<br />

broadly in his chair. “What is it? What’s the matter?”<br />

dem<strong>and</strong>ed the doctor. Zaki was so excited he could hardly<br />

speak. “He said a whole sentence, Doctor. nasir did. He’s<br />

never said more than 2 words together before now. He<br />

just said, ‘Zaki give sweets to nasir’. I’ve been trying for<br />

months to get him talking. He did it! He did it!”<br />

Doctor Daud<br />

smiled. “I think you<br />

like your brother<br />

better than you used<br />

to,” he said.


ACTIVITY:<br />

LET’S FIND OUT HOW WELL CHILDREN SEE AND HEAR<br />

Background discussion<br />

Some children cannot see or hear as well as other children. Often we do not know<br />

about this <strong>and</strong> the child says nothing. But because the child does not hear the teacher<br />

or see the blackboard, he may not learn as quickly as others. So he may try to hide in<br />

a corner. We can help him by letting him sit close to the teacher.<br />

Also, babies who cannot hear well do not learn to talk or underst<strong>and</strong> as early as<br />

others.<br />

In this activity, the school children try to find out which young children <strong>and</strong> babies do<br />

not see or hear well, <strong>and</strong> need help.<br />

HELPING CHILDREN UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEM<br />

One way to get children thinking about these problems is to ask questions like:<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

Do you know anybody who does not see or hear well?<br />

Do you act differently with these people? Why?<br />

How would you feel if you did not see well? Or hear well?<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

Games to help children underst<strong>and</strong> the difficulties of poor hearing<br />

GAME: LISTEN LISTEN<br />

All the children are<br />

completely silent for 3 minutes.<br />

They listen very carefully<br />

to the noises around them.<br />

Afterwards, they write down or<br />

draw everything they heard.<br />

GAME: WHAT DID YOU SAY?<br />

One child plugs his ears while another tells a funny story to the group. Then one of<br />

the children plays ‘teacher’ <strong>and</strong> asks everyone, including the child who had his ears<br />

plugged, to answer questions about the story. Finally, they ask him what it felt like, not<br />

being able to hear the story well.<br />

Ask the children what they can do to help a child to hear better. Their suggestions<br />

might include:<br />

• Have the child sit ‘up front’ close to the teacher.<br />

• everyone can take care to speak slow, clear, <strong>and</strong> loud (but do not shout).<br />

• Use gestures or ‘sign language’ (if the child hears very little or not at all).<br />

• Watch people’s mouths <strong>and</strong> try to underst<strong>and</strong> what they say. This is not easy if you<br />

do not hear the words. Have the children try it.<br />

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GAME: TALKING WITHOUT WORDS<br />

<strong>Children</strong> who hear very poorly or not at all often cannot speak. This is not because<br />

they are stupid, but because they need to be able to hear in order to learn how to speak.<br />

This game will help children appreciate the difficulties of a child who cannot speak, <strong>and</strong><br />

give the children ideas of how to ‘talk’ without words to a child who does not hear.<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

Play a game where someone explains something to others<br />

through acting only, without words. The others must guess<br />

what it is he is trying to say. The leader can start by acting out<br />

a simple phrase like: “I want a glass of water.” The children<br />

try to guess what the leader is doing. next have the children<br />

take turns acting out different things <strong>and</strong> ideas. Start with easy<br />

phrases like:<br />

• I want to go to sleep.<br />

• give me the ball.<br />

And work toward more difficult ideas like:<br />

• I’m lost <strong>and</strong> can’t find my house.<br />

• I had a bad dream.<br />

Discussion after the game:<br />

Was it difficult to explain something without talking?<br />

How did you feel when no one understood you?<br />

What did the other children do to help you tell them what you wanted to?<br />

Could they have done more? What?<br />

How might you help children who cannot speak to communicate?<br />

explain to the children about sign language for the deaf. This is like the game in<br />

which children ‘talk’ with their h<strong>and</strong>s. One form of sign language uses mostly the<br />

alphabet. Another form, which deaf persons prefer for ‘talking’ with each other, uses<br />

symbols for different actions <strong>and</strong> things.<br />

If there is a deaf child<br />

in the school, or in the<br />

village or neighborhood,<br />

perhaps the children<br />

would be interested in<br />

finding a way to help<br />

that child learn to ‘sign’.<br />

Or they may want to<br />

learn themselves, in<br />

order to be able to ‘talk’<br />

with the deaf child.<br />

Alphabet sign language used in the USA. More<br />

discussion of sign language is on p. 266.<br />

If 1 or 2 children in the class can learn to sign <strong>and</strong> then help translate spoken<br />

language into sign language, this can allow the deaf children to learn <strong>and</strong> take part<br />

more fully in the school <strong>and</strong> in the community. (For books to learn sign language, see<br />

p. 639-640.) Also see Chapter 31.<br />

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Games to help children underst<strong>and</strong> the difficulties of poor sight<br />

GAME: CATCH A THIEF<br />

This game can help children underst<strong>and</strong> both the importance of good hearing<br />

<strong>and</strong> the difficulties of not seeing.<br />

• The children form a circle. One<br />

child st<strong>and</strong>s in the middle with<br />

her eyes covered. Around her<br />

feet are small stones, nuts, or<br />

other small objects.<br />

• The other children, one by one,<br />

try to creep up <strong>and</strong> steal these<br />

things.<br />

• If the child in the middle hears<br />

the ‘thief’, she points to him <strong>and</strong><br />

he is out of the game.<br />

• The goal is to see who can steal<br />

the most objects without being<br />

heard.<br />

GAME: BLURRED VISION<br />

One or more children are temporarily given poor or blurred vision in one of<br />

several ways:<br />

thick<br />

lenses<br />

Put somebody’s<br />

powerful eyeglasses<br />

on a child who<br />

needs no glasses.<br />

Have the child try to read from a book with letters of different sizes. Do the same on<br />

the blackboard. What trouble does he have? How close does he have to get? Does he<br />

read aloud from his book as well as the other children?<br />

GAME: BLINDFOLDED PARTNERS<br />

The children are in pairs. One is<br />

blindfolded, the other is her guide. The<br />

guide takes the blindfolded person for a<br />

walk, letting her feel different things <strong>and</strong><br />

taking care of her.<br />

After the game, discuss:<br />

• How did it feel not to be able to see?<br />

• What did your guide do that was<br />

helpful? not helpful? What might she<br />

have done better?<br />

• Did you trust your guide?<br />

Or, cover his eyes with a<br />

piece of tracing paper, wax<br />

paper, or other material<br />

that you can see through<br />

slightly.<br />

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GAME: FEEL A FRIEND<br />

GAME: WHAT’S THE SMELL?<br />

Blindfold the children <strong>and</strong> have them identify<br />

things by their smell: things such as orange,<br />

tea leaves, banana, <strong>and</strong> local herbs.<br />

One child is blindfolded. He tries to<br />

recognize his friends by feeling them.<br />

Similar feeling games can be played trying to<br />

identify different things by feeling them.<br />

After the children play these different games, explain to them that because<br />

blind people cannot see, they often develop outst<strong>and</strong>ing ability to identify<br />

things through hearing them, feeling them, <strong>and</strong> smelling them.<br />

FINDING OUT WHICH CHILDREN HAVE PROBLEMS WITH<br />

HEARING AND SEEING<br />

It is important to find out as early as possible if a child cannot hear or see well.<br />

Older children can do some simple tests with their baby brothers <strong>and</strong> sisters. A class<br />

or group of children can also test the seeing <strong>and</strong> hearing of younger children, such as<br />

those in nursery school or the first year of elementary school.<br />

Testing the hearing of babies (4 months old <strong>and</strong> older)<br />

• <strong>Children</strong> can notice if their baby sister responds to<br />

different sounds, high <strong>and</strong> low, loud <strong>and</strong> soft. The<br />

baby may show surprise, make some movement,<br />

or turn her eyes or head toward the sound. notice if the<br />

baby responds to her mother’s voice when the baby does<br />

not see her.<br />

• Or make a rattle from seeds or small stones. Creep up <strong>and</strong> shake it behind the<br />

baby’s head, first on one side <strong>and</strong> then the other. See if the baby is surprised.<br />

• Then call the baby’s name from different places in the room. See if the<br />

baby responds.<br />

• To test if a baby hears some kinds of sound but not<br />

others, do this. Sit at arm’s length from the baby, <strong>and</strong><br />

to one side. When she is not looking, make different<br />

kinds of sounds. Say “Ps” <strong>and</strong> “Fth” to test for highpitched<br />

sounds, then “Oooo” for low-pitched sounds.<br />

For other high pitched sounds, crinkle a thin, stiff piece<br />

of paper or rub a spoon inside a cup. For other low<br />

pitched sounds, watch if the child notices the noise of a passing truck, a train<br />

whistle, a cow’s ‘moo’ or low notes on a musical instrument or drum.<br />

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If the baby does not show surprise or turn her head with any of these sounds, she<br />

may have a severe hearing problem If she responds only to certain sounds, but not<br />

to others, she has some hearing. But she may not be able to underst<strong>and</strong> language<br />

well because she cannot tell certain words apart. As a result, she may not speak as<br />

early or as clearly as other children <strong>and</strong> will need special help. (See Chapter 31.)<br />

Testing the hearing of young children (a game)<br />

• An older child st<strong>and</strong>s several meters from a line of younger children.<br />

• Behind each young child st<strong>and</strong>s an older child with pencil <strong>and</strong> paper.<br />

What to do for the child with a hearing problem<br />

•<br />

• The first child<br />

says the name<br />

of an animal<br />

verY LOUDLY<br />

• Then the first child names other animals, each in a softer <strong>and</strong> softer<br />

voice, until he is whispering.<br />

• After about 10 animals have been named, <strong>and</strong> the words that the<br />

younger children heard have been written down, compare the different<br />

children’s lists.<br />

• repeat this 2 or 3 times<br />

• Any child who has not heard as many words as the others, or<br />

has not heard them correctly, probably has a hearing problem.<br />

Let the child sit at the front of the class where he can hear better.<br />

• The young children<br />

whisper the word to<br />

their older partners.<br />

• The older children<br />

write it down.<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

• Be sure everyone speaks clearly <strong>and</strong> loudly enough. But do not shout because<br />

shouting makes the words less clear. Check often to make sure the child<br />

underst<strong>and</strong>s.<br />

• Have one child who hears well sit next to the one who hears poorly—to repeat <strong>and</strong><br />

explain things if necessary.<br />

• Always try to look at the child while you are speaking to him.<br />

• If possible, the child should be examined by a health worker—especially<br />

if he has<br />

pus in an ear or frequent earache.<br />

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HOW CAN CHILDREN HELP CARE FOR THEIR BROTHERS’ AND SISTERS’ EARS?<br />

They can regularly look to<br />

be sure that there is no pus or<br />

small objects inside. If they see<br />

anything wrong they should tell an<br />

older person, who should take the<br />

child to a health worker.<br />

HEARING GAMES THAT CHILDREN CAN PLAY WITH BABIES<br />

Most babies who are ‘deaf’ hear something. They need help in learning to listen.<br />

The children may think of games to help babies listen <strong>and</strong> learn.<br />

For example:<br />

• Sing to babies, <strong>and</strong> teach songs to young children.<br />

• Tell them stories <strong>and</strong> change voices to sound like<br />

different people in the story—loud, soft, angry.<br />

TESTING IF A BABY SEES (FOR A CHILD OVER 3 MONTHS OLD)<br />

• <strong>Children</strong> can notice if the baby begins to look<br />

at things held in front of him, to follow them<br />

with his eyes, to smile at mother’s face, <strong>and</strong><br />

later to reach for things held out to him.<br />

• Hang a bright colored object in front of the<br />

baby’s face <strong>and</strong> move it from side to side.<br />

Does the baby follow with his eyes or head?<br />

• If not, in a fairly dark room, move a lighted<br />

c<strong>and</strong>le or torch (flashlight) in front of the<br />

child’s face. repeat 2 or 3 times.<br />

If the baby does not follow the object or light with his eyes or head, probably he does<br />

not see. He will need special help in learning to do things <strong>and</strong> move about without<br />

seeing. Other children can help. (See Chapter 30.)<br />

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Testing how well children see (4 years old <strong>and</strong> older)<br />

A group of older children can make an eye chart. They can cut out black ‘e’s of<br />

different sizes <strong>and</strong> paste them on white cardboard.<br />

First let the children test each other.<br />

Hang the chart in a place where the<br />

light is good. Then make a line about<br />

6 meters from the chart. The child to be<br />

tested st<strong>and</strong>s behind the line, holding<br />

the cut-out ‘e’. Another child points at<br />

different ‘e’s’, starting from the top.<br />

Ask the child being tested to hold<br />

the cut-out ‘e’ so that its legs’ point<br />

the same way as the ‘e’ on the chart.<br />

If the child can easily see the ‘e’s on<br />

the bottom line, he sees well.<br />

If he has trouble seeing the second or<br />

third line, he sees poorly.<br />

• To make the testing<br />

more fun, you can<br />

use horses in the<br />

shape of ‘e’s.<br />

• Make 5 cards using<br />

different size horses.<br />

Make the sizes<br />

the same as those<br />

shown for the letter<br />

‘e’ in the chart at the<br />

top of this page.<br />

• Or use a chart<br />

with ‘C’s.<br />

Ask the child<br />

either to hold<br />

a horse shoe<br />

in the same<br />

position as<br />

the different<br />

‘C’s on the chart, or<br />

to tell you for each ‘C’<br />

which way the horse<br />

shoe is going.<br />

To test children who are mentally slow, deaf, or have trouble<br />

communicating, you can use pictures of different things they<br />

recognize. Hold up one picture at a time <strong>and</strong> have the child either<br />

name it or point to a similar picture-or the<br />

real object. For<br />

example, you can<br />

make a set of cards<br />

with pictures like<br />

this:<br />

CHILD-to-child<br />

Also make one<br />

large ‘E’ shape<br />

out of<br />

cardboard or<br />

other material. <strong>Children</strong> making an eye chart. (Mexico)<br />

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CHAPTer <strong>47</strong><br />

After the children practice testing each other, they can test the eyesight of those<br />

in the younger grades <strong>and</strong> the children who will be starting school soon.<br />

WHAT TO DO FOR THE CHILD WHO SEES POORLY<br />

• Be sure he sits in front, close to the blackboard.<br />

• Write large <strong>and</strong> dark on the blackboard, <strong>and</strong> check often to make sure<br />

he can read what is there.<br />

• If possible, the child should go to a health worker for more tests.<br />

He may need glasses.<br />

• If he cannot get glasses, try to find a<br />

magnifying glass. This may help him<br />

read small letters.<br />

• It he has not learned to read <strong>and</strong> write<br />

because he does not see well, teach him<br />

with<br />

• If the child still has trouble reading,<br />

have another child read his books <strong>and</strong><br />

lessons to him aloud.<br />

Looking at each other’s eyes for signs of problems<br />

Start with questions to get the children interested. For example:<br />

• Are your eyes the same as your classmates?<br />

Shiny? Clear?<br />

• How about the eyes of your younger brothers<br />

<strong>and</strong> sisters?<br />

• Can you see well in the dark? Or do you often<br />

stumble at night?<br />

• Do a child’s eyes look dull? Are there any<br />

unusual spots or wrinkles? If so, see a health<br />

worker.<br />

Many children in different parts of the world become<br />

blind because they do not eat foods that make their<br />

eyes healthy. Eating yellow fruits or dark green<br />

leafy vegetables helps protect the eyes. Some extra<br />

cooking oil added to food also helps.<br />

If children’s eyes are red or sore, you can<br />

suggest that they wash them often with clean<br />

water with a little salt in it (no saltier than<br />

tears). This may help eyes get better <strong>and</strong> keep<br />

the flies away. If they do not get better soon,<br />

see a health worker.<br />

For more information on eye problems <strong>and</strong> blindness, see Chapter 30.<br />

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