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The Key <strong>to</strong> Grasping<br />

a Second Chance in Life<br />

We live in a time where we<br />

need <strong>to</strong> believe in second chances.<br />

At one point or ano<strong>the</strong>r, we all need a second<br />

chance. A relationship goes sour, a deal falls<br />

apart, a test is not passed, and a child breaks<br />

your heart. Disappointment can easily become<br />

despair and we wonder,<br />

"Should I try again?<br />

Will I get a second chance?<br />

Do I even want one?"<br />

What are second chances?<br />

Do we really need <strong>the</strong>m?<br />

Do we believe in <strong>the</strong>m?<br />

Yes, we do need <strong>the</strong>m but who is giving us<br />

<strong>the</strong>se second chances? Is it just our own special<br />

ability <strong>to</strong> say, we have been forgiven, or do we<br />

seek a second chance that is <strong>to</strong> be given by<br />

someone else.<br />

When Tiger Woods cheated on his partner, he<br />

begged for a second chance at reconciliation.<br />

By Christine Ng<br />

When Edison Chen was involved with <strong>the</strong><br />

sex scandal, he needed a second chance<br />

from <strong>the</strong> public in order <strong>to</strong> continue his<br />

entertainment career. When a child lies <strong>to</strong> a<br />

parent, <strong>the</strong>y earn <strong>the</strong>ir trust back with<br />

second chances.<br />

I had a friend at 26, who decided <strong>the</strong>re was<br />

no light at <strong>the</strong> end of <strong>the</strong> tunnel. He killed<br />

himself by jumping in front of a train.<br />

The vital ingredient in surviving life's<br />

setbacks is <strong>to</strong> believe. My friend gave up<br />

believing life could get better for him and I<br />

am sorry that I didn't talk <strong>to</strong> him when life<br />

was hard. This leads me <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> second vital<br />

ingredient, talking! Talk about your<br />

problems and your feelings.<br />

I wake up every morning, go <strong>to</strong> work and do<br />

<strong>the</strong> house chores. It might be mundane, but<br />

guess what, “I love my life!”<br />

Everyone deserves a second chance. We<br />

need <strong>to</strong> give ourselves as well as o<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>to</strong>o.<br />

If we didn't feel we had a second chance,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re would be no point <strong>to</strong> anything.

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