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BISMARCK • MANDAN • DICKINSON<br />
FEBRUARY 2013<br />
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<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, O.S.B.<br />
Prioress of Annunciation Monastery
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CONTENTS FEBRUARY 2013<br />
FEATURES<br />
18 Fashion<br />
Can men in the Midwest pull off the<br />
skinny jean?<br />
22 Success Under 45<br />
This lady has grown her<br />
business to every corner of the<br />
state.<br />
6 Cover Story<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong><br />
22<br />
Prioress of Annunciation<br />
Monastery<br />
29 Leisure<br />
Enjoy this winter past time while<br />
there is still enough snow to do it.<br />
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EXTRA QUESTIONS <strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong><br />
FULL BOOK REVIEW: Visiting Tom<br />
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PUBLISHER’S NOTE EXTRA<br />
Smile<br />
Are you too important<br />
to smile? With certain<br />
responsibilities, some<br />
people feel it is not proper<br />
to smile. After reading an<br />
article about smiling, I felt<br />
compelled to write about<br />
the subject.<br />
Rank should not<br />
preclude one from smiling<br />
in order to send a signal of<br />
authority.<br />
What does a smile say?<br />
When we meet a friend or<br />
Joe Hauer, publisher an acquaintance, a smile<br />
says so much. It settles<br />
people at a social or business setting. A while ago, I<br />
walked into a business and the owners, whom I have<br />
known for a short time, greeted me with a big smile and<br />
a polite hello. I made a purchase as did the friend that<br />
was with me. The rewards of their smile may provide<br />
additional income from their customers in the years<br />
ahead.<br />
The smile that we get or give is free. The training that<br />
we need to work at requires effort from the employer<br />
and the employee. Often times a business does not<br />
take the time to teach their employees how they want<br />
to be represented to the public. We are in business to<br />
sell products or services, so why would we not invest in<br />
proper training, which of course includes a free smile.<br />
So, put a little more into your job than is expected<br />
of you and wear a smile with pride. And you will be<br />
surprised with the results. Don’t wait until you must<br />
smile. Make it a way of life.<br />
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Give from the Heart<br />
On Feb. 14, Governor<br />
Jack Dalrymple will declare<br />
Valentine’s Day as Giving<br />
Hearts Day in North<br />
Dakota.<br />
For those who want to<br />
do something different for<br />
Valentine’s Day, this is your<br />
opportunity to donate to all<br />
the wonderful nonprofits in<br />
the Bismarck/Mandan area<br />
and feel good about it.<br />
On this day, from 12<br />
a.m. to 11:59 p.m., you can<br />
donate to the Giving Hearts<br />
Day campaign. This one-<br />
day fundraiser raises money<br />
for local charities such as<br />
Rebecca Rattei,<br />
executive director<br />
and editor<br />
Elk’s Camp Grassick, The Abused Adult Recourse Center,<br />
the Bismarck Public Schools Foundation, Central Dakota<br />
Children’s Choir, Cystic Fibrosis Association of ND, First<br />
Choice Clinic in Bismarck, Gateway to Science Center,<br />
ND 4-H Foundation, North Dakota Safety Council, North<br />
Dakota Teen Challenge, North Dakota Women’s Network,<br />
Northern Plains Dance, Prairie Learning Center, Ronald<br />
McDonald House in Bismarck, St. Joseph’s School and the<br />
St. Mary’s Foundation.<br />
To donate (it’s super easy and only takes five minutes to<br />
do), log on to www.impactgiveback.com and search for<br />
the nonprofit you’d like to donate to. You can donate as<br />
much as you’d like to as many charities as you want. This<br />
donation is even tax deductable.<br />
The Giving Hearts Day fundraiser is one of the biggest<br />
fundraisers of the year for most nonprofits and the money<br />
goes to a good cause which local Bismarck/Mandan residents<br />
can see for themselves throughout the year.<br />
I encourage everyone to give from their heart and donate<br />
what they can to this very special fundraiser. There is no<br />
greater feeling than knowing your contribution is going to<br />
a good cause.<br />
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CONTENTS<br />
FEBRUARY<br />
2013<br />
<strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> n<br />
Publisher’s Note 4<br />
Cover Story n<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong> 6<br />
Community Cluster n<br />
CM/KFYR Salutes 10<br />
Sportswatch 12<br />
New Around Town 14<br />
CM Tip 14<br />
Commissioner’s Corner 15<br />
Arts and Entertainment n<br />
Local Events 16<br />
Taste of N.D. 17<br />
Fashion 18<br />
Hobby Hub n<br />
Crossword 19<br />
Good Reads 20<br />
Mommy Blog 20<br />
Business and Money n<br />
Business How To 21<br />
Success Under 45 22<br />
Ask the Professor 24<br />
Home n<br />
Home 101 26<br />
Health n<br />
Body Talk 28<br />
Travel n<br />
Leisure 29<br />
The Badlands 30<br />
Western N.D. n<br />
Josh Nichols 31
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, O.S.B.<br />
Prayerful Servant<br />
Title: President of St. Alexius<br />
Board of Directors<br />
Prioress, Annunciation Monastery<br />
DOB: Aug. 26, 1964<br />
High School: Harvey High School, Class of 82<br />
College: University of Mary,<br />
Bachelor’s in Business Administration<br />
Master’s in Management<br />
Book currently reading: Mrs. Kennedy and Me:<br />
An Intimate Memoir by Clint Hill<br />
(with Lisa McCubbin)<br />
Quote: “Listen with the ear of your heart.”<br />
(The Rule of St. Benedict)<br />
What people would be surprised to learn<br />
about you: “One of the things I enjoy<br />
immensely is racquetball.”<br />
When the going gets tough and you’re<br />
having a difficult time putting<br />
one foot in front of the other, take<br />
solace in the fact that the sisters of<br />
Annunciation Monastery just south of Bismarck are<br />
praying for us all. Every day.<br />
“Our primary ministry is prayer,” explained Sister<br />
<strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, currently serving her second four-year<br />
term as prioress. The sisters come together several<br />
times per day to pray as a monastic community on<br />
behalf of the needs of the world, the Church and the<br />
civic community. It’s the Benedictine way, which<br />
has been part of the fabric of this region since 1878<br />
when the sisters arrived in Bismarck to educate the<br />
children.<br />
Born and raised in Harvey, N.D., Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> is<br />
the fifth of eight children. Her father ran the local<br />
men’s clothing store and her mother was a stay-athome<br />
mom. After being exposed to retail at the<br />
family’s store, Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> moved to Bismarck,<br />
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“ My visits to the<br />
monastery were<br />
becoming so frequent<br />
that, one day, Sister<br />
JoAnn Krebsbach<br />
said, ‘Why don’t<br />
you just stay?’<br />
”<br />
earned a business degree at U-Mary, and then began<br />
carving out a career at Bismarck’s Target.<br />
Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>’s first years at college were a time<br />
of questioning as she struggled to find her niche.<br />
“I crammed a four-year degree into five years,”<br />
she joked. She dreamed of following the path of<br />
most young people: a good education, a career, a<br />
significant other, marriage, children.<br />
But God had other plans and articulated them<br />
through the sisters of the Annunciation Monastery.<br />
“There were a couple of sisters who, you could say,<br />
took me in and guided me in ways of choosing a field<br />
of study, and in spirituality,” said Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>. “It’s<br />
amazing that once one gets their priorities in order,<br />
things tend to fall into place very nicely.”<br />
Mentorship turned into friendship, and friendship<br />
led to a calling. “My visits to the monastery were<br />
becoming so frequent that, one day, Sister JoAnn<br />
Krebsbach said, ‘Why don’t you just stay?’”<br />
Her affirmative answer to that question<br />
marked Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>’s seven-year journey<br />
toward becoming a Benedictine sister. She<br />
made her perpetual monastic profession (took<br />
her final vows) in 1995. Along the way she held<br />
several positions at U-Mary including director<br />
of the bookstore, director of campus ministry<br />
and administrative assistant of the monastery.<br />
She was initially installed as prioress in May of<br />
2008.<br />
Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> described her leadership<br />
position at the monastery as the “ultimate<br />
calling.” The prioress is the spiritual and<br />
administrative leader of the monastery. She<br />
also serves as president of the board of St.<br />
Alexius Medical Center and U-Mary. The<br />
sisters also sponsor Garrison Memorial<br />
Hospital. “Together we work to ensure that<br />
Catholic, Christian and Benedictine values are<br />
lived out each day as we serve in health care<br />
and higher education.”<br />
You’re prioress of Annunciation<br />
cm: Monastery. Aren’t “monasteries”<br />
associated with monks?<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: It’s commonly<br />
misunderstood that monasteries are just<br />
for men. Monasteries are a place where<br />
“monastics” live together. A monastic is a<br />
person, a man or a woman, who seeks God—<br />
that is their primary purpose for entering<br />
religious life. They live in “community,” and<br />
they live according to a rule. For us it’s the Rule<br />
of Saint Benedict. A prioress is the leader of<br />
a women’s community; an abbot, for a men’s<br />
community.<br />
How do you teach someone to<br />
cm: pray?<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: The desire to pray is very<br />
important—that’s a key element.<br />
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CITY MAGAZINE COVER STORY
Some people say it<br />
would really be nice<br />
to pray, but having<br />
the desire to pray is<br />
paramount. One of<br />
the things I find most<br />
helpful in my prayer life<br />
is to consistently pray.<br />
You need to do it every<br />
day, and it would be<br />
really helpful to be able<br />
to do it in a quiet place<br />
at the same time every<br />
day, so you develop<br />
a routine, a rhythm.<br />
Many people think<br />
of prayer as talking<br />
to God, petitioning<br />
God, complaining<br />
to God, and we can<br />
become verbose even<br />
in prayer. But if we<br />
can come to the point<br />
of stopping the words<br />
and whatever’s going<br />
on in our mind, so<br />
that we become an<br />
empty vessel, God can fill that with what He<br />
would like us to hear. That’s how we come to<br />
know God’s will for us. If I would miss that<br />
opportunity to know what God’s will for me<br />
I’d be doing a disservice not only to myself but<br />
to those around me.<br />
What does it mean to have a<br />
cm: Catholic, Christian and<br />
Benedictian college education?<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: At the University of Mary,<br />
our mission sets us apart. We are here to serve<br />
the religious, academic and cultural needs of<br />
the people of this area and beyond. What sets<br />
us apart even within that mission is the legacy<br />
and heritage of the Benedictine Sisters. We are<br />
called to be better. We are called to have quality<br />
higher education imbued with the values of<br />
Gospel living. Setting us apart even more is our<br />
emphasis on servant leadership. Being proficient<br />
in your field or profession is very important, but<br />
a graduate of the University of Mary needs to<br />
become involved in their civic community, in<br />
their church community and to serve and model<br />
the values that set us apart. I think you can spot<br />
a University of Mary graduate by the way they<br />
work, the way they live, and the way they model<br />
the values of prayer, respect, service, moderation,<br />
community and hospitality.<br />
You’re president of the board for<br />
cm: St. Alexius Medical Center.<br />
Tell us about St. A’s joining the<br />
Mayo Care Network.<br />
<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: This is an example of a<br />
partnership where the patient comes first.<br />
It means we have access to some of the<br />
specialists and expertise available at Mayo. It’s<br />
a wonderful advantage for our patients to have<br />
that access without having to leave home and<br />
the support of their loved ones. It represents<br />
great medical advice for our patients as well as<br />
great expertise for the hospital in general on<br />
how to operate as efficiently as possible. .<br />
Tom Regan, a former editor of <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, has been<br />
a media professional for over 40 years.<br />
See <strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>’s answers to the “<strong>City</strong> Mag 10” questionnaire by visiting<br />
thecitymag.com and clicking “Extra Content.”<br />
CITY MAGAZINE COVER STORY
COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />
CITY MAGAZINE AND KFYR SALUTES CITY MAGAZINE AND KFYR SALUTES<br />
THE SALVATION ARMY<br />
When<br />
Captains<br />
Tim and<br />
Sally Sell<br />
arrived here in 2012 to<br />
head up the Salvation<br />
Army service center, they<br />
were a bit apprehensive<br />
because Bismarck-<br />
Mandan was much larger<br />
than any community<br />
in which they had<br />
previously served. But<br />
they quickly found out<br />
that Bismarck had a small<br />
town feel.<br />
“You know you’re in<br />
the right place when<br />
you’re driving and people<br />
pull over for a funeral<br />
procession,” said Tim<br />
Sell.<br />
The Sell’s, who are in<br />
their early 50s, were born<br />
and raised in northern<br />
Indiana. The couple<br />
served four successive<br />
appointments in Indiana,<br />
the last, in Huntington,<br />
before coming here.<br />
All the cities where<br />
they commanded had<br />
populations of less than<br />
25,000, he said.<br />
The Bismarck Salvation<br />
Army service center was<br />
extremely visible during<br />
the flood emergency of<br />
2011. In fact, according<br />
to Sell, the center<br />
provided over 60,000<br />
services to individuals<br />
in Bismarck-Mandan as<br />
part of the flood relief effort.<br />
They aren’t planning any major changes, for<br />
now. Capt. Sell said they have looked at ways to<br />
extend services to seniors and youth. Anticipating<br />
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Captains Tim and Sally Sell moved from Huntington,<br />
Indiana to head up the Salvation Army in Bismarck.<br />
summer programming, they have put out an<br />
appeal for volunteer registrations to drive children<br />
to and from a camp located in Finlayson, Minn.<br />
The Salvation Army was founded in 1865 in East<br />
London, England, by itinerate Methodist minister<br />
William Booth and his wife, Catherine. In the<br />
1880s, the movement spread to America, Canada,<br />
Australia, Asia, Africa and India. Today, the<br />
Salvation Army serves in more than 120 countries<br />
and territories and preaches the gospel in 160<br />
languages.<br />
The Salvation Army was established in Bismarck<br />
in 1889—hence, their phone number:<br />
701-223-1889.<br />
Bismarck<br />
Center<br />
Programming<br />
There are six “corps” offices in the state,<br />
located in Bismarck, Minot, Fargo, Grand Forks,<br />
Jamestown and Williston. There are also “service<br />
extension units” in each county. For more<br />
information visit http://salvationarmynorth.org/<br />
community/bismarck.<br />
Tom Regan, a former editor of <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, has been a<br />
media professional for over 40 years.<br />
• Free after-school program<br />
• Food pantry and bread shelf<br />
• Rent and utility assistance<br />
• Case management and referral services<br />
• Christmas assistance including new clothing and toys<br />
• Winter coat assistance for kids<br />
• Men’s and women’s fellowships<br />
• Disaster relief services<br />
• Supportive Services for Veteran’s Families (SSVF)<br />
• Sunday worship services and discipleship advancement<br />
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COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />
SPORTS WATCH (All times Central Time unless otherwise noted) SPORTS WATCH<br />
Friday, February 1:<br />
H.S. Boys Swimming – Century Invitational,<br />
Bismarck Aquatic and Wellness Center (BAWC),<br />
3:30 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. Fargo South, VFW<br />
Sports Center, 5 p.m.<br />
CHS vs. Fargo Davies, VFW Sports Center, 7:30 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – DHS vs. St. Mary’s, DHS,<br />
6 p.m. (MT)<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – DHS vs. St. Mary’s, DHS,<br />
7:45 (MT)<br />
H.S. Boys Wrestling – BHS vs. Century, BHS,<br />
7 p.m.<br />
Saturday, February 2:<br />
H.S. Boys Swimming – Century Invitational, BAWC,<br />
11 a.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – CHS vs. Fargo South, VFW<br />
Sports Center, 1 p.m.<br />
BHS vs. Fargo Davies, VFW Sports Center, 3 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – CHS vs. Williston, CHS,<br />
4 p.m.<br />
Shiloh vs. Washburn, Shiloh, 4:30 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – CHS vs. Williston, CHS,<br />
5:45 p.m.<br />
Tuesday, February 5:<br />
H.S. Boys Swimming – CHS vs. Minot, BAWC,<br />
5 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Hockey – MHS vs. Jamestown, Mandan<br />
All Season Arena, 7 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. CHS, VFW Sports<br />
Center, 7:15 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – MHS vs. Century, MHS,<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
Thursday, February 7:<br />
H.S. Girls Gymnastics – Dickinson Invitational,<br />
DHS, 5:30 p.m. (MT)<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. Jamestown, VFW<br />
Sports Center, 7:15 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – MHS vs. Century, MHS,<br />
7:45 p.m.<br />
Friday, February 8:<br />
H.S. Girls Hockey – Blizzard vs. Devils Lake,<br />
Schaumberg Arena, 7 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – St. Mary’s vs. Williston,<br />
SMCHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
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Saturday, February 9:<br />
H.S. Boys Swimming – Mandan Invitational,<br />
Mandan Aquatic Center, 10 a.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey - Mandan vs. Hazen/Beulah,<br />
Mandan All Seasons Arena, 2 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Hockey – Blizzard vs. Grand Forks,<br />
Schaumberg Arena, 3 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Williston, BHS,<br />
4 p.m.<br />
CHS vs. St. Mary’s, CHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Williston, BHS,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
CHS vs. St. Mary’s, CHS, 6 p.m.<br />
Tuesday, February 12:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Standing Rock,<br />
Shiloh, 5:45 p.m.<br />
Thursday, February 14:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Dickinson, BHS,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
St. Mary’s vs. Minot, SMCHS, 6 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Dickinson, BHS,<br />
7:45 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />
Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />
Friday, February 15:<br />
H.S. Girls Gymnastics – WDA, DHS, 5:00 (MT)<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />
Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />
Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />
Saturday, February 16:<br />
H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />
Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />
Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />
Monday, February 18:<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />
Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />
Tuesday, February 19:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Wilton, Shiloh,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS, 7:30 p.m.<br />
Thursday, February 21:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
Shiloh vs. Napoleon, Shiloh, 6 p.m.<br />
St. Mary’s vs. Dickinson, SMCHS, 6 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS,<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
St. Mary’s vs. Dickinson, SMCHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
Friday, February 22:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Jamestown, BHS,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
CHS vs. Minot, CHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – CHS vs. Minot, CHS,<br />
6 p.m.<br />
BHS vs. Jamestown, BHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />
Bismarck, TBA<br />
Saturday, February 23:<br />
H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />
Bismarck, TBA<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Turtle Lake-<br />
Mercer-McClusky, Shiloh, 2:30 p.m.<br />
Mandan vs. St. Mary’s, MHS, 6 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – Mandan vs. St. Mary’s,<br />
MHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />
Sunday, February 24:<br />
H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />
Bismarck, TBA<br />
Monday, February 25:<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B Region 5<br />
Basketball Tournament, Bismarck Civic Center, TBA<br />
Tuesday, February 26:<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – DHS vs. Mandan, DHS,<br />
6:30 (MT)<br />
Class B Region 5 Basketball Tournament,<br />
Bismarck Civic Center, TBA<br />
Thursday, February 28:<br />
H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Century, Bismarck<br />
Civic Center, 6 p.m.<br />
H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Century, Bismarck<br />
Civic Center, 7:45 p.m.<br />
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COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />
NEW AROUND TOWN COMMISSIONER’S CORNER<br />
MACKENZIE RIVER PIZZA, GRILL AND PUB<br />
OPENS IN PRIME BISMARCK LOCATION<br />
For more than 17 years,<br />
Robin Bopp was an<br />
occupational therapist,<br />
but now she has made a<br />
huge leap-of-faith career change<br />
as the co-owner of MacKenzie<br />
River Pizza, Grill and Pub with<br />
her husband, Tim.<br />
Cooking and food service<br />
isn’t completely foreign to her.<br />
In fact, it was one of her passions<br />
for years, as she operated<br />
a small catering business while<br />
doing occupational therapy full<br />
time in her native state –<br />
Montana.<br />
“MacKenzie River Pizza<br />
opened its first restaurant 20 years ago in Bozeman,”<br />
Bopp said. “We are the fifteenth location<br />
– the only one in North Dakota – and only one of<br />
five that is not corporately owned and features the<br />
pub and grill style.”<br />
The restaurant opened Dec. 3 and is the first restaurant<br />
to open in a growing retail area near north<br />
Wal-Mart. With new hotels and dozens of homes<br />
popping up near that location, the area needed a<br />
full-service, sit-down restaurant.<br />
“We do have an excellent location and are very<br />
glad to have had the excellent reception in the first<br />
few weeks,” she said. “Our first few weeks have<br />
been unbelievably busy. We hired Jason Johnson as<br />
our manager and have a wonderful new staff.”<br />
Unique pizzas are the backbone of the menu.<br />
A Thai pizza has peanut sauce, basil chicken,<br />
mandarin oranges, scallions, red peppers, peanuts,<br />
cilantro and mozzarella. A signature BLT pizza<br />
is always popular and the namesake MacKenzie<br />
River pizza tempts the taste buds.<br />
CITY MAGAZINE TIP<br />
FROSTED WINDOWS<br />
Rub the inside of your house windows with a<br />
sponge dipped in salt water for a clear, frostless<br />
winter view. For your car, keep a small cloth bag<br />
of salt in your car. When the windshield is wet,<br />
rub it with the bag. The salt will prevent your<br />
windshield to be covered with snow or ice.<br />
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Beyond pizzas, there are several entrees other<br />
restaurants are not known for in the Bismarck/<br />
Mandan region.<br />
“There are fish and chips, a hearty meatloaf,<br />
shepherd’s pie and country-fried steak,” Bopp said.<br />
These foods complement the restaurant’s décor<br />
theme – the rustic, woodsy, outdoor sportsmen<br />
feeling of the backwoods and wild mountain<br />
ranges of Montana. A driftboat hangs above<br />
patrons who sit on handmade pine chairs at pine<br />
tables. Each of these is handcrafted by one man for<br />
all the MacKenzie River eateries.<br />
Special pub brews are attracting a lot of customers.<br />
“We have many Montana and Oregon beers<br />
and also carry Fargo microbrews,” Bopp said.<br />
MacKenzie Pizza, Grill and Pub is located at 4510<br />
Skyline Crossing. Preview the menu at<br />
www.mackenzieriverpizza.com.<br />
Pam Link is a public relations professional and freelance<br />
writer, currently living in Washburn, N.D.<br />
NEW WATER INTAKE NEAR COMPLETION<br />
When you turn on your faucet, you<br />
expect water to come out. And<br />
not just any water: potable, clean,<br />
drinkable water. Having clean,<br />
drinkable water is a staple of any healthy and economically<br />
vibrant community. Clean water does<br />
not happen by accident and a growing community<br />
has to keep up with water demands. That is why<br />
Bismarck has been doing some visible and not so<br />
visible upgrades to its water intake and water treatment<br />
plant.<br />
On the visible side, Bismarck is updating its<br />
water intake operations. Many have been asking,<br />
“What is being built in the middle of the river?”<br />
No, it isn’t a new restaurant or boat dock, it is a<br />
new horizontal intake well. With this new well,<br />
Bismarck will be drawing its drinking water from<br />
beneath the river bottom. This creates a cleaner<br />
intake process which could reduce some of the<br />
cleaning we do at the treatment plant. Additionally,<br />
it ensures that we will not have intake concerns<br />
if the river gets too low as we are always drawing<br />
from the bottom instead of in the river as we do<br />
now. Last, it also increases our capacity for water<br />
treatment as this well can pump over 40 million<br />
gallons of water per day when it is up and operational.<br />
On the not-visible front, now that we have a<br />
bigger pumping operation, we need to have the<br />
capacity to process the additional water. Recently,<br />
we have upgraded and added new filtering and water<br />
softening capacity at the water treatment plant.<br />
These changes will increase Bismarck’s treatment<br />
capacity from the current maximum of 30 million<br />
gallons per day up to 40 million gallons per day, a<br />
25 percent increase.<br />
The intake and treatment upgrades should be<br />
operational in the later part of 2013. These important<br />
water upgrades position Bismarck to capitalize<br />
on the expected and foreseeable growth.<br />
Josh Askvig was first elected to the Bismarck <strong>City</strong> Commission<br />
in 2010. He can be reached on his web-form at www.Bismarck.<br />
org or found on Facebook or Twitter (@joshaskvig).<br />
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ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT<br />
LOCAL EVENTS TASTE OF N.D.<br />
EVENTS TO ATTEND, MUSIC TO HEAR<br />
AND EXHIBITS TO SEE – OH MY!<br />
Friday, February 1:<br />
Doubt<br />
Presented by Dakota Stage Ltd., is an award<br />
winning drama for mature audiences about truth and<br />
consequences – Dakota Stage, 7:30 p.m. (Feb.1-3)<br />
HOT 97.5 HOT SPOT Party<br />
Calling all teens for a night of fun and dancing –<br />
Bismarck Civic Center, 8 p.m.<br />
Saturday, February 2:<br />
The Big Event Carnival<br />
- Bismarck Civic Center, 1 – 4 p.m.<br />
Bismarck Hockey<br />
vs. Minot, VFW, 7:15 p.m. (Feb. 2-3)<br />
Mozart and Les Mis<br />
Presented by the Bismarck Mandan Civic Chorus<br />
and Missouri Valley Chamber Orchestra –<br />
Belle Mehus Auditorium, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 2-3)<br />
Monday, February 4:<br />
NDSC’s 40th Annual Safety and Health<br />
Conference<br />
- Bismarck Civic Center (Feb. 4-7)<br />
Tuesday, February 5:<br />
Explore Engineering<br />
- Bismarck Public Schools Career Academy,<br />
5:30 – 7:30 p.m.<br />
Wednesday, February 6:<br />
Live Music: Mike Swenson<br />
- Laughing Sun Brewery, 8 – 11p.m.<br />
Thursday, February 7:<br />
University of Mary Prayer Day<br />
- MacDowell Activity Center, 10 a.m.<br />
DECAdent Desserts<br />
Taste mouth-watering desserts and a chance to<br />
socialize with friends – IDEA Center, 7 – 9 p.m.<br />
Friday, February 8:<br />
Valentines Fine Dining Experience Benefit<br />
A special seven course meal with beer pairings<br />
and live music – Bismarck Municipal Country Club,<br />
5:30 – 10 p.m.<br />
Bobcats Hockey<br />
vs. Austin, VFW, 7:15 p.m. (Feb. 8-9)<br />
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PRCA Championship Rodeo<br />
- Bismarck Civic Center, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 8-9)<br />
Saturday, February 9:<br />
12th Annual Mother-Daughter Breakfast<br />
- Ramada Inn, 9:30 – 11 a.m.<br />
Frisky Ferrets!<br />
Animal Ed-Venture – Dakota Zoo, 2 – 4:30 p.m.<br />
Faerie Tales<br />
Dr. Beverly Everett and the BMSO are front and<br />
center in an all-orchestra program featuring music<br />
symphonic fairy tales – Bismarck Civic Center,<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
Sunday, February 10:<br />
I DO Bridal Show<br />
A one-stop wedding planning experience to possibly<br />
plan your entire wedding in just one day – Bismarck<br />
Civic Center, 12 – 4 p.m.<br />
Tuesday, February 12:<br />
KFYR Radio AGRI International Tradeshow<br />
- Bismarck Civic Center, 9 a.m. – 7 p.m. (Feb. 12-13)<br />
Wednesday, February 13:<br />
Live Music: Ben Suchy<br />
- Laughing Sun Brewery, 8 – 11 p.m.<br />
Friday, February 15:<br />
Bismarck Tribune Sports Show<br />
Bismarck Civic Center; Fri. 3 – 9 p.m.,<br />
Sat. 10 a.m. – 7 p.m., Sun. 12 – 5 p.m.<br />
Bobcats Hockey<br />
vs. Aberdeen, VFW, 7:15 p.m.<br />
Friday, February 22:<br />
Peter Rabbit<br />
The funny and fantastical fable - BSC, 1 – 4 p.m.<br />
2013 Home Show<br />
- Bismarck Civic Center, 3 – 9 p.m. (Feb. 22-24)<br />
NPB Presents Choregraphers’ Showcase<br />
- Belle Mehus Auditorium, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 22-23)<br />
Thursday, February 28:<br />
Dakota Zoo Annual Meeting<br />
- Bismarck/Mandan Elks Lodge, 6 p.m.<br />
*The above are entertainment events in Bismarck-Mandan, which are subject to change<br />
Ingredients:<br />
20 oz prepared whole-wheat pizza dough<br />
1/4 cup smooth natural peanut butter<br />
3 tbsp water<br />
2 tsp reduced-sodium soy sauce<br />
2 tsp rice vinegar<br />
2 tsp minced fresh ginger<br />
1 clove garlic, minced<br />
1 tsp canola oil<br />
8 oz boneless, skinless chicken breast,<br />
trimmed and diced<br />
1 red bell pepper, diced<br />
4 scallions, thinly sliced<br />
2/3 cup shredded part-skim mozzarella cheese<br />
Directions:<br />
Place oven rack in the lowest position; preheat to<br />
450°F. Coat a large baking sheet with cooking spray.<br />
Roll out or stretch dough on a lightly floured surface<br />
into a rough 16-inch oval. Transfer to the baking<br />
sheet. Bake on the bottom rack until puffed and<br />
lightly crisped on the bottom, 8 to 10 minutes.<br />
Meanwhile, whisk peanut butter, water, soy sauce,<br />
vinegar, ginger and garlic in a small bowl until well<br />
combined.<br />
Heat oil in a medium nonstick skillet over mediumhigh<br />
heat. Add chicken and cook, stirring, until<br />
cooked through, 2 to 4 minutes. Transfer to a<br />
medium bowl. Add bell pepper, scallions and 1<br />
tablespoon of the peanut sauce to the chicken; toss<br />
to combine.<br />
Remove the crust from the oven; spread evenly with<br />
the remaining peanut sauce. Top with the chicken<br />
mixture, then sprinkle with cheese. Return the pizza<br />
to the oven and bake on the bottom rack until the<br />
crust is crispy and golden and the cheese is melted,<br />
11 to 13 minutes.<br />
Cook’s Tip:<br />
Look for balls of whole-wheat pizza dough,<br />
fresh or frozen, at your supermarket. Choose a<br />
brand without hydrogenated oils.<br />
THAI CHICKEN PIZZA<br />
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ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT HOBBY HUB<br />
FASHION CROSSWORD<br />
THE SKINNY ON SKINNY JEANS FOR<br />
MIDWESTERN MEN<br />
North Dakota is known nationally for<br />
having a strong economy and booming<br />
oil business, but when it comes to<br />
men’s fashion, the powerhouse state is<br />
not often on the nation’s radar. With the east coast<br />
containing one of the world’s fashion capitols, New<br />
York, and the west coast claiming Los Angeles as<br />
it’s fashion mecca, style in the Midwest often lags<br />
behind these fashion forward regions. But when it<br />
comes to the skinny jean fad, do Midwestern men<br />
have it right?<br />
It’s safe to say that fewer men in the Midwest<br />
wear skinny jeans, and without the correct under-<br />
Pulling off the men’s skinny jean can be difficult and look best on slim,<br />
younger men.<br />
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standing of when and how to wear them, they can<br />
be one of the biggest fashion disasters. “The most<br />
important thing to understand about skinny jeans<br />
is that they don’t make you look skinny,” said Men’s<br />
Health Fashion Director, Brian Boye. “They really<br />
work best on slim body types, and definitely skew<br />
a bit younger.”<br />
So how old is too old to wear skinny jeans? It’s a<br />
matter of opinion. Most fashion experts admit that<br />
unless you’re in a band, skinny jeans work best<br />
on those who are 30 and younger. Mick Jagger still<br />
wears them, but then again he’s a legend.<br />
If you’re a slender guy and you like the look of<br />
skinny jeans, there’s a right way<br />
to wear them. “The key characteristic<br />
of skinny jeans is that<br />
they fit close to the body not just<br />
above the knee, but below as<br />
well,” Boye said. “If your pants<br />
are tight enough for us to see the<br />
shape of your leg, your pants are<br />
too tight.”<br />
A slim, straight fit jean is a<br />
great option for someone who<br />
wants slim, but not tight jeans.<br />
“The slim straight fit is cut narrow<br />
through the thigh and slim<br />
below the knee, but not tight, so<br />
it won’t look like you’re wearing<br />
a pair of jeggings,” Boye said.<br />
“Look for jeans where you have<br />
about an extra inch of fabric<br />
above the knee [to pull outward],<br />
and about double that below the<br />
knee.”<br />
With so many skinny jeans do’s<br />
and don’ts, maybe the majority<br />
of Midwestern men have it right?<br />
Let’s leave the skinny jeans to<br />
those other “fashion forward” regions<br />
and keep our rugged style<br />
alive.<br />
Mandy Thomas is a local communicator,<br />
writer, graphic artist and photographer with<br />
a love for all things creative.<br />
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HOBBY HUB<br />
GOOD READS<br />
Visiting Tom<br />
by<br />
Michael Perry<br />
Your friend called the other<br />
day, but you had to call him<br />
back.<br />
You were on your way out<br />
the door and didn’t have<br />
time to talk. But when you<br />
return-phoned him, he was<br />
busy and said he’d call<br />
again.<br />
You’ve played phone tag<br />
like this before, and you<br />
know the only antidote is<br />
to make an appointment<br />
– which is funny because,<br />
once upon a time, you<br />
couldn’t understand the<br />
appeal of “visiting.” Now<br />
you wish you had more<br />
time to just sit and talk and<br />
listen because, as you’ll see<br />
in Visiting Tom by Michael<br />
Perry, you learn a lot, and a<br />
lot about life.<br />
For the extended book<br />
review, visit<br />
thecitymag.com<br />
Terri Schlichenmeyer is owner of<br />
The Bookworm Sez, LLC, based out of<br />
LaCrosse, Wis. and writes book reviews<br />
for publications all across the country.<br />
HOBBY HUB BUSINESS AND MONEY<br />
MOMMY BLOG BUSINESS HOW TO<br />
NETWORK WITH YOUR ‘MOPS’<br />
There’s an old saying, “Close one door and another one<br />
will open.” I feel like I have found the secret closet<br />
door where mom used to hide all the Christmas gifts.<br />
The best gift being MOPS. We aren’t talking about<br />
the sticks with stringy rags attached to the end, rather, a group<br />
of outstanding mothers who love their job. They are Mothers of<br />
Preschoolers. They meet as a professional group bi-monthly to<br />
network, share ideas, gain understanding and knowledge of the<br />
profession of motherhood.<br />
MOPS is an international non-profit group that has been<br />
around since 1981 however, the first MOPS meeting dates back<br />
to 1973. MOPS is geared for mothers working inside or outside<br />
the home that have children ages 0-5 to share ideas, network,<br />
as well as gain personal development. Every state has several<br />
chapters. Bismarck-Mandan currently has three active MOPS<br />
chapters. Says Bismarck-Mandan MOPS mom, Penny Kaldor,<br />
“MOPS saved me. Not only have I met new lifelong friends, I’ve<br />
also learned new skills and gained resources to help me be the<br />
best mother possible for my children.” MOPS is a great outlet<br />
for moms to:<br />
• share frustrations and questions on parenting.<br />
• learn from “Mentor Moms” who have older children with<br />
great advice.<br />
• listen to area professionals with parenting tips.<br />
• learn creative and fun activities you can do with your child.<br />
• gain personal development as a woman and mother.<br />
• meet new people in the same stage of life as you.<br />
• take a break with other moms while volunteers do activities<br />
with your child.<br />
• set up play dates for your child.<br />
• swap toys, clothes, and books at the “Blessings” table.<br />
Many of the MOPS chapters meet at local churches; however,<br />
you don’t have to be a certain religion or a member of a certain<br />
church to join a MOPS group. The yearly fee is $23.99 to MOPS<br />
International and $10/semester to your local chapters. Babysitting<br />
is provided at $1/child/meeting. By signing up, you also get<br />
a free magazine subscription and MOPS International website<br />
access with great tips and parenting advice. Moms can join<br />
MOPS at anytime. To find a local chapter and contacts near you<br />
visit www.mops.org. You can also visit the MOPS Facebook<br />
page by searching for MOPS international.<br />
Open the door and find your MOPS. Aside from your<br />
children, it will be one of the greatest gifts you could ever give<br />
yourself. Being a mother is of the highest professions in the<br />
world. Rather than getting paid in dollars, we are paid in kisses,<br />
hugs, smiles and giggles. Our value — priceless.<br />
Amy Jo Johnson is a full-time mommy and Mojo Radio personality<br />
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HOW TO:<br />
MAKE YOUR BUSINESS LAST OVER 10 YEARS<br />
Did you know that according to the<br />
Small Business Administration,<br />
seven out of ten new businesses survive<br />
at least two years and 51 percent<br />
survive at least five years? Here are some tips to<br />
help your business last a long time:<br />
Conduct strategic planning annually. Strategic<br />
planning requires that you develop a mission<br />
(why do we exist?), a vision (how do we see ourselves<br />
in the future?), short/long term objectives,<br />
implementation strategies (who will assist with<br />
what?), and plans for evaluation.<br />
Differentiate your business and your products<br />
or services from the competition. What sets you<br />
apart from your competitors?<br />
Create brand loyalty with your customers.<br />
Brand loyalty is the result of providing exceptional<br />
customer service. The key is to give more<br />
than what the customer expects by providing<br />
satisfaction.<br />
Keep consistent when providing quality products<br />
and services. Do not just sell your product<br />
or service, but the products or service’s benefits.<br />
Kevin Cavanagh, co-owner of Bismarck’s<br />
Bearscat Bakehouse, shares his secrets for success:<br />
• Keep doing what makes your business<br />
unique. We make great donuts from scratch<br />
and we always will, so that is our mainstay.<br />
• Respond to the changing world. We thought<br />
it was time for new name, new image, to<br />
reach out to our changing demographics.<br />
• Use the tools that are available to you, things<br />
like social media.<br />
• Treat the customers well. We are a small<br />
business where everyone should feel comfortable.<br />
We want you to have fun buying<br />
donuts, that is why we have a silly name. It<br />
is a great business to be in; people are always<br />
happy to come in and look at the tempting<br />
donuts; it is a fun experience. We go out of<br />
our way to take care of any special request<br />
that people may have.<br />
• Support the community. We donate donuts<br />
to all sorts or organizations and fundraisers<br />
throughout the community. We are<br />
also starting a program called “The Bakers<br />
Dozen” where we donate money to various<br />
organizations throughout the community.<br />
To sum it up, don’t allow possible failures to<br />
defeat you. Learn from your mistakes and view<br />
them as opportunities to grow. And remember,<br />
business owners, the ultimate secret to success is<br />
you!<br />
Kostas Voutsas, a tenured assistant professor of DSU at BSC,<br />
is a motivational speaker and corporate consultant.<br />
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CITY MAGAZINE SUCCESS UNDER 45<br />
SUCCESS UNDER 45<br />
JILL VANDEHOVEN<br />
Stylist/Owner<br />
DOB: Sept. 18, 1970<br />
High School: Carrington High School<br />
College: Mr. D’s Beauty College,<br />
Jamestown<br />
Family: Cassidy Jaz (15) and<br />
McCoy Maverick (12)<br />
Favorite Quote: “When we think we<br />
have it bad, there is always someone<br />
who has it worse.”<br />
Reading now: The E Myth Revisited by<br />
Michael Gerber<br />
Hobbies: Riding and being with my horses,<br />
they give me peace and being with my kids<br />
and family at the lake making memories<br />
and enjoying our blessings.<br />
At<br />
the ripe old age of 19, when<br />
many of her contemporaries<br />
were just starting college, Jill<br />
VandeHoven was starting her<br />
first business, a hair styling salon in<br />
Carrington. “I’ve always been a go-getter,”<br />
said VandeHoven.<br />
However, her aggressiveness had to be<br />
reined-in for a short time, as state cosmetology<br />
regulations required newly-minted<br />
stylists to work a minimum number of hours<br />
before operating a salon. So, she found a way<br />
around it. “When I first started, I had to hire<br />
a manager to work under,” she laughed. Now,<br />
twenty-three years later, VandeHoven’s business<br />
reach has spread beyond her hometown<br />
of Carrington into virtually every corner of<br />
the state.<br />
In addition to owning her own salon,<br />
VandeHoven owns Laser Hair Therapy of<br />
ND, a business that provides technology<br />
and training to stylists and others who want<br />
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to help clients re-grow and/or thicken their<br />
hair. “I was at a place in my career where I<br />
wanted to help people more, more than just<br />
styling their hair.” Laser Hair Therapy is a<br />
non-chemical, non-invasive treatment that<br />
uses low-level, non-thermal lasers to stimulate<br />
hair growth at the root level. Laser treatments<br />
are about 30 minutes, two or three<br />
times a week for six to 12 months, depending<br />
on need.<br />
When VandeHoven started using the technology<br />
in her own salon, she quickly discovered<br />
there was a need, as she booked more<br />
than a half-dozen clients in the first several<br />
weeks. She said most of her laser treatment<br />
clients are female, who are greatly affected<br />
by the stigma of hair loss, with some of them<br />
already suffering through other physical<br />
challenges, such as cancer treatments. “Some<br />
of them are in tears, because this is a big deal<br />
to them.”<br />
In addition to herself, her family and her<br />
faith, VandeHoven finds inspiration from<br />
her clients, many of whom she has gotten<br />
to know on a personal basis. In fact, when<br />
she was torn on whether to expand the laser<br />
therapy from her own shop into other parts<br />
of the state, she took the advice of a client<br />
who told her, “When it’s all said and done,<br />
people don’t regret what they do, they regret<br />
what they don’t do.” Thus, the expansion was<br />
born. Since, she has added her own business<br />
in Bismarck and has helped others get off the<br />
ground in Fargo, Grand Forks, Jamestown<br />
and Williston.<br />
‘‘I was at a place in my<br />
career where I wanted to<br />
help people more, more<br />
than just styling their hair.’’<br />
From the beginning, VandeHoven knew<br />
that being “good” in her business required<br />
people skills and technical skills. “I firmly believe<br />
that when you look in the mirror at the<br />
end of the day, if you can’t be proud of how<br />
you handled yourself that day or how you<br />
were to people; then you’ve failed that day.”<br />
But she also knew that to be “great” in<br />
business, strategic business acumen would be<br />
necessary, “I’ve always had a good business<br />
sense; trying to think ahead.” In that light she<br />
secured exclusive distributor rights to North<br />
Dakota and parts of Montana, South Dakota<br />
and Minnesota. She made sure the lasers she<br />
uses are stronger and more effective than<br />
those of her competitors and made sure she<br />
was covered in the unlikely event of failure.<br />
Despite the busy schedule that accompanies<br />
her recent and continued expansions,<br />
VandeHoven remains grounded, focusing<br />
on where it all started; in the salon, standing<br />
behind her clients. “I still love being a hair<br />
stylist. I want to style the hearts and hair of<br />
my clients.”<br />
A lifelong communicator and former reporter, Michael<br />
Lindblom is a student of dynamics of human interaction.<br />
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PET PAGE<br />
ADOPT ME- McLintock<br />
McLintock<br />
came to us via<br />
the Bismarck<br />
landfill. Last<br />
January, CDHS<br />
was attempting<br />
to catch a<br />
wiley, stray dog<br />
roaming the<br />
landfill and we<br />
captured this<br />
big fella instead!<br />
He was mad<br />
and scared...but mostly scared. He had hiding and hissing<br />
down to a science for months. However, we successfully<br />
waited him out. Since he finally was allowing us to pet him<br />
with him drooling in delight, he was ready for neutering and<br />
a good once-over by the vet. When we tested him for Feline<br />
Leukemia/Feline AIDS, he came back a very light positive<br />
for Feline Leukemia. We also discovered an old fracture on<br />
his front shoulder, which had healed but causes a slight<br />
limp when he walks.<br />
This past January, we re-tested him. McLintock’s<br />
second test came back negative! He is a still a shy guy, but<br />
a big friendly lover who will sit on your lap. It’s been a long<br />
time coming, but this one time landfill lounger is ready to<br />
move on to life as a pampered purr box!<br />
He may have used up a couple lives, but this former<br />
street cat is loving his retirement!<br />
For more information about Central Dakota Humane<br />
Society call 701.667.2020 or visit cdhs.com<br />
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COMMUNICATING BY E-MAIL<br />
E-mail has<br />
overtaken the<br />
telephone as the<br />
most important<br />
communication tool in<br />
business. Unfortunately<br />
technology-related stress<br />
has, at the same time,<br />
escalated. Avalanches of<br />
e-mail lead to lower quality<br />
work, higher anxiety<br />
levels and, according to<br />
one Australian study,<br />
significantly higher levels<br />
of workplace dissatisfaction<br />
and even anger.<br />
Studies note that although<br />
the average number<br />
of e-mails corporate<br />
employees receive per<br />
day is 105, the average<br />
worker can successfully handle only 50 e-mails a<br />
day without being pushed into the e-mail overload<br />
stress zone.<br />
Tighten the thread<br />
Set a good example in e-mail reduction by being<br />
judicial regarding to whom you send e-mails. If<br />
you send an e-mail to your entire company when<br />
it is only pertinent to two or three people (the rest<br />
being included on your list as a sort of vague FYI),<br />
you are costing your company the time that it takes<br />
for all the rest of the recipients to read, or at least<br />
scan, an e-mail which doesn’t have any relevance to<br />
them. In addition to the time wasted, you may also<br />
be contributing to their e-mail overload stress.<br />
Interestingly, in the past few months many news<br />
articles have been surfacing citing companies that<br />
are installing plugins that restrict or block the “reply<br />
all” option. Curtailing the “reply all” option not<br />
only cuts down on wasted time but also prevents<br />
e-mails containing sensitive information from accidentally<br />
being sent to unintended users.<br />
Microsoft recently developed a free tool for Outlook<br />
which permits users to create messages that<br />
disallow recipients on the same exchange domain<br />
from using reply-all or forwarding the messages<br />
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Use good judgement when sending e-mails to your co-workers.<br />
that they send. It’s called the NoReplyAll Outlook<br />
add-in and can easily be found and downloaded<br />
from the Microsoft website.<br />
Recent research indicates that one out of three<br />
e-mails gets deleted without being read. If your<br />
incoming e-mails have accurate title lines you<br />
should be able to ascertain if they are frivolous or<br />
work-related. For e-mails titled “joke of the day,”<br />
hitting the delete button shouldn’t be a problem. In<br />
prioritizing your e-mail, think about treating it as<br />
you do your regular snail mail. You wouldn’t keep<br />
junk mail in the same pile as purchase orders and<br />
the same holds true with e-mail.<br />
And finally, don’t expect privacy. The rule of<br />
thumb is to not put anything in an e-mail that you<br />
wouldn’t hang on your office wall. E-mail systems<br />
are not infallible. A determined hacker may be able<br />
to break into your e-mail system or your message<br />
may be inadvertently sent to the wrong person. In<br />
addition, it is likely that the administrator of your<br />
company’s e-mail system has the ability to read all<br />
of your e-mail messages.<br />
Debora Dragseth, Ph.D. is a tenured professor of business at<br />
Dickinson State University. Her column provides common sense<br />
answers to common workplace issues. If you have a question<br />
you would like Dr. Dragseth to consider for her column, you may<br />
e-mail her at dr.dragseth@gmail.com<br />
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It’s not uncommon for a rich, dark mahogany<br />
in a home office to spill over into a black rub<br />
finish of a theatre room, while the laundry room<br />
sports a fresh, bright feel with white cabinets, and<br />
the bathroom vanity looks like a piece of furniture<br />
with its glazed opaque finish.<br />
“There is so much information on the internet<br />
that people can find whatever they want, so<br />
people bring their ideas back to me all the time,”<br />
Emmel said.<br />
But it doesn’t bother him one bit. After all, he prides himself on<br />
his ability to avoid a ‘standard’ way of creating cabinetry.<br />
“Where we excel is that we don’t get locked into, ‘This is the<br />
way we do it,’” Emmel said. “Someone brings in a picture, and<br />
we can accomplish what they’re after. I’ve never been scared to<br />
get out of my comfort zone. It stretches you, and you come up<br />
with some neat ideas.”<br />
Many customers want contemporary cabinetry with clean<br />
lines and dark finishes. Emmel rises to the challenge of rounded<br />
soffits, the appearance of floating islands or buffets, and cupboards<br />
that run all the way to the ceiling.<br />
“When we do molding it’s somewhat easier because I can hide<br />
screws and fasteners,” Emmel said. “So if there’s no molding, I<br />
have to get this big, perfectly smooth panel installed without<br />
anyone seeing a nail. It’s fun to have the challenges because you<br />
start with piece of wood and at the end of the day you have<br />
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BODY TALK LEISURE<br />
ARE YOU A “HAND TALKER?”<br />
Whether they are grasping, touching,<br />
holding, or feeling; our hands play<br />
an intricate role in our nonverbal<br />
communication process. Studies<br />
show that the human brain sends a high number<br />
of signals to the hands and fingers in order to communicate<br />
subconscious messages.<br />
The following are a few examples of our hands<br />
doing the talking.<br />
• Confidence is demonstrated by a speaker<br />
when their thumbs are in an upright position.<br />
Extreme confidence or deep thinking is shown<br />
when the fingers form the “steeple” position.<br />
As soon a confidence decreases, the “steeple”<br />
will vanish. A “steeple” pointing in a downward<br />
position usually shows that listening is<br />
occurring.<br />
• Stress is signaled through the rubbing of the<br />
hands. The rubbing is an attempt to pacify or<br />
calm the mind. A high level of stress or a feeling<br />
of hopelessness is shown when the hand<br />
rub occurs while the fingers are interlaced.<br />
• When hands are in the pockets, dominance<br />
and confidence is expressed when the thumbs<br />
remain out of the pockets, usually pointing<br />
toward the midsection. Hands that are buried<br />
or hidden (including the thumbs) inside of<br />
pockets show insecurity.<br />
• The hand and nose play an interesting<br />
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relationship, specifically when honesty is questioned.<br />
When one touches or rubs their nose<br />
while recalling an event, exaggeration of deceit<br />
is signaled. This is because we have erectile<br />
tissues in our noses, which engorge with blood<br />
when we lie, causing a tingling sensation. This<br />
itch often requires a nose touch to satisfy. A<br />
nose rub or touch while listing indicates that<br />
the listener is attempting to suppress a comment.<br />
• A finger on the chin indicates thinking. If the<br />
finger remains on the chin while speaking,<br />
honesty is often exhibited. If the finger moves<br />
up to overlap both lips, much like a “shushing”<br />
motion, dishonestly is signaled. This is the<br />
brains attempt at “shushing” ourselves.<br />
• Two fingers tapping or employing a walking<br />
motion while the individual is speaking is a<br />
sign of discomfort steaming from deceit. Their<br />
fingers are mimicking what they want their<br />
legs to do: walk away.<br />
Your hands can show your excitement, convey<br />
feelings, or show your hidden thoughts. Until next<br />
time, keep your thumbs up, and leave your nose<br />
alone.<br />
Mike Wetsch is a criminal justice professional with<br />
experience in security, corrections, policing and currently<br />
as a criminal justice instructor with United Tribes Technical<br />
College.”<br />
SKIING THE PRAIRIE<br />
North Dakota may<br />
not be known for<br />
its downhill ski<br />
runs but there is<br />
one form of skiing where we<br />
fair quite well – cross-country.<br />
It may be more popular in<br />
Canada or Norway but North<br />
Dakota is ripe with opportunities<br />
to get out on the trails.<br />
Anywhere from Beaver Creek<br />
to Turtle River state parks, we<br />
have both groomed and undisturbed<br />
opportunities.<br />
Cross-country skiing is one<br />
of those sports that is more of<br />
a challenge or workout than it<br />
seems, but definitely something<br />
anyone can get the hang<br />
of. And, it is most certainly a calorie-burner if you’ve made<br />
any New Year’s resolutions to work off those Christmas cookies<br />
and cocktails. As someone who prides herself on being in<br />
shape, I was surprised by how fast my heart rate elevated the<br />
first time I ever tried cross-country skiing.<br />
What’s great about cross-country skiing is we live in a<br />
very beautiful state for many months of the year, the weather<br />
isn’t conducive to being outside. Cross-country skiing is an<br />
excellent solution. It keeps you active, and therefore warm,<br />
while you are taking in the scenery of our great outdoors. It’s<br />
exhilarating to be able to enjoy North Dakota while the snow<br />
still dominates.<br />
North Dakota Parks and Recreation features a list of all<br />
67.75 miles of cross-country ski trails, as well as up-to-date<br />
trail conditions. Fort Stevenson State Park near Garrison is the<br />
shortest groomed trail at three miles. At 10 miles, Lake Sakakawea<br />
State Park near Pick <strong>City</strong> offers the longest groomed<br />
trail. If you are more adventurous or experienced and want<br />
to blaze your own way through the snow, try the four mile<br />
Lewis and Clark State Park near Epping, which doesn’t offer<br />
groomed trails, or the five mile Missouri River Natural Area in<br />
Bismarck-Mandan.<br />
If you’re giving this a shot for the first time, I recommend<br />
you try Cross Ranch State Park near Center, because you can<br />
rent your skis for a nominal fee and its trails are groomed.<br />
Visit www.parkrec.nd.gov/activities/skiing.html for trail<br />
maps and more.<br />
Amanda Godfread is a freelance writer and communications strategist.<br />
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TRAVEL<br />
THE BADLANDS<br />
WHAT YOU WON’T SEE FROM I-94<br />
For most North Dakotans, the Badlands<br />
begin at mile marker 32 on Interstate-94,<br />
just around the corner from the Painted<br />
Canyon Overlook, and end at mile<br />
marker 27, the off-ramp to go into Medora. That’s<br />
about as much as many of us see when we take our<br />
occasional trip to Medora.<br />
The Painted Canyon Overlook offers one of<br />
the most spectacular vistas this side of the Grand<br />
Canyon. And it’s easy to access, right there beside<br />
the freeway.<br />
The Medora Musical is high-class music and<br />
theater, and it is set in one of America’s most<br />
unusual and breathtaking outdoor amphitheaters.<br />
For many of us, that is a complete Badlands experience.<br />
But there is so much more to the North Dakota<br />
Badlands such as ice caves, burning coal veins,<br />
petrified forests, Juneberry bushes, Bullion Butte,<br />
the Elkhorn Ranch, golden eagles, prairie dog<br />
towns, campgrounds and hiking trails. And some<br />
special places, still roadless, and open only to those<br />
who’ll leave the car behind and get out and walk<br />
into areas that remain today nearly as wild as they<br />
were the day young Theodore Roosevelt stepped<br />
off the train in 1883.<br />
In this new Badlands feature in <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>,<br />
we’ll take you to some of those places.<br />
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We’ll explore the largest National Grassland in<br />
America, a million acres that we, as citizens of<br />
America, own in perpetuity and have the responsibility<br />
to protect from overzealous developers.<br />
We’ll share concerns for the future of our last few<br />
remaining wilderness areas.<br />
As development, for example, reaches farther<br />
every day, we’ll look at which areas should be set<br />
aside for wildlife and the humans who value that<br />
wildlife and its habitat: hunters, birders, hikers,<br />
photographers, bicyclists and horseback riders.<br />
And as we travel through the Badlands, we’ll<br />
share with you the magical beauty of these special<br />
places through the camera lens of one of North<br />
Dakota’s best photographers, Bill Kingsbury, who<br />
travels the length of the Little Missouri River valley<br />
each year in search of quiet, interrupted only<br />
by the click of his shutter and the lonely call of a<br />
coyote at sunrise.<br />
We’ll look forward to visiting with you each<br />
month about the Badlands, and we hope to see you<br />
on some of those back roads. Just not too many of<br />
you at once.<br />
Jim Fuglie is a former North Dakota Tourism Director and has<br />
been exploring the back roads of the Badlands since his first rip<br />
there with his parents as a boy in 1959.<br />
WESTERN FEATURE<br />
ENTERTAINER OF THE YEAR<br />
not official since the<br />
award doesn’t actually<br />
exist and yet, you’ll find<br />
Noit’s<br />
few people who’ll argue<br />
with the fact that Josh Nichols is the “2012<br />
Dickinson Entertainer of the Year.”<br />
Officially, he is the marketing specialist for<br />
the Strom Center for Entrepreneurship and<br />
Innovation. In addition he is the executive<br />
director of Arts North Dakota, past president<br />
and co-founder of Sneak Pique Productions,<br />
(a Dickinson community theater group), a<br />
Southwestern North Dakota Museum Foundation<br />
board member and he is involved in<br />
the revitalization of downtown Dickinson,<br />
having recently organized a “Ladies Night<br />
Out.”<br />
However, the place where he really shines<br />
is on stage in front of the bright lights. In<br />
fact, if you need a master of ceremonies who<br />
can ad-lib on the spot, Nichols is your man.<br />
If you need an actor who can leave audiences<br />
rolling in the aisles, he’s even better.<br />
From Jackie Gleason to Theodore<br />
Roosevelt and the Ghost of Christmas Present,<br />
Nichols plays them all very humorously<br />
and tends to stand out above the crowd in<br />
every theater production he is involved in.<br />
Which wouldn’t be so amazing if he was a<br />
theater major with loads of acting experience,<br />
but he’s not. He’s actually a 2007 Dickinson<br />
State University graduate who earned a<br />
degree in computer science with a minor in<br />
communications.<br />
“I did a lot of theater in college,” Nichols<br />
said, “which isn’t typical of a computer guy<br />
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I would think.” Then again, nothing about<br />
Nichols is typical.<br />
Born in Alexandria, LA, he came to<br />
Dickinson when he was in the second grade,<br />
attended Dickinson High School and then<br />
DSU because, “It was the next thing to do<br />
and because Dickinson State was the closet<br />
college to well... Dickinson.”<br />
While there, he really got “involved,” loved<br />
the experience, graduated and then started<br />
working for the TRiO Student Support Services<br />
before moving on to his present job at<br />
the Strom Center.<br />
So what’s next for Nichols?<br />
“I keep my options open,” he said, “hold<br />
on tight, and ride the wild ride that is the life<br />
Josh Nichols!”<br />
Kevin Holten is the communications and events<br />
coordinator for the Dickinson State University Foundation.<br />
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