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BISMARCK • MANDAN • DICKINSON<br />

FEBRUARY 2013<br />

Use your smart<br />

phone barcode<br />

scanner to learn<br />

more about<br />

<strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />

Fashion<br />

Arts and Entertainment 18<br />

Success Under 45<br />

Business and Money 22<br />

Leisure<br />

Travel 29<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, O.S.B.<br />

Prioress of Annunciation Monastery


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18<br />

29<br />

CONTENTS FEBRUARY 2013<br />

FEATURES<br />

18 Fashion<br />

Can men in the Midwest pull off the<br />

skinny jean?<br />

22 Success Under 45<br />

This lady has grown her<br />

business to every corner of the<br />

state.<br />

6 Cover Story<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong><br />

22<br />

Prioress of Annunciation<br />

Monastery<br />

29 Leisure<br />

Enjoy this winter past time while<br />

there is still enough snow to do it.<br />

thecitymag.com<br />

this month’s online extras<br />

EXTRA QUESTIONS <strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong><br />

FULL BOOK REVIEW: Visiting Tom<br />

Go the thecitymag.com throughout the month for more extra content.<br />

FEBRUARY RECIPES


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UNITED PRINTING PRESIDENT<br />

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />

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Sue Buchholz<br />

Debora Dragseth<br />

Michael Lindblom<br />

Jim Fuglie<br />

Amanda Godfread<br />

Joe Hauer<br />

Maxine Herr<br />

Kevin Holten<br />

Amy Jo Johnson<br />

Pam Link<br />

Rebecca Rattei<br />

Tom Regan<br />

Terri Schlichenmeyer<br />

Mandy Thomas<br />

Kostas Voutsas<br />

Mike Wetsch<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Glasser Images<br />

Kristin Byram<br />

DISTRIBUTION<br />

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE EXTRA<br />

Smile<br />

Are you too important<br />

to smile? With certain<br />

responsibilities, some<br />

people feel it is not proper<br />

to smile. After reading an<br />

article about smiling, I felt<br />

compelled to write about<br />

the subject.<br />

Rank should not<br />

preclude one from smiling<br />

in order to send a signal of<br />

authority.<br />

What does a smile say?<br />

When we meet a friend or<br />

Joe Hauer, publisher an acquaintance, a smile<br />

says so much. It settles<br />

people at a social or business setting. A while ago, I<br />

walked into a business and the owners, whom I have<br />

known for a short time, greeted me with a big smile and<br />

a polite hello. I made a purchase as did the friend that<br />

was with me. The rewards of their smile may provide<br />

additional income from their customers in the years<br />

ahead.<br />

The smile that we get or give is free. The training that<br />

we need to work at requires effort from the employer<br />

and the employee. Often times a business does not<br />

take the time to teach their employees how they want<br />

to be represented to the public. We are in business to<br />

sell products or services, so why would we not invest in<br />

proper training, which of course includes a free smile.<br />

So, put a little more into your job than is expected<br />

of you and wear a smile with pride. And you will be<br />

surprised with the results. Don’t wait until you must<br />

smile. Make it a way of life.<br />

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Give from the Heart<br />

On Feb. 14, Governor<br />

Jack Dalrymple will declare<br />

Valentine’s Day as Giving<br />

Hearts Day in North<br />

Dakota.<br />

For those who want to<br />

do something different for<br />

Valentine’s Day, this is your<br />

opportunity to donate to all<br />

the wonderful nonprofits in<br />

the Bismarck/Mandan area<br />

and feel good about it.<br />

On this day, from 12<br />

a.m. to 11:59 p.m., you can<br />

donate to the Giving Hearts<br />

Day campaign. This one-<br />

day fundraiser raises money<br />

for local charities such as<br />

Rebecca Rattei,<br />

executive director<br />

and editor<br />

Elk’s Camp Grassick, The Abused Adult Recourse Center,<br />

the Bismarck Public Schools Foundation, Central Dakota<br />

Children’s Choir, Cystic Fibrosis Association of ND, First<br />

Choice Clinic in Bismarck, Gateway to Science Center,<br />

ND 4-H Foundation, North Dakota Safety Council, North<br />

Dakota Teen Challenge, North Dakota Women’s Network,<br />

Northern Plains Dance, Prairie Learning Center, Ronald<br />

McDonald House in Bismarck, St. Joseph’s School and the<br />

St. Mary’s Foundation.<br />

To donate (it’s super easy and only takes five minutes to<br />

do), log on to www.impactgiveback.com and search for<br />

the nonprofit you’d like to donate to. You can donate as<br />

much as you’d like to as many charities as you want. This<br />

donation is even tax deductable.<br />

The Giving Hearts Day fundraiser is one of the biggest<br />

fundraisers of the year for most nonprofits and the money<br />

goes to a good cause which local Bismarck/Mandan residents<br />

can see for themselves throughout the year.<br />

I encourage everyone to give from their heart and donate<br />

what they can to this very special fundraiser. There is no<br />

greater feeling than knowing your contribution is going to<br />

a good cause.<br />

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CONTENTS<br />

FEBRUARY<br />

2013<br />

<strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> n<br />

Publisher’s Note 4<br />

Cover Story n<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong> 6<br />

Community Cluster n<br />

CM/KFYR Salutes 10<br />

Sportswatch 12<br />

New Around Town 14<br />

CM Tip 14<br />

Commissioner’s Corner 15<br />

Arts and Entertainment n<br />

Local Events 16<br />

Taste of N.D. 17<br />

Fashion 18<br />

Hobby Hub n<br />

Crossword 19<br />

Good Reads 20<br />

Mommy Blog 20<br />

Business and Money n<br />

Business How To 21<br />

Success Under 45 22<br />

Ask the Professor 24<br />

Home n<br />

Home 101 26<br />

Health n<br />

Body Talk 28<br />

Travel n<br />

Leisure 29<br />

The Badlands 30<br />

Western N.D. n<br />

Josh Nichols 31


<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, O.S.B.<br />

Prayerful Servant<br />

Title: President of St. Alexius<br />

Board of Directors<br />

Prioress, Annunciation Monastery<br />

DOB: Aug. 26, 1964<br />

High School: Harvey High School, Class of 82<br />

College: University of Mary,<br />

Bachelor’s in Business Administration<br />

Master’s in Management<br />

Book currently reading: Mrs. Kennedy and Me:<br />

An Intimate Memoir by Clint Hill<br />

(with Lisa McCubbin)<br />

Quote: “Listen with the ear of your heart.”<br />

(The Rule of St. Benedict)<br />

What people would be surprised to learn<br />

about you: “One of the things I enjoy<br />

immensely is racquetball.”<br />

When the going gets tough and you’re<br />

having a difficult time putting<br />

one foot in front of the other, take<br />

solace in the fact that the sisters of<br />

Annunciation Monastery just south of Bismarck are<br />

praying for us all. Every day.<br />

“Our primary ministry is prayer,” explained Sister<br />

<strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>, currently serving her second four-year<br />

term as prioress. The sisters come together several<br />

times per day to pray as a monastic community on<br />

behalf of the needs of the world, the Church and the<br />

civic community. It’s the Benedictine way, which<br />

has been part of the fabric of this region since 1878<br />

when the sisters arrived in Bismarck to educate the<br />

children.<br />

Born and raised in Harvey, N.D., Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> is<br />

the fifth of eight children. Her father ran the local<br />

men’s clothing store and her mother was a stay-athome<br />

mom. After being exposed to retail at the<br />

family’s store, Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> moved to Bismarck,<br />

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“ My visits to the<br />

monastery were<br />

becoming so frequent<br />

that, one day, Sister<br />

JoAnn Krebsbach<br />

said, ‘Why don’t<br />

you just stay?’<br />

”<br />

earned a business degree at U-Mary, and then began<br />

carving out a career at Bismarck’s Target.<br />

Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>’s first years at college were a time<br />

of questioning as she struggled to find her niche.<br />

“I crammed a four-year degree into five years,”<br />

she joked. She dreamed of following the path of<br />

most young people: a good education, a career, a<br />

significant other, marriage, children.<br />

But God had other plans and articulated them<br />

through the sisters of the Annunciation Monastery.<br />

“There were a couple of sisters who, you could say,<br />

took me in and guided me in ways of choosing a field<br />

of study, and in spirituality,” said Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>. “It’s<br />

amazing that once one gets their priorities in order,<br />

things tend to fall into place very nicely.”<br />

Mentorship turned into friendship, and friendship<br />

led to a calling. “My visits to the monastery were<br />

becoming so frequent that, one day, Sister JoAnn<br />

Krebsbach said, ‘Why don’t you just stay?’”<br />

Her affirmative answer to that question<br />

marked Sister <strong>Nancy</strong>’s seven-year journey<br />

toward becoming a Benedictine sister. She<br />

made her perpetual monastic profession (took<br />

her final vows) in 1995. Along the way she held<br />

several positions at U-Mary including director<br />

of the bookstore, director of campus ministry<br />

and administrative assistant of the monastery.<br />

She was initially installed as prioress in May of<br />

2008.<br />

Sister <strong>Nancy</strong> described her leadership<br />

position at the monastery as the “ultimate<br />

calling.” The prioress is the spiritual and<br />

administrative leader of the monastery. She<br />

also serves as president of the board of St.<br />

Alexius Medical Center and U-Mary. The<br />

sisters also sponsor Garrison Memorial<br />

Hospital. “Together we work to ensure that<br />

Catholic, Christian and Benedictine values are<br />

lived out each day as we serve in health care<br />

and higher education.”<br />

You’re prioress of Annunciation<br />

cm: Monastery. Aren’t “monasteries”<br />

associated with monks?<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: It’s commonly<br />

misunderstood that monasteries are just<br />

for men. Monasteries are a place where<br />

“monastics” live together. A monastic is a<br />

person, a man or a woman, who seeks God—<br />

that is their primary purpose for entering<br />

religious life. They live in “community,” and<br />

they live according to a rule. For us it’s the Rule<br />

of Saint Benedict. A prioress is the leader of<br />

a women’s community; an abbot, for a men’s<br />

community.<br />

How do you teach someone to<br />

cm: pray?<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: The desire to pray is very<br />

important—that’s a key element.<br />

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CITY MAGAZINE COVER STORY


Some people say it<br />

would really be nice<br />

to pray, but having<br />

the desire to pray is<br />

paramount. One of<br />

the things I find most<br />

helpful in my prayer life<br />

is to consistently pray.<br />

You need to do it every<br />

day, and it would be<br />

really helpful to be able<br />

to do it in a quiet place<br />

at the same time every<br />

day, so you develop<br />

a routine, a rhythm.<br />

Many people think<br />

of prayer as talking<br />

to God, petitioning<br />

God, complaining<br />

to God, and we can<br />

become verbose even<br />

in prayer. But if we<br />

can come to the point<br />

of stopping the words<br />

and whatever’s going<br />

on in our mind, so<br />

that we become an<br />

empty vessel, God can fill that with what He<br />

would like us to hear. That’s how we come to<br />

know God’s will for us. If I would miss that<br />

opportunity to know what God’s will for me<br />

I’d be doing a disservice not only to myself but<br />

to those around me.<br />

What does it mean to have a<br />

cm: Catholic, Christian and<br />

Benedictian college education?<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: At the University of Mary,<br />

our mission sets us apart. We are here to serve<br />

the religious, academic and cultural needs of<br />

the people of this area and beyond. What sets<br />

us apart even within that mission is the legacy<br />

and heritage of the Benedictine Sisters. We are<br />

called to be better. We are called to have quality<br />

higher education imbued with the values of<br />

Gospel living. Setting us apart even more is our<br />

emphasis on servant leadership. Being proficient<br />

in your field or profession is very important, but<br />

a graduate of the University of Mary needs to<br />

become involved in their civic community, in<br />

their church community and to serve and model<br />

the values that set us apart. I think you can spot<br />

a University of Mary graduate by the way they<br />

work, the way they live, and the way they model<br />

the values of prayer, respect, service, moderation,<br />

community and hospitality.<br />

You’re president of the board for<br />

cm: St. Alexius Medical Center.<br />

Tell us about St. A’s joining the<br />

Mayo Care Network.<br />

<strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>: This is an example of a<br />

partnership where the patient comes first.<br />

It means we have access to some of the<br />

specialists and expertise available at Mayo. It’s<br />

a wonderful advantage for our patients to have<br />

that access without having to leave home and<br />

the support of their loved ones. It represents<br />

great medical advice for our patients as well as<br />

great expertise for the hospital in general on<br />

how to operate as efficiently as possible. .<br />

Tom Regan, a former editor of <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, has been<br />

a media professional for over 40 years.<br />

See <strong>Sr</strong>. <strong>Nancy</strong> <strong>Miller</strong>’s answers to the “<strong>City</strong> Mag 10” questionnaire by visiting<br />

thecitymag.com and clicking “Extra Content.”<br />

CITY MAGAZINE COVER STORY


COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />

CITY MAGAZINE AND KFYR SALUTES CITY MAGAZINE AND KFYR SALUTES<br />

THE SALVATION ARMY<br />

When<br />

Captains<br />

Tim and<br />

Sally Sell<br />

arrived here in 2012 to<br />

head up the Salvation<br />

Army service center, they<br />

were a bit apprehensive<br />

because Bismarck-<br />

Mandan was much larger<br />

than any community<br />

in which they had<br />

previously served. But<br />

they quickly found out<br />

that Bismarck had a small<br />

town feel.<br />

“You know you’re in<br />

the right place when<br />

you’re driving and people<br />

pull over for a funeral<br />

procession,” said Tim<br />

Sell.<br />

The Sell’s, who are in<br />

their early 50s, were born<br />

and raised in northern<br />

Indiana. The couple<br />

served four successive<br />

appointments in Indiana,<br />

the last, in Huntington,<br />

before coming here.<br />

All the cities where<br />

they commanded had<br />

populations of less than<br />

25,000, he said.<br />

The Bismarck Salvation<br />

Army service center was<br />

extremely visible during<br />

the flood emergency of<br />

2011. In fact, according<br />

to Sell, the center<br />

provided over 60,000<br />

services to individuals<br />

in Bismarck-Mandan as<br />

part of the flood relief effort.<br />

They aren’t planning any major changes, for<br />

now. Capt. Sell said they have looked at ways to<br />

extend services to seniors and youth. Anticipating<br />

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Captains Tim and Sally Sell moved from Huntington,<br />

Indiana to head up the Salvation Army in Bismarck.<br />

summer programming, they have put out an<br />

appeal for volunteer registrations to drive children<br />

to and from a camp located in Finlayson, Minn.<br />

The Salvation Army was founded in 1865 in East<br />

London, England, by itinerate Methodist minister<br />

William Booth and his wife, Catherine. In the<br />

1880s, the movement spread to America, Canada,<br />

Australia, Asia, Africa and India. Today, the<br />

Salvation Army serves in more than 120 countries<br />

and territories and preaches the gospel in 160<br />

languages.<br />

The Salvation Army was established in Bismarck<br />

in 1889—hence, their phone number:<br />

701-223-1889.<br />

Bismarck<br />

Center<br />

Programming<br />

There are six “corps” offices in the state,<br />

located in Bismarck, Minot, Fargo, Grand Forks,<br />

Jamestown and Williston. There are also “service<br />

extension units” in each county. For more<br />

information visit http://salvationarmynorth.org/<br />

community/bismarck.<br />

Tom Regan, a former editor of <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>, has been a<br />

media professional for over 40 years.<br />

• Free after-school program<br />

• Food pantry and bread shelf<br />

• Rent and utility assistance<br />

• Case management and referral services<br />

• Christmas assistance including new clothing and toys<br />

• Winter coat assistance for kids<br />

• Men’s and women’s fellowships<br />

• Disaster relief services<br />

• Supportive Services for Veteran’s Families (SSVF)<br />

• Sunday worship services and discipleship advancement<br />

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COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />

SPORTS WATCH (All times Central Time unless otherwise noted) SPORTS WATCH<br />

Friday, February 1:<br />

H.S. Boys Swimming – Century Invitational,<br />

Bismarck Aquatic and Wellness Center (BAWC),<br />

3:30 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. Fargo South, VFW<br />

Sports Center, 5 p.m.<br />

CHS vs. Fargo Davies, VFW Sports Center, 7:30 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – DHS vs. St. Mary’s, DHS,<br />

6 p.m. (MT)<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – DHS vs. St. Mary’s, DHS,<br />

7:45 (MT)<br />

H.S. Boys Wrestling – BHS vs. Century, BHS,<br />

7 p.m.<br />

Saturday, February 2:<br />

H.S. Boys Swimming – Century Invitational, BAWC,<br />

11 a.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – CHS vs. Fargo South, VFW<br />

Sports Center, 1 p.m.<br />

BHS vs. Fargo Davies, VFW Sports Center, 3 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – CHS vs. Williston, CHS,<br />

4 p.m.<br />

Shiloh vs. Washburn, Shiloh, 4:30 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – CHS vs. Williston, CHS,<br />

5:45 p.m.<br />

Tuesday, February 5:<br />

H.S. Boys Swimming – CHS vs. Minot, BAWC,<br />

5 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Hockey – MHS vs. Jamestown, Mandan<br />

All Season Arena, 7 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. CHS, VFW Sports<br />

Center, 7:15 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – MHS vs. Century, MHS,<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

Thursday, February 7:<br />

H.S. Girls Gymnastics – Dickinson Invitational,<br />

DHS, 5:30 p.m. (MT)<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – BHS vs. Jamestown, VFW<br />

Sports Center, 7:15 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – MHS vs. Century, MHS,<br />

7:45 p.m.<br />

Friday, February 8:<br />

H.S. Girls Hockey – Blizzard vs. Devils Lake,<br />

Schaumberg Arena, 7 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – St. Mary’s vs. Williston,<br />

SMCHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

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Saturday, February 9:<br />

H.S. Boys Swimming – Mandan Invitational,<br />

Mandan Aquatic Center, 10 a.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey - Mandan vs. Hazen/Beulah,<br />

Mandan All Seasons Arena, 2 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Hockey – Blizzard vs. Grand Forks,<br />

Schaumberg Arena, 3 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Williston, BHS,<br />

4 p.m.<br />

CHS vs. St. Mary’s, CHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Williston, BHS,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

CHS vs. St. Mary’s, CHS, 6 p.m.<br />

Tuesday, February 12:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Standing Rock,<br />

Shiloh, 5:45 p.m.<br />

Thursday, February 14:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Dickinson, BHS,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

St. Mary’s vs. Minot, SMCHS, 6 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Dickinson, BHS,<br />

7:45 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />

Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />

Friday, February 15:<br />

H.S. Girls Gymnastics – WDA, DHS, 5:00 (MT)<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />

Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />

Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />

Saturday, February 16:<br />

H.S. Boys Hockey – West Region Hockey<br />

Tournament, Bismarck, TBA<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />

Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />

Monday, February 18:<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B District 9 Basketball<br />

Tournament, Mandan, TBA<br />

Tuesday, February 19:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Wilton, Shiloh,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS, 7:30 p.m.<br />

Thursday, February 21:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

Shiloh vs. Napoleon, Shiloh, 6 p.m.<br />

St. Mary’s vs. Dickinson, SMCHS, 6 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – MHS vs. Bismarck, MHS,<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

St. Mary’s vs. Dickinson, SMCHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

Friday, February 22:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Jamestown, BHS,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

CHS vs. Minot, CHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – CHS vs. Minot, CHS,<br />

6 p.m.<br />

BHS vs. Jamestown, BHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />

Bismarck, TBA<br />

Saturday, February 23:<br />

H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />

Bismarck, TBA<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – Shiloh vs. Turtle Lake-<br />

Mercer-McClusky, Shiloh, 2:30 p.m.<br />

Mandan vs. St. Mary’s, MHS, 6 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – Mandan vs. St. Mary’s,<br />

MHS, 7:45 p.m.<br />

Sunday, February 24:<br />

H.S. Figure Skating – Bismarck Test Session,<br />

Bismarck, TBA<br />

Monday, February 25:<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – Class B Region 5<br />

Basketball Tournament, Bismarck Civic Center, TBA<br />

Tuesday, February 26:<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – DHS vs. Mandan, DHS,<br />

6:30 (MT)<br />

Class B Region 5 Basketball Tournament,<br />

Bismarck Civic Center, TBA<br />

Thursday, February 28:<br />

H.S. Girls Basketball – BHS vs. Century, Bismarck<br />

Civic Center, 6 p.m.<br />

H.S. Boys Basketball – BHS vs. Century, Bismarck<br />

Civic Center, 7:45 p.m.<br />

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COMMUNITY CLUSTER COMMUNITY CLUSTER<br />

NEW AROUND TOWN COMMISSIONER’S CORNER<br />

MACKENZIE RIVER PIZZA, GRILL AND PUB<br />

OPENS IN PRIME BISMARCK LOCATION<br />

For more than 17 years,<br />

Robin Bopp was an<br />

occupational therapist,<br />

but now she has made a<br />

huge leap-of-faith career change<br />

as the co-owner of MacKenzie<br />

River Pizza, Grill and Pub with<br />

her husband, Tim.<br />

Cooking and food service<br />

isn’t completely foreign to her.<br />

In fact, it was one of her passions<br />

for years, as she operated<br />

a small catering business while<br />

doing occupational therapy full<br />

time in her native state –<br />

Montana.<br />

“MacKenzie River Pizza<br />

opened its first restaurant 20 years ago in Bozeman,”<br />

Bopp said. “We are the fifteenth location<br />

– the only one in North Dakota – and only one of<br />

five that is not corporately owned and features the<br />

pub and grill style.”<br />

The restaurant opened Dec. 3 and is the first restaurant<br />

to open in a growing retail area near north<br />

Wal-Mart. With new hotels and dozens of homes<br />

popping up near that location, the area needed a<br />

full-service, sit-down restaurant.<br />

“We do have an excellent location and are very<br />

glad to have had the excellent reception in the first<br />

few weeks,” she said. “Our first few weeks have<br />

been unbelievably busy. We hired Jason Johnson as<br />

our manager and have a wonderful new staff.”<br />

Unique pizzas are the backbone of the menu.<br />

A Thai pizza has peanut sauce, basil chicken,<br />

mandarin oranges, scallions, red peppers, peanuts,<br />

cilantro and mozzarella. A signature BLT pizza<br />

is always popular and the namesake MacKenzie<br />

River pizza tempts the taste buds.<br />

CITY MAGAZINE TIP<br />

FROSTED WINDOWS<br />

Rub the inside of your house windows with a<br />

sponge dipped in salt water for a clear, frostless<br />

winter view. For your car, keep a small cloth bag<br />

of salt in your car. When the windshield is wet,<br />

rub it with the bag. The salt will prevent your<br />

windshield to be covered with snow or ice.<br />

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Beyond pizzas, there are several entrees other<br />

restaurants are not known for in the Bismarck/<br />

Mandan region.<br />

“There are fish and chips, a hearty meatloaf,<br />

shepherd’s pie and country-fried steak,” Bopp said.<br />

These foods complement the restaurant’s décor<br />

theme – the rustic, woodsy, outdoor sportsmen<br />

feeling of the backwoods and wild mountain<br />

ranges of Montana. A driftboat hangs above<br />

patrons who sit on handmade pine chairs at pine<br />

tables. Each of these is handcrafted by one man for<br />

all the MacKenzie River eateries.<br />

Special pub brews are attracting a lot of customers.<br />

“We have many Montana and Oregon beers<br />

and also carry Fargo microbrews,” Bopp said.<br />

MacKenzie Pizza, Grill and Pub is located at 4510<br />

Skyline Crossing. Preview the menu at<br />

www.mackenzieriverpizza.com.<br />

Pam Link is a public relations professional and freelance<br />

writer, currently living in Washburn, N.D.<br />

NEW WATER INTAKE NEAR COMPLETION<br />

When you turn on your faucet, you<br />

expect water to come out. And<br />

not just any water: potable, clean,<br />

drinkable water. Having clean,<br />

drinkable water is a staple of any healthy and economically<br />

vibrant community. Clean water does<br />

not happen by accident and a growing community<br />

has to keep up with water demands. That is why<br />

Bismarck has been doing some visible and not so<br />

visible upgrades to its water intake and water treatment<br />

plant.<br />

On the visible side, Bismarck is updating its<br />

water intake operations. Many have been asking,<br />

“What is being built in the middle of the river?”<br />

No, it isn’t a new restaurant or boat dock, it is a<br />

new horizontal intake well. With this new well,<br />

Bismarck will be drawing its drinking water from<br />

beneath the river bottom. This creates a cleaner<br />

intake process which could reduce some of the<br />

cleaning we do at the treatment plant. Additionally,<br />

it ensures that we will not have intake concerns<br />

if the river gets too low as we are always drawing<br />

from the bottom instead of in the river as we do<br />

now. Last, it also increases our capacity for water<br />

treatment as this well can pump over 40 million<br />

gallons of water per day when it is up and operational.<br />

On the not-visible front, now that we have a<br />

bigger pumping operation, we need to have the<br />

capacity to process the additional water. Recently,<br />

we have upgraded and added new filtering and water<br />

softening capacity at the water treatment plant.<br />

These changes will increase Bismarck’s treatment<br />

capacity from the current maximum of 30 million<br />

gallons per day up to 40 million gallons per day, a<br />

25 percent increase.<br />

The intake and treatment upgrades should be<br />

operational in the later part of 2013. These important<br />

water upgrades position Bismarck to capitalize<br />

on the expected and foreseeable growth.<br />

Josh Askvig was first elected to the Bismarck <strong>City</strong> Commission<br />

in 2010. He can be reached on his web-form at www.Bismarck.<br />

org or found on Facebook or Twitter (@joshaskvig).<br />

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ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT<br />

LOCAL EVENTS TASTE OF N.D.<br />

EVENTS TO ATTEND, MUSIC TO HEAR<br />

AND EXHIBITS TO SEE – OH MY!<br />

Friday, February 1:<br />

Doubt<br />

Presented by Dakota Stage Ltd., is an award<br />

winning drama for mature audiences about truth and<br />

consequences – Dakota Stage, 7:30 p.m. (Feb.1-3)<br />

HOT 97.5 HOT SPOT Party<br />

Calling all teens for a night of fun and dancing –<br />

Bismarck Civic Center, 8 p.m.<br />

Saturday, February 2:<br />

The Big Event Carnival<br />

- Bismarck Civic Center, 1 – 4 p.m.<br />

Bismarck Hockey<br />

vs. Minot, VFW, 7:15 p.m. (Feb. 2-3)<br />

Mozart and Les Mis<br />

Presented by the Bismarck Mandan Civic Chorus<br />

and Missouri Valley Chamber Orchestra –<br />

Belle Mehus Auditorium, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 2-3)<br />

Monday, February 4:<br />

NDSC’s 40th Annual Safety and Health<br />

Conference<br />

- Bismarck Civic Center (Feb. 4-7)<br />

Tuesday, February 5:<br />

Explore Engineering<br />

- Bismarck Public Schools Career Academy,<br />

5:30 – 7:30 p.m.<br />

Wednesday, February 6:<br />

Live Music: Mike Swenson<br />

- Laughing Sun Brewery, 8 – 11p.m.<br />

Thursday, February 7:<br />

University of Mary Prayer Day<br />

- MacDowell Activity Center, 10 a.m.<br />

DECAdent Desserts<br />

Taste mouth-watering desserts and a chance to<br />

socialize with friends – IDEA Center, 7 – 9 p.m.<br />

Friday, February 8:<br />

Valentines Fine Dining Experience Benefit<br />

A special seven course meal with beer pairings<br />

and live music – Bismarck Municipal Country Club,<br />

5:30 – 10 p.m.<br />

Bobcats Hockey<br />

vs. Austin, VFW, 7:15 p.m. (Feb. 8-9)<br />

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PRCA Championship Rodeo<br />

- Bismarck Civic Center, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 8-9)<br />

Saturday, February 9:<br />

12th Annual Mother-Daughter Breakfast<br />

- Ramada Inn, 9:30 – 11 a.m.<br />

Frisky Ferrets!<br />

Animal Ed-Venture – Dakota Zoo, 2 – 4:30 p.m.<br />

Faerie Tales<br />

Dr. Beverly Everett and the BMSO are front and<br />

center in an all-orchestra program featuring music<br />

symphonic fairy tales – Bismarck Civic Center,<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

Sunday, February 10:<br />

I DO Bridal Show<br />

A one-stop wedding planning experience to possibly<br />

plan your entire wedding in just one day – Bismarck<br />

Civic Center, 12 – 4 p.m.<br />

Tuesday, February 12:<br />

KFYR Radio AGRI International Tradeshow<br />

- Bismarck Civic Center, 9 a.m. – 7 p.m. (Feb. 12-13)<br />

Wednesday, February 13:<br />

Live Music: Ben Suchy<br />

- Laughing Sun Brewery, 8 – 11 p.m.<br />

Friday, February 15:<br />

Bismarck Tribune Sports Show<br />

Bismarck Civic Center; Fri. 3 – 9 p.m.,<br />

Sat. 10 a.m. – 7 p.m., Sun. 12 – 5 p.m.<br />

Bobcats Hockey<br />

vs. Aberdeen, VFW, 7:15 p.m.<br />

Friday, February 22:<br />

Peter Rabbit<br />

The funny and fantastical fable - BSC, 1 – 4 p.m.<br />

2013 Home Show<br />

- Bismarck Civic Center, 3 – 9 p.m. (Feb. 22-24)<br />

NPB Presents Choregraphers’ Showcase<br />

- Belle Mehus Auditorium, 7:30 p.m. (Feb. 22-23)<br />

Thursday, February 28:<br />

Dakota Zoo Annual Meeting<br />

- Bismarck/Mandan Elks Lodge, 6 p.m.<br />

*The above are entertainment events in Bismarck-Mandan, which are subject to change<br />

Ingredients:<br />

20 oz prepared whole-wheat pizza dough<br />

1/4 cup smooth natural peanut butter<br />

3 tbsp water<br />

2 tsp reduced-sodium soy sauce<br />

2 tsp rice vinegar<br />

2 tsp minced fresh ginger<br />

1 clove garlic, minced<br />

1 tsp canola oil<br />

8 oz boneless, skinless chicken breast,<br />

trimmed and diced<br />

1 red bell pepper, diced<br />

4 scallions, thinly sliced<br />

2/3 cup shredded part-skim mozzarella cheese<br />

Directions:<br />

Place oven rack in the lowest position; preheat to<br />

450°F. Coat a large baking sheet with cooking spray.<br />

Roll out or stretch dough on a lightly floured surface<br />

into a rough 16-inch oval. Transfer to the baking<br />

sheet. Bake on the bottom rack until puffed and<br />

lightly crisped on the bottom, 8 to 10 minutes.<br />

Meanwhile, whisk peanut butter, water, soy sauce,<br />

vinegar, ginger and garlic in a small bowl until well<br />

combined.<br />

Heat oil in a medium nonstick skillet over mediumhigh<br />

heat. Add chicken and cook, stirring, until<br />

cooked through, 2 to 4 minutes. Transfer to a<br />

medium bowl. Add bell pepper, scallions and 1<br />

tablespoon of the peanut sauce to the chicken; toss<br />

to combine.<br />

Remove the crust from the oven; spread evenly with<br />

the remaining peanut sauce. Top with the chicken<br />

mixture, then sprinkle with cheese. Return the pizza<br />

to the oven and bake on the bottom rack until the<br />

crust is crispy and golden and the cheese is melted,<br />

11 to 13 minutes.<br />

Cook’s Tip:<br />

Look for balls of whole-wheat pizza dough,<br />

fresh or frozen, at your supermarket. Choose a<br />

brand without hydrogenated oils.<br />

THAI CHICKEN PIZZA<br />

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ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT HOBBY HUB<br />

FASHION CROSSWORD<br />

THE SKINNY ON SKINNY JEANS FOR<br />

MIDWESTERN MEN<br />

North Dakota is known nationally for<br />

having a strong economy and booming<br />

oil business, but when it comes to<br />

men’s fashion, the powerhouse state is<br />

not often on the nation’s radar. With the east coast<br />

containing one of the world’s fashion capitols, New<br />

York, and the west coast claiming Los Angeles as<br />

it’s fashion mecca, style in the Midwest often lags<br />

behind these fashion forward regions. But when it<br />

comes to the skinny jean fad, do Midwestern men<br />

have it right?<br />

It’s safe to say that fewer men in the Midwest<br />

wear skinny jeans, and without the correct under-<br />

Pulling off the men’s skinny jean can be difficult and look best on slim,<br />

younger men.<br />

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standing of when and how to wear them, they can<br />

be one of the biggest fashion disasters. “The most<br />

important thing to understand about skinny jeans<br />

is that they don’t make you look skinny,” said Men’s<br />

Health Fashion Director, Brian Boye. “They really<br />

work best on slim body types, and definitely skew<br />

a bit younger.”<br />

So how old is too old to wear skinny jeans? It’s a<br />

matter of opinion. Most fashion experts admit that<br />

unless you’re in a band, skinny jeans work best<br />

on those who are 30 and younger. Mick Jagger still<br />

wears them, but then again he’s a legend.<br />

If you’re a slender guy and you like the look of<br />

skinny jeans, there’s a right way<br />

to wear them. “The key characteristic<br />

of skinny jeans is that<br />

they fit close to the body not just<br />

above the knee, but below as<br />

well,” Boye said. “If your pants<br />

are tight enough for us to see the<br />

shape of your leg, your pants are<br />

too tight.”<br />

A slim, straight fit jean is a<br />

great option for someone who<br />

wants slim, but not tight jeans.<br />

“The slim straight fit is cut narrow<br />

through the thigh and slim<br />

below the knee, but not tight, so<br />

it won’t look like you’re wearing<br />

a pair of jeggings,” Boye said.<br />

“Look for jeans where you have<br />

about an extra inch of fabric<br />

above the knee [to pull outward],<br />

and about double that below the<br />

knee.”<br />

With so many skinny jeans do’s<br />

and don’ts, maybe the majority<br />

of Midwestern men have it right?<br />

Let’s leave the skinny jeans to<br />

those other “fashion forward” regions<br />

and keep our rugged style<br />

alive.<br />

Mandy Thomas is a local communicator,<br />

writer, graphic artist and photographer with<br />

a love for all things creative.<br />

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HOBBY HUB<br />

GOOD READS<br />

Visiting Tom<br />

by<br />

Michael Perry<br />

Your friend called the other<br />

day, but you had to call him<br />

back.<br />

You were on your way out<br />

the door and didn’t have<br />

time to talk. But when you<br />

return-phoned him, he was<br />

busy and said he’d call<br />

again.<br />

You’ve played phone tag<br />

like this before, and you<br />

know the only antidote is<br />

to make an appointment<br />

– which is funny because,<br />

once upon a time, you<br />

couldn’t understand the<br />

appeal of “visiting.” Now<br />

you wish you had more<br />

time to just sit and talk and<br />

listen because, as you’ll see<br />

in Visiting Tom by Michael<br />

Perry, you learn a lot, and a<br />

lot about life.<br />

For the extended book<br />

review, visit<br />

thecitymag.com<br />

Terri Schlichenmeyer is owner of<br />

The Bookworm Sez, LLC, based out of<br />

LaCrosse, Wis. and writes book reviews<br />

for publications all across the country.<br />

HOBBY HUB BUSINESS AND MONEY<br />

MOMMY BLOG BUSINESS HOW TO<br />

NETWORK WITH YOUR ‘MOPS’<br />

There’s an old saying, “Close one door and another one<br />

will open.” I feel like I have found the secret closet<br />

door where mom used to hide all the Christmas gifts.<br />

The best gift being MOPS. We aren’t talking about<br />

the sticks with stringy rags attached to the end, rather, a group<br />

of outstanding mothers who love their job. They are Mothers of<br />

Preschoolers. They meet as a professional group bi-monthly to<br />

network, share ideas, gain understanding and knowledge of the<br />

profession of motherhood.<br />

MOPS is an international non-profit group that has been<br />

around since 1981 however, the first MOPS meeting dates back<br />

to 1973. MOPS is geared for mothers working inside or outside<br />

the home that have children ages 0-5 to share ideas, network,<br />

as well as gain personal development. Every state has several<br />

chapters. Bismarck-Mandan currently has three active MOPS<br />

chapters. Says Bismarck-Mandan MOPS mom, Penny Kaldor,<br />

“MOPS saved me. Not only have I met new lifelong friends, I’ve<br />

also learned new skills and gained resources to help me be the<br />

best mother possible for my children.” MOPS is a great outlet<br />

for moms to:<br />

• share frustrations and questions on parenting.<br />

• learn from “Mentor Moms” who have older children with<br />

great advice.<br />

• listen to area professionals with parenting tips.<br />

• learn creative and fun activities you can do with your child.<br />

• gain personal development as a woman and mother.<br />

• meet new people in the same stage of life as you.<br />

• take a break with other moms while volunteers do activities<br />

with your child.<br />

• set up play dates for your child.<br />

• swap toys, clothes, and books at the “Blessings” table.<br />

Many of the MOPS chapters meet at local churches; however,<br />

you don’t have to be a certain religion or a member of a certain<br />

church to join a MOPS group. The yearly fee is $23.99 to MOPS<br />

International and $10/semester to your local chapters. Babysitting<br />

is provided at $1/child/meeting. By signing up, you also get<br />

a free magazine subscription and MOPS International website<br />

access with great tips and parenting advice. Moms can join<br />

MOPS at anytime. To find a local chapter and contacts near you<br />

visit www.mops.org. You can also visit the MOPS Facebook<br />

page by searching for MOPS international.<br />

Open the door and find your MOPS. Aside from your<br />

children, it will be one of the greatest gifts you could ever give<br />

yourself. Being a mother is of the highest professions in the<br />

world. Rather than getting paid in dollars, we are paid in kisses,<br />

hugs, smiles and giggles. Our value — priceless.<br />

Amy Jo Johnson is a full-time mommy and Mojo Radio personality<br />

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HOW TO:<br />

MAKE YOUR BUSINESS LAST OVER 10 YEARS<br />

Did you know that according to the<br />

Small Business Administration,<br />

seven out of ten new businesses survive<br />

at least two years and 51 percent<br />

survive at least five years? Here are some tips to<br />

help your business last a long time:<br />

Conduct strategic planning annually. Strategic<br />

planning requires that you develop a mission<br />

(why do we exist?), a vision (how do we see ourselves<br />

in the future?), short/long term objectives,<br />

implementation strategies (who will assist with<br />

what?), and plans for evaluation.<br />

Differentiate your business and your products<br />

or services from the competition. What sets you<br />

apart from your competitors?<br />

Create brand loyalty with your customers.<br />

Brand loyalty is the result of providing exceptional<br />

customer service. The key is to give more<br />

than what the customer expects by providing<br />

satisfaction.<br />

Keep consistent when providing quality products<br />

and services. Do not just sell your product<br />

or service, but the products or service’s benefits.<br />

Kevin Cavanagh, co-owner of Bismarck’s<br />

Bearscat Bakehouse, shares his secrets for success:<br />

• Keep doing what makes your business<br />

unique. We make great donuts from scratch<br />

and we always will, so that is our mainstay.<br />

• Respond to the changing world. We thought<br />

it was time for new name, new image, to<br />

reach out to our changing demographics.<br />

• Use the tools that are available to you, things<br />

like social media.<br />

• Treat the customers well. We are a small<br />

business where everyone should feel comfortable.<br />

We want you to have fun buying<br />

donuts, that is why we have a silly name. It<br />

is a great business to be in; people are always<br />

happy to come in and look at the tempting<br />

donuts; it is a fun experience. We go out of<br />

our way to take care of any special request<br />

that people may have.<br />

• Support the community. We donate donuts<br />

to all sorts or organizations and fundraisers<br />

throughout the community. We are<br />

also starting a program called “The Bakers<br />

Dozen” where we donate money to various<br />

organizations throughout the community.<br />

To sum it up, don’t allow possible failures to<br />

defeat you. Learn from your mistakes and view<br />

them as opportunities to grow. And remember,<br />

business owners, the ultimate secret to success is<br />

you!<br />

Kostas Voutsas, a tenured assistant professor of DSU at BSC,<br />

is a motivational speaker and corporate consultant.<br />

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CITY MAGAZINE SUCCESS UNDER 45<br />

SUCCESS UNDER 45<br />

JILL VANDEHOVEN<br />

Stylist/Owner<br />

DOB: Sept. 18, 1970<br />

High School: Carrington High School<br />

College: Mr. D’s Beauty College,<br />

Jamestown<br />

Family: Cassidy Jaz (15) and<br />

McCoy Maverick (12)<br />

Favorite Quote: “When we think we<br />

have it bad, there is always someone<br />

who has it worse.”<br />

Reading now: The E Myth Revisited by<br />

Michael Gerber<br />

Hobbies: Riding and being with my horses,<br />

they give me peace and being with my kids<br />

and family at the lake making memories<br />

and enjoying our blessings.<br />

At<br />

the ripe old age of 19, when<br />

many of her contemporaries<br />

were just starting college, Jill<br />

VandeHoven was starting her<br />

first business, a hair styling salon in<br />

Carrington. “I’ve always been a go-getter,”<br />

said VandeHoven.<br />

However, her aggressiveness had to be<br />

reined-in for a short time, as state cosmetology<br />

regulations required newly-minted<br />

stylists to work a minimum number of hours<br />

before operating a salon. So, she found a way<br />

around it. “When I first started, I had to hire<br />

a manager to work under,” she laughed. Now,<br />

twenty-three years later, VandeHoven’s business<br />

reach has spread beyond her hometown<br />

of Carrington into virtually every corner of<br />

the state.<br />

In addition to owning her own salon,<br />

VandeHoven owns Laser Hair Therapy of<br />

ND, a business that provides technology<br />

and training to stylists and others who want<br />

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to help clients re-grow and/or thicken their<br />

hair. “I was at a place in my career where I<br />

wanted to help people more, more than just<br />

styling their hair.” Laser Hair Therapy is a<br />

non-chemical, non-invasive treatment that<br />

uses low-level, non-thermal lasers to stimulate<br />

hair growth at the root level. Laser treatments<br />

are about 30 minutes, two or three<br />

times a week for six to 12 months, depending<br />

on need.<br />

When VandeHoven started using the technology<br />

in her own salon, she quickly discovered<br />

there was a need, as she booked more<br />

than a half-dozen clients in the first several<br />

weeks. She said most of her laser treatment<br />

clients are female, who are greatly affected<br />

by the stigma of hair loss, with some of them<br />

already suffering through other physical<br />

challenges, such as cancer treatments. “Some<br />

of them are in tears, because this is a big deal<br />

to them.”<br />

In addition to herself, her family and her<br />

faith, VandeHoven finds inspiration from<br />

her clients, many of whom she has gotten<br />

to know on a personal basis. In fact, when<br />

she was torn on whether to expand the laser<br />

therapy from her own shop into other parts<br />

of the state, she took the advice of a client<br />

who told her, “When it’s all said and done,<br />

people don’t regret what they do, they regret<br />

what they don’t do.” Thus, the expansion was<br />

born. Since, she has added her own business<br />

in Bismarck and has helped others get off the<br />

ground in Fargo, Grand Forks, Jamestown<br />

and Williston.<br />

‘‘I was at a place in my<br />

career where I wanted to<br />

help people more, more<br />

than just styling their hair.’’<br />

From the beginning, VandeHoven knew<br />

that being “good” in her business required<br />

people skills and technical skills. “I firmly believe<br />

that when you look in the mirror at the<br />

end of the day, if you can’t be proud of how<br />

you handled yourself that day or how you<br />

were to people; then you’ve failed that day.”<br />

But she also knew that to be “great” in<br />

business, strategic business acumen would be<br />

necessary, “I’ve always had a good business<br />

sense; trying to think ahead.” In that light she<br />

secured exclusive distributor rights to North<br />

Dakota and parts of Montana, South Dakota<br />

and Minnesota. She made sure the lasers she<br />

uses are stronger and more effective than<br />

those of her competitors and made sure she<br />

was covered in the unlikely event of failure.<br />

Despite the busy schedule that accompanies<br />

her recent and continued expansions,<br />

VandeHoven remains grounded, focusing<br />

on where it all started; in the salon, standing<br />

behind her clients. “I still love being a hair<br />

stylist. I want to style the hearts and hair of<br />

my clients.”<br />

A lifelong communicator and former reporter, Michael<br />

Lindblom is a student of dynamics of human interaction.<br />

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PET PAGE<br />

ADOPT ME- McLintock<br />

McLintock<br />

came to us via<br />

the Bismarck<br />

landfill. Last<br />

January, CDHS<br />

was attempting<br />

to catch a<br />

wiley, stray dog<br />

roaming the<br />

landfill and we<br />

captured this<br />

big fella instead!<br />

He was mad<br />

and scared...but mostly scared. He had hiding and hissing<br />

down to a science for months. However, we successfully<br />

waited him out. Since he finally was allowing us to pet him<br />

with him drooling in delight, he was ready for neutering and<br />

a good once-over by the vet. When we tested him for Feline<br />

Leukemia/Feline AIDS, he came back a very light positive<br />

for Feline Leukemia. We also discovered an old fracture on<br />

his front shoulder, which had healed but causes a slight<br />

limp when he walks.<br />

This past January, we re-tested him. McLintock’s<br />

second test came back negative! He is a still a shy guy, but<br />

a big friendly lover who will sit on your lap. It’s been a long<br />

time coming, but this one time landfill lounger is ready to<br />

move on to life as a pampered purr box!<br />

He may have used up a couple lives, but this former<br />

street cat is loving his retirement!<br />

For more information about Central Dakota Humane<br />

Society call 701.667.2020 or visit cdhs.com<br />

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COMMUNICATING BY E-MAIL<br />

E-mail has<br />

overtaken the<br />

telephone as the<br />

most important<br />

communication tool in<br />

business. Unfortunately<br />

technology-related stress<br />

has, at the same time,<br />

escalated. Avalanches of<br />

e-mail lead to lower quality<br />

work, higher anxiety<br />

levels and, according to<br />

one Australian study,<br />

significantly higher levels<br />

of workplace dissatisfaction<br />

and even anger.<br />

Studies note that although<br />

the average number<br />

of e-mails corporate<br />

employees receive per<br />

day is 105, the average<br />

worker can successfully handle only 50 e-mails a<br />

day without being pushed into the e-mail overload<br />

stress zone.<br />

Tighten the thread<br />

Set a good example in e-mail reduction by being<br />

judicial regarding to whom you send e-mails. If<br />

you send an e-mail to your entire company when<br />

it is only pertinent to two or three people (the rest<br />

being included on your list as a sort of vague FYI),<br />

you are costing your company the time that it takes<br />

for all the rest of the recipients to read, or at least<br />

scan, an e-mail which doesn’t have any relevance to<br />

them. In addition to the time wasted, you may also<br />

be contributing to their e-mail overload stress.<br />

Interestingly, in the past few months many news<br />

articles have been surfacing citing companies that<br />

are installing plugins that restrict or block the “reply<br />

all” option. Curtailing the “reply all” option not<br />

only cuts down on wasted time but also prevents<br />

e-mails containing sensitive information from accidentally<br />

being sent to unintended users.<br />

Microsoft recently developed a free tool for Outlook<br />

which permits users to create messages that<br />

disallow recipients on the same exchange domain<br />

from using reply-all or forwarding the messages<br />

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Use good judgement when sending e-mails to your co-workers.<br />

that they send. It’s called the NoReplyAll Outlook<br />

add-in and can easily be found and downloaded<br />

from the Microsoft website.<br />

Recent research indicates that one out of three<br />

e-mails gets deleted without being read. If your<br />

incoming e-mails have accurate title lines you<br />

should be able to ascertain if they are frivolous or<br />

work-related. For e-mails titled “joke of the day,”<br />

hitting the delete button shouldn’t be a problem. In<br />

prioritizing your e-mail, think about treating it as<br />

you do your regular snail mail. You wouldn’t keep<br />

junk mail in the same pile as purchase orders and<br />

the same holds true with e-mail.<br />

And finally, don’t expect privacy. The rule of<br />

thumb is to not put anything in an e-mail that you<br />

wouldn’t hang on your office wall. E-mail systems<br />

are not infallible. A determined hacker may be able<br />

to break into your e-mail system or your message<br />

may be inadvertently sent to the wrong person. In<br />

addition, it is likely that the administrator of your<br />

company’s e-mail system has the ability to read all<br />

of your e-mail messages.<br />

Debora Dragseth, Ph.D. is a tenured professor of business at<br />

Dickinson State University. Her column provides common sense<br />

answers to common workplace issues. If you have a question<br />

you would like Dr. Dragseth to consider for her column, you may<br />

e-mail her at dr.dragseth@gmail.com<br />

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now it’s different in every room.”<br />

It’s not uncommon for a rich, dark mahogany<br />

in a home office to spill over into a black rub<br />

finish of a theatre room, while the laundry room<br />

sports a fresh, bright feel with white cabinets, and<br />

the bathroom vanity looks like a piece of furniture<br />

with its glazed opaque finish.<br />

“There is so much information on the internet<br />

that people can find whatever they want, so<br />

people bring their ideas back to me all the time,”<br />

Emmel said.<br />

But it doesn’t bother him one bit. After all, he prides himself on<br />

his ability to avoid a ‘standard’ way of creating cabinetry.<br />

“Where we excel is that we don’t get locked into, ‘This is the<br />

way we do it,’” Emmel said. “Someone brings in a picture, and<br />

we can accomplish what they’re after. I’ve never been scared to<br />

get out of my comfort zone. It stretches you, and you come up<br />

with some neat ideas.”<br />

Many customers want contemporary cabinetry with clean<br />

lines and dark finishes. Emmel rises to the challenge of rounded<br />

soffits, the appearance of floating islands or buffets, and cupboards<br />

that run all the way to the ceiling.<br />

“When we do molding it’s somewhat easier because I can hide<br />

screws and fasteners,” Emmel said. “So if there’s no molding, I<br />

have to get this big, perfectly smooth panel installed without<br />

anyone seeing a nail. It’s fun to have the challenges because you<br />

start with piece of wood and at the end of the day you have<br />

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BODY TALK LEISURE<br />

ARE YOU A “HAND TALKER?”<br />

Whether they are grasping, touching,<br />

holding, or feeling; our hands play<br />

an intricate role in our nonverbal<br />

communication process. Studies<br />

show that the human brain sends a high number<br />

of signals to the hands and fingers in order to communicate<br />

subconscious messages.<br />

The following are a few examples of our hands<br />

doing the talking.<br />

• Confidence is demonstrated by a speaker<br />

when their thumbs are in an upright position.<br />

Extreme confidence or deep thinking is shown<br />

when the fingers form the “steeple” position.<br />

As soon a confidence decreases, the “steeple”<br />

will vanish. A “steeple” pointing in a downward<br />

position usually shows that listening is<br />

occurring.<br />

• Stress is signaled through the rubbing of the<br />

hands. The rubbing is an attempt to pacify or<br />

calm the mind. A high level of stress or a feeling<br />

of hopelessness is shown when the hand<br />

rub occurs while the fingers are interlaced.<br />

• When hands are in the pockets, dominance<br />

and confidence is expressed when the thumbs<br />

remain out of the pockets, usually pointing<br />

toward the midsection. Hands that are buried<br />

or hidden (including the thumbs) inside of<br />

pockets show insecurity.<br />

• The hand and nose play an interesting<br />

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relationship, specifically when honesty is questioned.<br />

When one touches or rubs their nose<br />

while recalling an event, exaggeration of deceit<br />

is signaled. This is because we have erectile<br />

tissues in our noses, which engorge with blood<br />

when we lie, causing a tingling sensation. This<br />

itch often requires a nose touch to satisfy. A<br />

nose rub or touch while listing indicates that<br />

the listener is attempting to suppress a comment.<br />

• A finger on the chin indicates thinking. If the<br />

finger remains on the chin while speaking,<br />

honesty is often exhibited. If the finger moves<br />

up to overlap both lips, much like a “shushing”<br />

motion, dishonestly is signaled. This is the<br />

brains attempt at “shushing” ourselves.<br />

• Two fingers tapping or employing a walking<br />

motion while the individual is speaking is a<br />

sign of discomfort steaming from deceit. Their<br />

fingers are mimicking what they want their<br />

legs to do: walk away.<br />

Your hands can show your excitement, convey<br />

feelings, or show your hidden thoughts. Until next<br />

time, keep your thumbs up, and leave your nose<br />

alone.<br />

Mike Wetsch is a criminal justice professional with<br />

experience in security, corrections, policing and currently<br />

as a criminal justice instructor with United Tribes Technical<br />

College.”<br />

SKIING THE PRAIRIE<br />

North Dakota may<br />

not be known for<br />

its downhill ski<br />

runs but there is<br />

one form of skiing where we<br />

fair quite well – cross-country.<br />

It may be more popular in<br />

Canada or Norway but North<br />

Dakota is ripe with opportunities<br />

to get out on the trails.<br />

Anywhere from Beaver Creek<br />

to Turtle River state parks, we<br />

have both groomed and undisturbed<br />

opportunities.<br />

Cross-country skiing is one<br />

of those sports that is more of<br />

a challenge or workout than it<br />

seems, but definitely something<br />

anyone can get the hang<br />

of. And, it is most certainly a calorie-burner if you’ve made<br />

any New Year’s resolutions to work off those Christmas cookies<br />

and cocktails. As someone who prides herself on being in<br />

shape, I was surprised by how fast my heart rate elevated the<br />

first time I ever tried cross-country skiing.<br />

What’s great about cross-country skiing is we live in a<br />

very beautiful state for many months of the year, the weather<br />

isn’t conducive to being outside. Cross-country skiing is an<br />

excellent solution. It keeps you active, and therefore warm,<br />

while you are taking in the scenery of our great outdoors. It’s<br />

exhilarating to be able to enjoy North Dakota while the snow<br />

still dominates.<br />

North Dakota Parks and Recreation features a list of all<br />

67.75 miles of cross-country ski trails, as well as up-to-date<br />

trail conditions. Fort Stevenson State Park near Garrison is the<br />

shortest groomed trail at three miles. At 10 miles, Lake Sakakawea<br />

State Park near Pick <strong>City</strong> offers the longest groomed<br />

trail. If you are more adventurous or experienced and want<br />

to blaze your own way through the snow, try the four mile<br />

Lewis and Clark State Park near Epping, which doesn’t offer<br />

groomed trails, or the five mile Missouri River Natural Area in<br />

Bismarck-Mandan.<br />

If you’re giving this a shot for the first time, I recommend<br />

you try Cross Ranch State Park near Center, because you can<br />

rent your skis for a nominal fee and its trails are groomed.<br />

Visit www.parkrec.nd.gov/activities/skiing.html for trail<br />

maps and more.<br />

Amanda Godfread is a freelance writer and communications strategist.<br />

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TRAVEL<br />

THE BADLANDS<br />

WHAT YOU WON’T SEE FROM I-94<br />

For most North Dakotans, the Badlands<br />

begin at mile marker 32 on Interstate-94,<br />

just around the corner from the Painted<br />

Canyon Overlook, and end at mile<br />

marker 27, the off-ramp to go into Medora. That’s<br />

about as much as many of us see when we take our<br />

occasional trip to Medora.<br />

The Painted Canyon Overlook offers one of<br />

the most spectacular vistas this side of the Grand<br />

Canyon. And it’s easy to access, right there beside<br />

the freeway.<br />

The Medora Musical is high-class music and<br />

theater, and it is set in one of America’s most<br />

unusual and breathtaking outdoor amphitheaters.<br />

For many of us, that is a complete Badlands experience.<br />

But there is so much more to the North Dakota<br />

Badlands such as ice caves, burning coal veins,<br />

petrified forests, Juneberry bushes, Bullion Butte,<br />

the Elkhorn Ranch, golden eagles, prairie dog<br />

towns, campgrounds and hiking trails. And some<br />

special places, still roadless, and open only to those<br />

who’ll leave the car behind and get out and walk<br />

into areas that remain today nearly as wild as they<br />

were the day young Theodore Roosevelt stepped<br />

off the train in 1883.<br />

In this new Badlands feature in <strong>City</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>,<br />

we’ll take you to some of those places.<br />

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We’ll explore the largest National Grassland in<br />

America, a million acres that we, as citizens of<br />

America, own in perpetuity and have the responsibility<br />

to protect from overzealous developers.<br />

We’ll share concerns for the future of our last few<br />

remaining wilderness areas.<br />

As development, for example, reaches farther<br />

every day, we’ll look at which areas should be set<br />

aside for wildlife and the humans who value that<br />

wildlife and its habitat: hunters, birders, hikers,<br />

photographers, bicyclists and horseback riders.<br />

And as we travel through the Badlands, we’ll<br />

share with you the magical beauty of these special<br />

places through the camera lens of one of North<br />

Dakota’s best photographers, Bill Kingsbury, who<br />

travels the length of the Little Missouri River valley<br />

each year in search of quiet, interrupted only<br />

by the click of his shutter and the lonely call of a<br />

coyote at sunrise.<br />

We’ll look forward to visiting with you each<br />

month about the Badlands, and we hope to see you<br />

on some of those back roads. Just not too many of<br />

you at once.<br />

Jim Fuglie is a former North Dakota Tourism Director and has<br />

been exploring the back roads of the Badlands since his first rip<br />

there with his parents as a boy in 1959.<br />

WESTERN FEATURE<br />

ENTERTAINER OF THE YEAR<br />

not official since the<br />

award doesn’t actually<br />

exist and yet, you’ll find<br />

Noit’s<br />

few people who’ll argue<br />

with the fact that Josh Nichols is the “2012<br />

Dickinson Entertainer of the Year.”<br />

Officially, he is the marketing specialist for<br />

the Strom Center for Entrepreneurship and<br />

Innovation. In addition he is the executive<br />

director of Arts North Dakota, past president<br />

and co-founder of Sneak Pique Productions,<br />

(a Dickinson community theater group), a<br />

Southwestern North Dakota Museum Foundation<br />

board member and he is involved in<br />

the revitalization of downtown Dickinson,<br />

having recently organized a “Ladies Night<br />

Out.”<br />

However, the place where he really shines<br />

is on stage in front of the bright lights. In<br />

fact, if you need a master of ceremonies who<br />

can ad-lib on the spot, Nichols is your man.<br />

If you need an actor who can leave audiences<br />

rolling in the aisles, he’s even better.<br />

From Jackie Gleason to Theodore<br />

Roosevelt and the Ghost of Christmas Present,<br />

Nichols plays them all very humorously<br />

and tends to stand out above the crowd in<br />

every theater production he is involved in.<br />

Which wouldn’t be so amazing if he was a<br />

theater major with loads of acting experience,<br />

but he’s not. He’s actually a 2007 Dickinson<br />

State University graduate who earned a<br />

degree in computer science with a minor in<br />

communications.<br />

“I did a lot of theater in college,” Nichols<br />

said, “which isn’t typical of a computer guy<br />

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I would think.” Then again, nothing about<br />

Nichols is typical.<br />

Born in Alexandria, LA, he came to<br />

Dickinson when he was in the second grade,<br />

attended Dickinson High School and then<br />

DSU because, “It was the next thing to do<br />

and because Dickinson State was the closet<br />

college to well... Dickinson.”<br />

While there, he really got “involved,” loved<br />

the experience, graduated and then started<br />

working for the TRiO Student Support Services<br />

before moving on to his present job at<br />

the Strom Center.<br />

So what’s next for Nichols?<br />

“I keep my options open,” he said, “hold<br />

on tight, and ride the wild ride that is the life<br />

Josh Nichols!”<br />

Kevin Holten is the communications and events<br />

coordinator for the Dickinson State University Foundation.<br />

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